Lost Contact with Primary Regular

[Hungmixedboi88]

Heya guys! It's been a while since I posted on this forum. I am getting back into town in LA and the swing of things as an escort as I had to leave town for a little bit to deal with some personal family issues/deaths. I'm writing this post to ask for advice!

 

I use to see a guy for a long while and it was pretty regularly and we got close. Gifts on my birthday, often in communication. The last time we met wasn't the best, due to a performance issue (which is what led me to take a break to get my head right) but we spoke even after that and he understood exactly what I was going through at the time but now it's been a few months of me trying to get into contact and he hasn't answered any messages. He's a fair bit older than me and was having some medical problems and I'm not sure if he just moved on to someone else or possibly is in bad shape? Am I overreacting? I've been in the business for just over six years so this wouldn't be the first time I've ever lost contact with a provider but it being someone I was pretty close with kind of weirds me out. Thoughts?

 

 

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[+ FrankR]

Heya guys! It's been a while since I posted on this forum. I am getting back into town in LA and the swing of things as an escort as I had to leave town for a little bit to deal with some personal family issues/deaths. I'm writing this post to ask for advice!

 

I use to see a guy for a long while and it was pretty regularly and we got close. Gifts on my birthday, often in communication. The last time we met wasn't the best, due to a performance issue (which is what led me to take a break to get my head right) but we spoke even after that and he understood exactly what I was going through at the time but now it's been a few months of me trying to get into contact and he hasn't answered any messages. He's a fair bit older than me and was having some medical problems and I'm not sure if he just moved on to someone else or possibly is in bad shape? Am I overreacting? I've been in the business for just over six years so this wouldn't be the first time I've ever lost contact with a provider but it being someone I was pretty close with kind of weirds me out. Thoughts?

 

 

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The fact that you care enough about the guy to be worried says a lot about you! I dont know when compassion went out of style, but would love to see it make a comeback!

 

It sounds like you have already done all you can do: reaching out, indicating that the channel of communication is open. If after the 3rd attempt you do not hear back, you should probably reallocate your time to meeting somebody else, expand your network and your ‘book of business’.

 

Did he move on? Is he unwell? Either could be true and are outside of your control. Maybe he is out of town and you will hear back. In the mean time hold on to those fond memories and focus on your future. ?

[Hungmixedboi88]

The fact that you care enough about the guy to be worried says a lot about you! I dont know when compassion went out of style, but would love to see it make a comeback!

 

It sounds like you have already done all you can do: reaching out, indicating that the channel of communication is open. If after the 3rd attempt you do not hear back, you should probably reallocate your time to meeting somebody else, expand your network and your ‘book of business’.

 

Did he move on? Is he unwell? Either could be true and are outside of your control. Maybe he is out of town and you will hear back. In the mean time hold on to those fond memories and focus on your future. ?

 

Thanks I appreciate you taking the time to answer my forum post, this is good advice and thank you for it. I'll just look to the future. Thanks again