line between hooking up and the busiess?

[Guest mickyf]

i was wondering, when an escort meets someone at a club,online etc. and you're interested in the person, when do you decide that the relationship is business or pleasure? and how do you tell a guy this once you've been talking for awhile and it seems to be mutual.

[FrancoDiSantisxxx]

That Fine Line

 

I make it a personal practice to make it clear to anyone who approaches me that when I am on line with my Franco di Santis profile that it is the same as being at work. If they are not interested in working with me, I thank them politely for their interest, especially the ones who request pictures, are nice enough to say they like them but cannot afford or cannot pay.

 

Often, at a later day, some of these men have turned out to be clients and with some, even if they have not turned out to be clients, I maintain a short, playful on-line banter.

 

I do not "play" as it is put while I am working. Some escorts do. The problem with this approach is that people talk and say, well Franco had sex with me last night and I did not have to pay. I personally believe that this undermines the whole professionalism I strive hard to maintain so I do not indulge in this practice.

 

I do have another screen name, which I will be the first to admit I am rarely on line with, that I use for those rare occasions when I am in the mood to play. I also have an extremely good memory and can separate clients from potential sex partners. But in my case, as I have been serial dating for the last nine months, it has not been an issue. I believe I have been on line with that name no more than twice in the last six months.

 

I thank them for their interest and explain to them, as strange as it may seem, that I have a boyfriend, which has often been the case. It is just that these boyfreinds of mine have been other escorts or escorts/adult film entertainers.