The DO's and DON'Ts

[Greathands]

Just read Louis' threads about his less-than-great-time with Jimmy on his weekend trip. I'm sorry to hear that what Louis had hoped to be a great time didn't turn out the way he wanted.

 

Many people have shared on here how they wouldn't see an escort for the first time on an extended appointment, and/or not seeing an escort for an extended appointment that wasn't reviewed on here.

 

Perhaps we all need to gather our thoughts and ideas on the "DO's and DON'Ts of hiring an escort" and then ask Daddy to post it in a very visible place. Sometimes searching on the message center can be difficult, especially if someone isn't sure what they're doing.

 

Maybe this would be helpful, especially to those new to hiring.

[Louis]

I would have to agree with the poster. There are people who post on the Message Center, who always give excellent advice. While its true that Jimmy has reviews on a Canadian site, I have a feeling that they are fake. Jimmy has no reviews here, and had I been more cautious and hired someone who has reviews here, my weekend would have been good.....I mean great.

To be honest, I have had nothing but bad experiences since moving away from Southern Ontario, and am tempted to just forget about hiring anyone. That being said, I still have a very soft spot for Raul in Chicago, though I have never met him, we do exchange emails and have no doubt that if I can get a chance to see him, I will have an experience I will never forget.

SO TO ANYONE WANTING TO HIRE AN ESCORT, BE CAUTIOUS, FOLLOW ADVICE THAT MAY BE GIVEN TO YOU BY OTHERS IN THIS MESSAGE CENTER. THE PEOPLE ON THIS MESSAGE CENTER ARE LOOKING OUT FOR YOUR BEST INTEREST. I HAVE FELT MANY TIMES THAT A LOT OF ADVICE WAS CONSERVATIVE, AND THERE IS A REASON FOR THAT, PEOPLE HERE KNOW OF WHAT THEY SPEAK.

[Guest]

I'm not sure precisely what this is about, but I would like to stress advice that has been given here many times. Do NOT hire someone for a long period of time (such as a week-end) until you have hired them for an hour or two first. Long-term hires are a significant expense. Wouldn't anyone do research before a major expense such as a car, and HD TV, etc.?

[JT Brooklyn]

Unicorn...Very Very True! There are those who are Great Company for 1 Hour-2 Hours, "Client's" Included~! .BUT Longer Hookups can be very Tricky at best!

 

Alot of the Working Guys are really "wired" differently. There are those who are Great Company, But also know that "extended periods" just "ain't gonna work" Period.. with all who request them!

 

It's always been my experience that a couple of short Playtime's are required before any "Overnite" or Definitely "Long Weekend" is even considered!

 

"Chemistry" still is a Bigger Factor, than a Fat Wallet!

 

Unfortunately there are those "Fat Wallets", who do not understand this!

IMHO of course! LOL

[Epigonos]

This topic has been discussed here on numerous occasions, in the past, and the comments and the answers are always the same. I am always appalled at the injudiciousness of the manner in which some guys hire escorts. When paying $200+ an hour for the services of an escort it certainly behooves the client to think with the head on his shoulders rather than the one on his dick. There are innumerable reviews appearing on this site and on MER written by posters who hire on a regular basis and who have built sound reputations for accurate reporting. With the expenditure of a little time and effort it is not terribly difficult to find escorts whose services fulfill the desires/fantasies of just about any client.

 

A previous poster on this thread mentioned the escort Raul/Chicago. This man has numerous positive reviews from reliable reviewers and does NOT have one negative review. Though I personally have not spent time with this escort I would certainly feel confident that if and when I did our time together would be well spent and enjoyable. The same can be said of Steven Kesslar/San Francisco. Now I have spent time with this guy and will continue to do so because he is an outstanding escort, a great person and a hell of a lot of fun. These are just two examples and there are certainly dozens of others on this site and on MER

 

I also find it difficult to understand why someone would ever even consider hiring an escort for an extended period of time without first spending some time with that escort in the sack and across a meal table. When hiring an escort for an entire weekend or more one is likely to be spending $1,500+ and at least in my case I want to know that I am not throwing my money away on a poor experience. Just consider for a moment that if you are sixty plus years old and your twenty year old grandson drives you crazy after a couple of hours what it is going to be like to spend 24+ hours with a guy his age. Now if on the other hand that sounds great then go for it. The bottom line is that we who hire escorts MUST know what we want and then make damn certain that is what we seek out and hire.

[Louis]

Another escort that I was planning on seeing (but went back to France)told me about Jimmy, and I am now thinking that I got two escorts mixed up. Jimmy went by the name of Luka, at the time I initially hired him, however there is also another escort in Toronto who goes by the name of Luk, and I think that I went with the wrong guy. I was having second thoughts a few months ago, but did not back out.

I have hired a few escorts for over night sessions before, and have not had any problems, however those guys were students at the time and are no longer escorting. I have the feeling that the escort I hired for the weekend is a hustler, not an escort. I should have cancelled my plans with him, and hired Raul shortly after I learned about Raul on the message board here, but that is past tense.

So basically, I have had three lousy experiences since moving here. There is a part of me that is telling me not to hire anyone again, and another side of me telling me to give it one more try, and hire Raul.

