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I don't know if he's a scammer or what, but he's a complete asshole.  I was scheduled with him for 6:45/7 on a Friday night in an inconvenient suburb of Dallas (ie - 30 min drive).  But we never met - here's how it went down.

6:02 he confirms we're still on for 6:45/7, so I leave my house at 6:15

6:40 I left him know I'm early but say no rush

6:52 he texts and says he just got home but needs to shower

7:06 I ask if he's almost ready

7:08 he says he needs 2 min because he got a phone call

7:14 i ask if I should just go home at this point (I'm an idiot - CLEARLY - for giving him the benefit of the doubt this long)

7:15 he says hold on he's on the phone

7:17 he says hang tight

7:18 I say you've been saying that for 30 minutes I'm out

7:21 he asks if I'm still there and explains that he had to "call his partner for taxes"

7:21 I say I'm only five minutes away but if he's actually ready I can turn around (I'm an IDIOT).  I don't hear back for a few minutes and at 7:25 say: "So you're still on the phone? And no clue when you might be done? And just thought it was cool to ask me to wait in the car for 30-45 min past when we were scheduled?"

7:30 he says he needs 10 minutes (which, just, LOLOLOLOL)

I explain that he said he needed 2 minutes 22 minutes ago so I will continue driving home.  I tell him to get bent and that I will be letting people know on this forum that he's an asshole.

7:41 (presumably still on the phone) his attempt at an apology: "I had very important things to deal with because I haven’t been home in Over a month and I had take care of it today. Different time zone man so it was imperative for me to do it today I do apologize"

Me: "And you had no idea that you had to do those things when you scheduled with a client for 7 tonight?? Your inability to manage your time or be considerate of the time of others isn’t my problem. I really hope this business isnt a significant source of revenue for you. Bc no one who checks that forum is going to hire you anytime soon"

Him: I don't live here boo. you good.

Me: Lol it's not just a Dallas forum boo.

 

Get bent, asshole.

 

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17 hours ago, preppystudent said:

I don't know if he's a scammer or what, but he's a complete asshole.  I was scheduled with him for 6:45/7 on a Friday night in an inconvenient suburb of Dallas (ie - 30 min drive).  But we never met - here's how it went down.

6:02 he confirms we're still on for 6:45/7, so I leave my house at 6:15

6:40 I left him know I'm early but say no rush

6:52 he texts and says he just got home but needs to shower

7:06 I ask if he's almost ready

7:08 he says he needs 2 min because he got a phone call

7:14 i ask if I should just go home at this point (I'm an idiot - CLEARLY - for giving him the benefit of the doubt this long)

7:15 he says hold on he's on the phone

7:17 he says hang tight

7:18 I say you've been saying that for 30 minutes I'm out

7:21 he asks if I'm still there and explains that he had to "call his partner for taxes"

7:21 I say I'm only five minutes away but if he's actually ready I can turn around (I'm an IDIOT).  I don't hear back for a few minutes and at 7:25 say: "So you're still on the phone? And no clue when you might be done? And just thought it was cool to ask me to wait in the car for 30-45 min past when we were scheduled?"

7:30 he says he needs 10 minutes (which, just, LOLOLOLOL)

I explain that he said he needed 2 minutes 22 minutes ago so I will continue driving home.  I tell him to get bent and that I will be letting people know on this forum that he's an asshole.

7:41 (presumably still on the phone) his attempt at an apology: "I had very important things to deal with because I haven’t been home in Over a month and I had take care of it today. Different time zone man so it was imperative for me to do it today I do apologize"

Me: "And you had no idea that you had to do those things when you scheduled with a client for 7 tonight?? Your inability to manage your time or be considerate of the time of others isn’t my problem. I really hope this business isnt a significant source of revenue for you. Bc no one who checks that forum is going to hire you anytime soon"

Him: I don't live here boo. you good.

Me: Lol it's not just a Dallas forum boo.

 

Get bent, asshole.

 

If it makes you feel any better, your post pissed me off so much that I reached out to him, discussed his services and booked at a premium for a two hour massage at a much higher rate than I would really pay...he was excited.    I then told him I  read a review online and loosely described your situation so I needed to cancel.   

He almost got to the point of begging after telling me the review was "a bitter ex", wasn't accurate, and then admitting he had a "situation" he had to deal with.    So at least he feels like he lost a pretty great payday as a result of a bad review.

It's not my nature to do something like that normally, but I've had what you described happen to me before and it's infuriating -- especially when they minimize it with something like "I don't live here boo".  Nothing more infuriating, especially when there's really nothing you can do about it.  

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Typing too fast and not proofreading, so edited to correct misspellings.
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3 hours ago, GI Joe Doll said:

If it makes you feel any better, your post pissed me off so much that I reached out to him, discussed his services and booked at a premium for a two hour massage at a much higher rate than I would really pay...he was excited.    I then told him I  read a review online and loosely described your situation so I needed to cancel.   

He almost got to the point of begging after telling me the review was "a bitter ex", wasn't accurate, and then admitting he had a "situation" he had to deal with.    So at least he feels like he lost a pretty great payday as a result of a bad review.

It's not my nature to do something like that normally, but I've had what you described happen to me before and it's infuriating -- especially when they minimize it with something like "I don't live here boo".  Nothing more infuriating, especially when there's really nothing you can do about it.  

