Is it really that hard?

[xyz48B]

[orville]

Hell, a lot of the ads say do NOT call.

As I don't like receiving calls myself, I'm more flexible with that and I actually do respect it and keep the communication to text or IM if requested.

I will even understand if they don't respond at the moment because I'm aware I'm not the only one messaging them.

But, especially if we have already met once and I'm asking them to meet another time and they ignore me for days, and their next message doesn't include some sort of apology or something engaging that would make me want to reestablish communication, don't expect me to get back to you just because you need to make some more money.

[+ keroscenefire]

I always get annoyed when an escort ghosts after they are the one the initiates the conversation. I like to browse on RM and don't mind if escorts message me after seeing that. So one did that and after a little back and forth, he just completely stops contacting. I even tried again the next day and it shows that he read it but didn't respond. I don't know exactly why...maybe because he started to realize I was more of an experienced client and he couldn't just rip me off? Who knows? He still advertises in Denver too but I am done with him at this point.

[xyz48B]

I don't know exactly why

I suspect someone else took the bait and you were forgotten immediately. *cynical*

[guru68]

In the words of B.J. Barnum, there's a cocksucker born every minute.

[thedanNYC]

I apologize, but I really need to say this re the thread's title: that's what she said

[xyz48B]

I apologize, but I really need to say this re the thread's title: that's what she said

She’s never said that to me, but he has. ?

[guru68]

Always amusing at work when they talk about "stretch goals".

[alexslaveboy]

I just went on my RM profile and between RM chat and the the old email system I was ghosted by 6 providers

 

4 read/saw my messages.......no response

2 didn't even read my messages at all

None of them looked at my profile

[xyz48B]

@alexslaveboy – When I read stuff like that, I’m like – “Why do they even bother?”

 

Tangential questions:

1. What does “open minded” mean when it shows up in an ad?

2. What does “kink friendly” mean when it shows up in an ad?

 

If you’re going to put one or both of those in your ad, you’re going to have to reckon with some odd things coming you’re way. And if you’re not interested, fucking say so.

[coriolis888]

 

snip

 

But courtesy seems to suggest that if you’re in business, you’d want to cultivate a good image, even among those who you don’t want to hire you.

 

 

Agreed, but, courtesy is often not part of a provider's screening process.

[alexslaveboy]

@alexslaveboy – When I read stuff like that, I’m like – “Why do they even bother?”

 

Tangential questions:

1. What does “open minded” mean when it shows up in an ad?

2. What does “kink friendly” mean when it shows up in an ad?

 

If you’re going to put one or both of those in your ad, you’re going to have to reckon with some odd things coming you’re way. And if you’re not interested, fucking say so.

 

I always tell the provider to check out my RM profile so they can see what I'm looking for in a meetup

Most never do.... at least if you read my message be courteous enough to respond with sorry I don't think we're a match or not interested. It's so frustrating sometimes