Is gay man more picky than straight man?

[Trixie]

I think our new friend Jarrod-something has brought up some valid points, but perhaps rather than limiting his blunt observations to the male gay community, we might expand them to the human condition in general.

 

First of all, we all, as men, must admit that when it comes to sex and relationships, we think solely with our dicks. "tsk, tsk, Trixie," many of you might be saying, "you are peddling stereotypes here!"

 

Be that as it may, stereotypes do not appear out of thin air. All men, gay or straight, approach seeking a frolic-friend purely from a position of physicality. At least in their first 10-20 years of sexual maturity... some men do start hunting from a different angle after that. But it is truly the lustmobile that takes us everywhere we go. Any staying power a sexual tryst might have after the first week or so is pure luck of the draw.

 

And why do fat, ugly, poor, old gay men lust after the young and beautiful? Well, duh! They are young and beautiful, two aspects of Life we fetishize, and for good reason. The fetishization of aspects of Life (and the body) is how the Penis thinks, how it discriminates between Object A and Object B. Early on in Life, certain things are impressed upon our sub-conscious, and when we reach our sexual awakening, those are the things that impress Mr. Dick.

 

Jarrod wonders why so many hot straight men are seen with ugly gals... well, that's too easy to answer. 'Tis no noble act, nor indication of a relationship based on lofty principles. Fat, ugly girls almost always have big tits, and tits are one of the things that Mr.Dick Heterosexual adores best. Nearly any other aspect of a girl's body/personality can be ignored or tolerated so long as the ta-ta's are bodacious.

 

Anyway, to make a long story short, that's just the way it is, and it's not going to change any time soon. The young and attractive float around on clouds, and the rest of us suck. But it's ok, Jarrod, you see, it's just because of that inequality that God invented Prostitution. You mentioned something about being poor, and yes, that will limit how often you can rent, but with sacrifice, you can still rent. For instance, your family doesn't really need Christmas gifts. Just leave a half-hearted X-mas greeting on their answering machine, and save the cash for yourself.

 

BTW, I am totally on the same page as you about getting old, Jarrod. Great age is for the heteros, and that is why I plan to change my sex when I reach 67. Little old ladies are fun, but cranky, farty, old geezers are just a drag, no matter how much money they have.

 

Best Wishes during this holiday Season of Light,

 

La Trix

[+ Lucky]

One other thing is that the guys here who talk about their objects of desire are guys who have chosen to hire for sex. Given that, we want to spend our money on sexual fantasies- the cuter guys, the big dicks, kinky specialists, or whatever turns us on. If we weren't paying, then we might be more down to earth about what we could realistically obtain for a sexual partner. So, what we hear here must be taken as an exception to the expression of desire and not the everyday lust search.

 

When I began developing my interest in Asian men, I thought I was set for life as so many Asians sought older partners. That doesn't happen so much now that I am the older one. Plus, Asian men in the 80s seemed to want a Caucasian partner, but now they have themselves discovered the joys of Asian partners.

[Guest zipperzone]

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>>Don't be absurd. You CHOSE to be gay so now just choose to

>be

>>straight, you know, like all those Right Wing Christian

>Whack

>>Jobs tell us to........

>

>I'm sorry if you are upset by the last part of my 2nd post. I

>don't mean any political agenda here, just to show my

>frustration to the harsh reality of discrimination among gay

>community.

 

I'm not upset in the least - my comment was simply meant to bring some levity to the discussion which I thought was getting rather heavy. Obviously I missed the mark.

 

Note to self... ALWAYS use smileys