You are the hero we need but don't deserve.  Like I get that shit comes up, but it's just so insulting to think I'm too fucking stupid to realize that I'm being lied to - NO ONE has emergency tax planning sessions at 7pm on a Friday night (even if they've been traveling lolol) that they didn't know about at 6:50pm.  And how on Earth could a call that was supposed to last 2 minutes at 7:08 need to continue on for 40 minutes - on a Friday night.  What pisses me off more than anything is how he had the fucking nerve to act like I had no reason to be annoyed - as if it is common place for people to drive 30 minutes to an appointment (in ANY line of work), be asked to wait 45 minutes in their car and then be understanding that the service provider had an emergency tax planning call come up.

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21 hours ago, preppystudent said:

You are the hero we need but don't deserve.  Like I get that shit comes up, but it's just so insulting to think I'm too fucking stupid to realize that I'm being lied to - NO ONE has emergency tax planning sessions at 7pm on a Friday night (even if they've been traveling lolol) that they didn't know about at 6:50pm.  And how on Earth could a call that was supposed to last 2 minutes at 7:08 need to continue on for 40 minutes - on a Friday night.  What pisses me off more than anything is how he had the fucking nerve to act like I had no reason to be annoyed - as if it is common place for people to drive 30 minutes to an appointment (in ANY line of work), be asked to wait 45 minutes in their car and then be understanding that the service provider had an emergency tax planning call come up.

He replied back again and said you were mentally ill.   He's really pissed off.   

People like him need to learn that you don't dick people around, especially if you're selling a service, without repercussions.   And it would piss me off just the same if it were the other way around with a client doing that to a provider.   It's just basic respect for other peoples' time.

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1 hour ago, GI Joe Doll said:

He replied back again and said you were mentally ill.   He's really pissed off.   

People like him need to learn that you don't dick people around, especially if you're selling a service, without repercussions.   And it would piss me off just the same if it were the other way around with a client doing that to a provider.   It's just basic respect for other peoples' time.

Yep and at no point did it occur to him to just come clean and stop being an asshole about it.

And totally agreed if it were a client that did that - if a friend stood me up for 45 minutes with totally bullshit excuses and never apologized for it, I'd stop being friends with them.

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On 4/1/2022 at 6:06 PM, preppystudent said:

I don't know if he's a scammer or what, but he's a complete asshole.  I was scheduled with him for 6:45/7 on a Friday night in an inconvenient suburb of Dallas (ie - 30 min drive).  But we never met - here's how it went down.

6:02 he confirms we're still on for 6:45/7, so I leave my house at 6:15

6:40 I left him know I'm early but say no rush

6:52 he texts and says he just got home but needs to shower

7:06 I ask if he's almost ready

7:08 he says he needs 2 min because he got a phone call

7:14 i ask if I should just go home at this point (I'm an idiot - CLEARLY - for giving him the benefit of the doubt this long)

7:15 he says hold on he's on the phone

7:17 he says hang tight

7:18 I say you've been saying that for 30 minutes I'm out

7:21 he asks if I'm still there and explains that he had to "call his partner for taxes"

7:21 I say I'm only five minutes away but if he's actually ready I can turn around (I'm an IDIOT).  I don't hear back for a few minutes and at 7:25 say: "So you're still on the phone? And no clue when you might be done? And just thought it was cool to ask me to wait in the car for 30-45 min past when we were scheduled?"

7:30 he says he needs 10 minutes (which, just, LOLOLOLOL)

I explain that he said he needed 2 minutes 22 minutes ago so I will continue driving home.  I tell him to get bent and that I will be letting people know on this forum that he's an asshole.

7:41 (presumably still on the phone) his attempt at an apology: "I had very important things to deal with because I haven’t been home in Over a month and I had take care of it today. Different time zone man so it was imperative for me to do it today I do apologize"

Me: "And you had no idea that you had to do those things when you scheduled with a client for 7 tonight?? Your inability to manage your time or be considerate of the time of others isn’t my problem. I really hope this business isnt a significant source of revenue for you. Bc no one who checks that forum is going to hire you anytime soon"

Him: I don't live here boo. you good.

Me: Lol it's not just a Dallas forum boo.

 

Get bent, asshole.

 

Something similar happened to me with someone named France_Rocks. I ended up waiting in a motel parking lot for 45 min after a 30 min drive there. I was polite the entire time even after deciding to leave, and the next morning he sent me a message saying he fell asleep. I wondered how he could reply to texts saying "I need X more minutes, sorry" when he was asleep. I just blocked him. My review on rm was denied because I said we never met because we hadn't.

 

All my rant to say, I'll too be staying away from Energy Massage by Daniel. Ty.

 

I wish there was a place to report these things beyond random threads.

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On 4/2/2022 at 11:05 AM, GI Joe Doll said:

If it makes you feel any better, your post pissed me off so much that I reached out to him, discussed his services and booked at a premium for a two hour massage at a much higher rate than I would really pay...he was excited.    I then told him I  read a review online and loosely described your situation so I needed to cancel.   

He almost got to the point of begging after telling me the review was "a bitter ex", wasn't accurate, and then admitting he had a "situation" he had to deal with.    So at least he feels like he lost a pretty great payday as a result of a bad review.

It's not my nature to do something like that normally, but I've had what you described happen to me before and it's infuriating -- especially when they minimize it with something like "I don't live here boo".  Nothing more infuriating, especially when there's really nothing you can do about it.  

 You are a rockstar @GI Joe DollAnd GOD D*MN I love this Forum. 

And y'all.  👏

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