The big problem that I have is location, location, location. I'm in the middle of no where. I cannot go for a test drive so to speak.

[Epigonos]

Then the best advise is research, Resarch, RESARCH. There are numerous outstanding reviews of great escort in all major cities in both Canada and the U.S. This site and MER are invaluable resources. Just use them diligently and you will have great experiences. Over the last four years I have hired dozens of escorts all over the U.S. and in Vancouver. Using this site I have yet to have a really bad experience. A few haven't been outstanding but in the beginning I wasn't always that clear in explaining to the escsort what I expected. It is EXTREMELY important to be explicit when explaining to a escort what you are seeking and what you want to do. Don't be shy. Guys who have been escorting for some time have heard it all. Believe me you won't shock them.

[Greathands]

This is EXACTLY the point and reason that I started this thread.

 

Yes, this has been discussed on this forum many, many times. However, for those new to the forum, or to those who aren't proficient at searching a site such as this for information, perhaps it would be great to have a general "FAQ" section with advice in hiring escorts.

 

This thread is not intended to hash out old information. It's a suggestion about creating something new. Perhaps this could be similar to the FAQ section of the Male Strip Club section, which is highlighted at the top of the forum and does not get mixed in with the various threads, which eventually find their way to oblivion.

 

Just a thought .. and was wondering if you all thought it might be helpful.

[+ Lucky]

RE: Greathands = Greatideas

 

Better yet, you could start a new career, travelling fom town to town much as the escorts do. But, in this case, you would be advising clients on the do's and don'ts of hiring escorts! Then, after a few years of that, you could write an advice book and strike it rich. Again, you would be travelling the country, even the world, giving book readings and making television appearances. Escorts would be begging for your endorsement! Finally, you could settle down to a university professorship, where your earnings have endowed a chair in the study of hiring escorts. What a future you could have!

 

Eventually, however, you would probably retire to Palm Springs, where you'd regale the seniors at the gym with stories on how many escorts you had met...

[+ deej]

>Yes, this has been discussed on this forum many, many times.

>However, for those new to the forum, or to those who aren't

>proficient at searching a site such as this for information,

>perhaps it would be great to have a general "FAQ" section with

>advice in hiring escorts.

 

Well, if they're not good at searching or reading, why the hell would a FAQ page help? They'd have to look for it, and they won't be looking for it.

 

>Just a thought .. and was wondering if you all thought it

>might be helpful.

 

Even if it said "IMPORTANT INSTRUCTIONS FOR PEOPLE WHO NEVER READ INSTRUCTIONS" it wouldn't make a difference at all. Everyone thinks they're different. It'll be OK with them.

 

The information is here. Some people read it of their own accord, and some need a bad experience to get them to read it. Any FAQ would suffer the same fate. It would be read after the fact, if at all.

[Guest zipperzone]

I can't imagine why anyone would need a list of do's and don'ts, unless they happen to be brain dead.

 

If you don't have enough of the good old natural common sense to figure it out all by yourself, you're in big trouble.

[Louis]

Well in my case, it was just plain stupidity on my part, and I will not act stupid next time. A person generally gets wiser as they age, but maybe I have gone past that point...:-)

[Guest zipperzone]

>Well in my case, it was just plain stupidity on my part, and

>I will not act stupid next time. A person generally gets

>wiser as they age, but maybe I have gone past that point...:-)

 

 

Louis: I was not commenting on your partiular case - I was commenting on the stupidity of actually formulating a list. But I guess there are some people out there that need that information - like don't stick you dick in a blender while it is on???

[+ Lucky]

When a regular poster here makes a basic mistake like that, I doubt that having any lessons pinned at the top will help. I agree with deej on this one!

 

I am sorry that your weekend didn't work out, Louis. Hopefully you will try again with someone else and have a good story to tell.

[+ deej]

I'm not so sure I'd say it was stupid. Human, maybe. Optimistic for sure. You were *sure* it was going to be OK, in spite of all advice to the contrary.

 

That's part human, and a BIG part X-chromasome. ;-)

 

You know the last words heard from most <insert target group of males> before an accident? "Hey, watch this..."

 

We may be gay, but we're still (chemically, anyway) men. We don't ask for directions, we pee with the seat up, and we do things OUR OWN way dammit! ;-)

 

You can't deny your biology, but you can learn from your mistakes and go on to have a whopping good time with the next guy you hire (wisely).

[Louis]

Well sometimes optomism takes over from common sense, and that's what happend to me. There were warning signs which I did not heed, because I didn't want some escort saying that I backed out of an agreement. There were several positive reviews of this guy, and when I look at them now, they are all very similar and could have been written by him, in order to promote himself.

I am curious as to how he will respond if and when he finds out I have posted reviews.

I told him one or two months ago before we met in person, that I would post reviews, about my experience with him. I figured that if he was a hustler, he would cancel the appointment or just not show up at all, and I was wrong.

I have put the experience behind me, and am in the process of working something out with Raul.

I appreciate the comments that people have made, and while generalities were used, I can still apply them to myself. Caution is the word of the day, and when people on the list make comments or have suggestions on how to do something, its best to read their comments word for word, because they are truly looking out for everyone's best interest...:-)