My first blockage... not as gross as it sounds...LOL

[CuriousByNature]

Well... I suppose it had to happen sometime... my first blockage. Wait, that didn't come out right. Wait, that sounds even worse.

 

I must have inadvertently ticked off a NYC provider who is generally well-reviewed. He had kindly granted access to his private photos, but after some time they went back to being greyed out.... so I requested access again some weeks later. Again he kindly granted access.

 

He also messaged me asking if I was serious or just looking at photos, which is a completely valid question.

 

I told him I was really new to this and that I was trying to figure out who I might be able to meet when Im in town (in a couple of months).

 

He responded, 'good luck with that'.

 

I responded, 'thanks, have a good day', but the message could not be sent because I had been blocked... profile not accessible.

 

Aside from my own inability to recognize his sarcasm, I was also confused about why his private pics had become greyed out again after he had granted access the first time. Has anyone else run into this issue? I havent seen that with other profiles.

 

Im not naming the individual because I completely understand why he may have been frustrated, and that he may have thought I was a time-waster. I know providers have to weed through dozens of messages a day. This is a good learning experience for me anyway.

 

But if he happens to be on this forum, and happens to read this, and happens to recognize the situation... I just want you to know I didnt mean any disrespect to you or your time ?

[Gymowner]

if you want to still see the pics and contact information, right click on your mouse and go into incognito mode. you wont be able to see any private pics or videos but you cant now anyways.

 

its always funny that these little bitches get their panties in such a bunch and block for any reason. like that will really "turn the tables" and ruin my life. next!

[+ Gar1eth]

I've been blocked occasionally. But it's never been because I've been disrespectful. The most recent block led to a fairly recent thread ?. One escort in Dallas blocked me, but I don't remember interacting with him other than looking at the profile. Possibly I asked to look at the Privates. But I'm not sure.

 

The block occurred months ago. Suddenly out of the blue a few days ago, I get a message that he's unlocked the Privates for me. I thought he must have unblocked me. I go to his profile. And it's still blocked. I try to send him an email about it. And it won't go thru. So it seems if an escort blocks you, they (or an automatic website generated message) might still be able to go through. But the reverse isn't true.

 

Gman

[AceHardware]

My first blockage came when I was nervously toggling between 2 guys on RM that I had narrowed my choices down to for my first hire. I was very indecisive and went back and forth between profiles--never contacting them, just visiting, re-reading their profiles and photos--when one guy blocked me, I guess because he didn't like all the visitor pings he was getting. So, now I make sure I'm logged out most of the time when I visit a profile and I'm not ready to make contact.

[CuriousByNature]

if you want to still see the pics and contact information, right click on your mouse and go into incognito mode. you wont be able to see any private pics or videos but you cant now anyways.

 

its always funny that these little bitches get their panties in such a bunch and block for any reason. like that will really "turn the tables" and ruin my life. next!

Thats good info, thanks. Im sure he must have been having an off day or something, or may have had a lot of people trolling his profile without any seriousness. I have difficulty managing 15-20 work emails a day, so I have no idea how providers handle their volume - particularly those who are in great demand. Im giving him the benefit of the doubt... but he doesnt know that because Im blocked... ?

[CuriousByNature]

My first blockage came when I was nervously toggling between 2 guys on RM that I had narrowed my choices down to for my first hire. I was very indecisive and went back and forth between profiles--never contacting them, just visiting, re-reading their profiles and photos--when one guy blocked me, I guess because he didn't like all the visitor pings he was getting. So, now I make sure I'm logged out most of the time when I visit a profile and I'm not ready to make contact.

Thats great advice. I give 'indecisiveness' a whole new meaning when it comes to this....

[+ 7829V]

Well... I suppose it had to happen sometime... my first blockage. Wait, that didn't come out right. Wait, that sounds even worse.

 

I must have inadvertently ticked off a NYC provider who is generally well-reviewed. He had kindly granted access to his private photos, but after some time they went back to being greyed out.... so I requested access again some weeks later. Again he kindly granted access.

 

He also messaged me asking if I was serious or just looking at photos, which is a completely valid question.

 

I told him I was really new to this and that I was trying to figure out who I might be able to meet when Im in town (in a couple of months).

 

He responded, 'good luck with that'.

 

I responded, 'thanks, have a good day', but the message could not be sent because I had been blocked... profile not accessible.

 

Aside from my own inability to recognize his sarcasm, I was also confused about why his private pics had become greyed out again after he had granted access the first time. Has anyone else run into this issue? I havent seen that with other profiles.

