Don’t ignore “Karma” when booking multiple “dates”

[Mocha]

P.S. I know Karma is an overused word. But for lack of better word, maybe I’ll just say don’t ignore “good judgement”.

 

This is just something that’s dropped on my mind today, after having had 2 clients I met previously, tell me of their tales of woe regarding other escorts and/or freebie dates they picked up.

 

Now, by no means am I pointing the finger or making fun of them. Getting a disappointing (or unsafe) experience is no laughing matter. However, I know there’s clients who would “never do that” and clients who “wouldn’t think twice” about doing that. “That” being, booking appointments with other guys, when you had another date already on layaway.

 

2 most recent scenarios: Client #1 and I were discussing scheduling an appointment in his city. I had met him before. This would have been round #2. This was being discussed for atleast a couple of weeks or so. He was having some things to get sorted before booking, and would follow back up. When I was ready to come to his town, he told me he couldn’t meet as he had already booked an appointment with another provider who was also in town. He never told me who it was, but it was a small town and wasn’t hard to figure out (I have to be nosy, you know).

 

Couple days later, he tells me he wished he had cancelled that session because the guy couldn’t keep it up...and he was disappointed. Wow. I sympathized, but in my mind I was like...why the f**k would you book HIM, when we been talking all along about meeting up again, considering our last session was good enough for him to give me a 5 star review. I only live 3 hours away.

 

Client #2, we were meeting for the 1st time. He cancelled his Saturday morning session with me. Fair enough, but then ignored my requests for cancellation fee, no response. The next day, he reached out to me...out of nowhere as if I never asked for anything. He said he could still do the session, but that he had “a friend” there with him. We ended up meeting and having a hot 3 way, and all was good. Or so I thought.

 

Just the other day, he messages me talking about the guy stole his ID and credit card, and the guy said he was hanging with ME (I never exchanged any info or seen the guy again). I was like wait: I thought you said it was your friend, you just meet him that night? He says yes. Which goes to show, he tried to replace me with that guy, but when that guy wasn’t into him...he called me over. He should have just stuck with our plans to begin with, instead he picks up some random who was a complete user and junkie.

 

I know some clients have legitimate reasons for having to call up a Plan B or whatever. But people need to understand, whether it’s karma or not...stick with the person who’s consistent and trying to make something happen. I put a lot of effort into keeping in contact with clients, it boggles me when they get distracted by someone else...and end up getting less than they bargained for.

 

I’ve learned the same myself. I never cancel a client based on another client being more convenient or sounding more attractive. I don’t even cancel clients for offers with “friends” anymore either. I’ve done it before, and got burnt. If any doubt, it’s first come, first served. The person who’s consistent and you’ve been working with first, is the one to be scheduled.