Vetting Escorts

[Guest davebk]

If the escort is well reviewed and people on this board has vouched for someone, I'll typically send an email to the escort, describing what I'm looking for, and checking to make sure it is a fit. Then, so long as I get some bit of communication back and a sense that we're on the same page, I'm pretty comfortable booking.

 

With an unreviewed guy or someone less known, I tend to want quite a bit more back and forth with the escort to make sure it is a match and that he is willing to engage the client to know my wants. In a sense, I make him prove himself a little more if I don't have a strong sense that he's already been vetted by others. If the communication from a well known provider is a little short, I tend to go with it. If the communication is poor or unresponsive with a guy not as well known, I move on very quickly.

[jtwalker]

Also I wish I knew how to reverse image like some guys here do, you find out if they are real or fakes

 

1) Save the image to your drive

2) Open Google.com in a browser

3) Select "Images" in the upper-right corner of the main google window

4) Click the Camera

5) Select "Upload an Image"

6) Find the file on your computer and click Search

[+ keroscenefire]

A potential snag is that early 20’s guys will usually resist this and they absolutely hate to speak on the phone.

 

It is true, but I absolutely require it if they are at either a hotel or a secured building. My bad experience actually was a direct result of just that type of place. If they can't come downstairs and meet me and "escort" me up to their room/apartment, that is a huge red flag for me and I have even walked away last minute at such a situation.

[jtwalker]

I currently look for...

 

- 10+ reviews with a 4.75 rating or better - Sometimes I make an exception if there is a really great review on daddys.

- Reviews from people who have some history on RM

- Nothing in the text of the reviews that is off-putting

- Face Pic

- Recent Pictures that are consistent and at least some that don't look heavily edited.

- At least a year of history on RM

- Someone that is at least an 8 in the looks department and takes the right position

- No signs of PNP

 

I usually won't contact someone unless they hit all of these, so my options have been very limited to say the least. After my crazy encounter, I stopped trusting my judgement and tried to become more scientific.

 

I tried to ditch my list and take a chance. I don't know how all of you have such great luck, but the guy I met was a complete waste of time.

[Maximiliam]

I tried to ditch my list and take a chance. I don't know how all of you have such great luck, but the guy I met was a complete waste of time.

How was it, what did he do pm me

[+ keroscenefire]

Another thing that I think is telling is how they react when you tell an escort you're not meeting up with them. Often when I am in the mood to hire or am traveling to a new city, I will put feelers out to a few different guys that catch my eye. Inevitably I only end up with one of them (or maybe 2 on a trip). I always communicate politely to the guys I end up not meeting (it's often usually just that they were late to reply), "Sorry but I decided to go with another gentleman this evening, but thanks for your response." It's interesting how a decent percentage will get bent out of shape..those are the ones that I definitely do not reach out to again. The ones that are chill I definitely have reached out to again and have met for future meetings.

[+ LIguy]

Really ?? teach me because I do that and million things come up

you need patience and just keep scrolling

[Pepper Young]

When I get serious about hiring, I look for >>>

At least 5+ photos, one showing a clear face pic

Reviews, preferably one or more in the past couple months (someone working a year plus with no reviews is a red flag)

Review ratings greater than 4.75 (you can't please 'em all!)

Careful reading of his "I am into" section on RM (are you into it too?)

Name search on this forum

Look up area code on his contact number (just curious)

There are other factors like size, cut/uncut, looks, that are totally subjective (beauty's where you find it), but those are my mechanics when hiring.

[dutchal]

1. Reverse image search of pics--you can just drag and drop into google images from rentmen.eu. If it leads to instagram or twitter or onlyfans, etc., check what's visible at those sites.

2. Google his phone number and do a search for his phone number at Facebook.

3. Check the rentmen reviews--look at the number and timing sequence compared to when the ad appeared, check the text comments using hide.me, and research the reviewers using their screenname, also check for any comments about the reviewers here (a few are notorious).