 

Im not naming the individual because I completely understand why he may have been frustrated, and that he may have thought I was a time-waster. I know providers have to weed through dozens of messages a day. This is a good learning experience for me anyway.

 

But if he happens to be on this forum, and happens to read this, and happens to recognize the situation... I just want you to know I didnt mean any disrespect to you or your time ?

You saved a lot of money by not meeting a maybe bipolar and impatient guy. Perhaps he didn’t take his medications that day. ??‍♂️

[+ RJD]

The providers can reset access to their private galleries at will, mostly out of privacy concerns. My regular provider does it monthly but then unlocks them for me and probably other regular clients.

[+ Gar1eth]

My first blockage came when I was nervously toggling between 2 guys on RM that I had narrowed my choices down to for my first hire. I was very indecisive and went back and forth between profiles--never contacting them, just visiting, re-reading their profiles and photos--when one guy blocked me, I guess because he didn't like all the visitor pings he was getting. So, now I make sure I'm logged out most of the time when I visit a profile and I'm not ready to make contact.

 

I believe, if you are signed in, there's supposed to be an anonymous viewing mode.

 

Gman

[+ RJD]

I don’t get the inclination of some providers to throw a block on someone unless that person is making and breaking multiple appointments.

 

I’ll use the posts in this Deli section to check out guys. I clicked on one providers profile, looked at his pics and that was it. Didn’t contact him, didn’t request access to his private gallery. The next day, I had a notification that he viewed my profile. I clicked on his and didn’t have access. What if I was planning a trip and was scoping out the talent? It doesn’t seem very smart. If I was planning a trip and had him on a short list, that would’ve turned me off.

 

On the other side of the spectrum there was a 411 on here recently about Chad Roberts out of Houston https://rent.men/chadroberts who I found incredibly hot. I sent him a message just to say that and tell him if he’s ever up in Philly I would definitely book a session with him. He replied back with the friendliest and most pleasant message thanking me and although he didn’t have any plans in the near future, if anything changed he would let me know. That made me want to get together with him even more.

 

Optics has a huge impact on your business.

[thickornotatall]

If anyone takes the time to block you from their crazy busy life- you have saved yourself from a bad experience. I don't really get the whole private/semi-private photos. I have asked very few for a view of semi private pics. Quite often I never hear back. So much for that.

When I was in Paris a few months ago I asked to see a private pic. He emailed me pics and a video. Needless to say I was hooked....3 times in one week....Kader was leaving for Morocco and asked me to go so he could show me his country and his extra fat gigantic piece in Africa....I was on to London....Don't worry if anyone blocks you....someone better is waiting..

[CuriousByNature]

If anyone takes the time to block you from their crazy busy life- you have saved yourself from a bad experience. I don't really get the whole private/semi-private photos. I have asked very few for a view of semi private pics. Quite often I never hear back. So much for that.

When I was in Paris a few months ago I asked to see a private pic. He emailed me pics and a video. Needless to say I was hooked....3 times in one week....Kader was leaving for Morocco and asked me to go so he could show me his country and his extra fat gigantic piece in Africa....I was on to London....Don't worry if anyone blocks you....someone better is waiting..

Would you happen to have link for Kader? ?

[CuriousByNature]

Would you happen to have link for Kader? ?

HaHa... I mean 'a' link for Kader... Im starting to forget my indefinite articles and sounding more and more like my East European grandfather with each passing day...

[+ azdr0710]

HaHa... I mean 'a' link for Kader... Im starting to forget my indefinite articles and sounding more and more like my East European grandfather with each passing day...

 

don't forget that you can "edit" your original post (especially within four minutes) and not make an entirely new post clarifying it....look for "edit" at the lower left of the post you'd like to edit.......yes, this opportunity does expire at some point (many days later, I believe).........

[CuriousByNature]

don't forget that you can "edit" your original post (especially within four minutes) and not make an entirely new post clarifying it....look for "edit" at the lower left of the post you'd like to edit.......yes, this opportunity does expire at some point (many days later, I believe).........

Yes, but then I'd lose an opportunity to poke fun at myself ?

[rvwnsd]

A former colleague at a particularly difficult former workplace once said "If assholes could fly, [name of company] would be an airport."

 

That applies to more than just workplaces.

[+ Pensant]

I believe, if you are signed in, there's supposed to be an anonymous viewing mode.

 

Gman

Yes, there is.