4. See if there's anything at daddysreviews.

5. Search here, if no info, then do a 411.

6. PM/DM anyone who mentions personal experience.

7. Make contact through rentmen im and see how the communications go. Can proceed to texting with the provider, especially if he declines to communicate with rentmen im.

8. If you're still hesitant but hopeful, try to make the first meeting at a neutral site before you go to his/your place. Some providers will agree, many will not.

Edited January 6, 2021 by dutchal

[Maximiliam]

1. Reverse image search of pics--you can just drag and drop into google images from rentmen.eu. If it leads to instagram or twitter or onlyfans, etc., check what's visible at those sites.

2. Google his phone number and do a search for his phone number at Facebook.

3. Check the rentmen reviews--look at the number and timing sequence compared to when the ad appeared, check the text comments using hide.me, and research the reviewers using their screenname, also check for any comments about the reviewers here (a few are notorious).

4. See if there's anything at daddysreviews.

5. Search here, if no info, then do a 411.

6. PM/DM anyone who mentions personal experience.

7. Make contact through rentmen im and see how the communications go. Can proceed to texting with the provider, especially if he declines to communicate with rentmen im.

8. If you're still hesitant but hopeful, try to make the first meeting at a neutral site before you go to his/your place. Some providers will agree, many will not.

Why go to a neutral site,?

[Merboy]

I honestly would not go with any escort unless they were favorably reviewed by this forum. This forum exists for a reason!

[+ FrankR]

If you're still hesitant but hopeful, try to make the first meeting at a neutral site before you go to his/your place. Some providers will agree, many will not.

 

 

Why go to a neutral site,?

 

If you meet at a Starbucks or in a hotel lobby, you can look him in the eye, get a feel for his personality and how accurate his pics are and walk away if he is not what he claimed to be.

[+ keroscenefire]

A potential snag is that early 20’s guys will usually resist this and they absolutely hate to speak on the phone.

 

I often set up the meeting through text. But like I definitely do not try to go up to an apartment or hotel room to meet an escort. I require that the escort meet me outside of the building. Even if it's just a quick hello and a shake of the hands just to get a bit of a feel for the guy and so he can literally "escort" me up to the room.

[Maximiliam]

I often set up the meeting through text. But like I definitely do not try to go up to an apartment or hotel room to meet an escort. I require that the escort meet me outside of the building. Even if it's just a quick hello and a shake of the hands just to get a bit of a feel for the guy and so he can literally "escort" me up to the room.

I always meet mine in the lobby first . I don't want a psycho showing up in my room

[DallasClient]

I guess I take more risks. I look for new guys all the time. I prefer meeting at my house and just book a session. I'll say we can have drinks first and see if we will be compatible. Only had a couple I knew I wouldn't like and just gave them a Benjamin for their trouble. Never had a problem but I may just be lucky. However, there was one provider on RM that also used Grindr and I sent him away and later he switched up his Grindr profile and pictures and he back over! I didn't even let him in the door. I told him I didn't care for him then and he shouldn't change profile pics on Grindr. He was nice about or at least he just left.

[+ keroscenefire]

I always meet mine in the lobby first . I don't want a psycho showing up in my room

 

Oh yes and the same if the reverse is true. I actually realize I rarely host escorts either at my apartment or at my hotel when traveling. Although in the few occasions that I have, I definitely meet them in the hotel lobby or outside of my apartment building. I agree, I don't like some random guy I don't know knocking on my door. .

[jtwalker]

Oh yes and the same if the reverse is true. I actually realize I rarely host escorts either at my apartment or at my hotel when traveling. Although in the few occasions that I have, I definitely meet them in the hotel lobby or outside of my apartment building. I agree, I don't like some random guy I don't know knocking on my door. .

 

I never host anyone at home and I don't think I'll be going to any more homes. I don't mind a knock at the door at a hotel. I think hotels have become my preference regardless of who is hosting.

[+ Pensant]

I generally host at home after vetting. I’ve never had any issues. I tend to rotate a group of about 5 so we’re all quite familiar with each other.