Seeking Info Challenges

[Dallas Jayson]

How do I overcome getting info and explaining my chaotic schedule? Most escorts expect a booking within 48 hours of chatting, and I do not always have that luxury. Any insight would be appreciated, thank you!

[hypothetically]

How do I overcome getting info and explaining my chaotic schedule? Most escorts expect a booking within 48 hours of chatting, and I do not always have that luxury. Any insight would be appreciated, thank you!

 

You say you have a “chaotic schedule” that does not afford you the luxury of booking immediately but you have some inquiries as you are interested (and serious). And if the two of you are a match you’d like to set something up in the new future.

 

Your chaotic schedule isn’t an issue, but how you communicate it is important. Yes, an immediate booking or one within 48 hours is ideal for “most escorts,” but anything outside of those confines is definitely not a deal breaker, so don’t be discouraged.

Edited August 7, 2019 by hypothetically

[hypothetically]

How do I overcome getting info and explaining my chaotic schedule? Most escorts expect a booking within 48 hours of chatting, and I do not always have that luxury. Any insight would be appreciated, thank you!

 

You say you have a “chaotic schedule” that does not afford you the luxury of booking immediately but you have some inquiries as you are interested (and serious). And if the two of you are a match you’d like to set something up in the new future.

 

Your chaotic schedule isn’t an issue, but how you communicate it is important. Yes, an immediate booking or one within 48 hours is ideal for “most escorts,” but anything outside of those confines is definitely not a deal breaker, so don’t be discouraged.

Edited August 7, 2019 by hypothetically

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

Just be direct.

 

'I have an insane schedule, can you work with booking in advance?'

 

While some escorts love picking things up last minute, there are many who also need to book well in advance.

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

Just be direct.

 

'I have an insane schedule, can you work with booking in advance?'

 

While some escorts love picking things up last minute, there are many who also need to book well in advance.

[Dallas Jayson]

Just be direct.

 

'I have an insane schedule, can you work with booking in advance?'

 

While some escorts love picking things up last minute, there are many who also need to book well in advance.

Thanks

I guess leading with the fact my schedule is insane will save everyone frustration. It seems many escorts do not understand what the lives of someone who is not 9-5 might be like. I own 2 companies - this is great advice, thanks!

[Dallas Jayson]

Just be direct.

 

'I have an insane schedule, can you work with booking in advance?'

 

While some escorts love picking things up last minute, there are many who also need to book well in advance.

Thanks

I guess leading with the fact my schedule is insane will save everyone frustration. It seems many escorts do not understand what the lives of someone who is not 9-5 might be like. I own 2 companies - this is great advice, thanks!

[+ IronMaus]

For established clients I'll consider an appointment within 48 hours. Otherwise, as long as the client is honest, clear, and not overly discreet, I will schedule out months in advance.

[+ IronMaus]

For established clients I'll consider an appointment within 48 hours. Otherwise, as long as the client is honest, clear, and not overly discreet, I will schedule out months in advance.

[Trick]

I like booking in advance, especially when visiting another city. I want to make sure that I book the escort in my bucket list in that city. This is why I hate it when the escort replies, “Contact me when you get here”

[Trick]

I like booking in advance, especially when visiting another city. I want to make sure that I book the escort in my bucket list in that city. This is why I hate it when the escort replies, “Contact me when you get here”

[hypothetically]

I like booking in advance, especially when visiting another city. I want to make sure that I book the escort in my bucket list in that city. This is why I hate it when the escort replies, “Contact me when you get here”

 

Bookings too far in advance seldom come to fruition, hence this common reply.

[hypothetically]

I like booking in advance, especially when visiting another city. I want to make sure that I book the escort in my bucket list in that city. This is why I hate it when the escort replies, “Contact me when you get here”

 

Bookings too far in advance seldom come to fruition, hence this common reply.

[+ IronMaus]

Bookings too far in advance seldom come to fruition, hence this common reply.

It can be tricky. There are a lot of red flags for me - like guys who insist on remaining anonymous or intentionally lie about who they are, those that won't talk with me on the phone or skype, and those that don't save my number. I have various ways to make myself feel comfortable with confirming an appointment that far out. If it's a first time client and they want to secure a large chunk of time in the future, I'll ask for a down payment that I take out of the total or keep if cancellation occurs close to the appointment. Occasionally someone won't like the idea, so it's not a deal breaker.

[+ IronMaus]

Bookings too far in advance seldom come to fruition, hence this common reply.

It can be tricky. There are a lot of red flags for me - like guys who insist on remaining anonymous or intentionally lie about who they are, those that won't talk with me on the phone or skype, and those that don't save my number. I have various ways to make myself feel comfortable with confirming an appointment that far out. If it's a first time client and they want to secure a large chunk of time in the future, I'll ask for a down payment that I take out of the total or keep if cancellation occurs close to the appointment. Occasionally someone won't like the idea, so it's not a deal breaker.

[MrMattBig]

I like booking in advance, especially when visiting another city. I want to make sure that I book the escort in my bucket list in that city. This is why I hate it when the escort replies, “Contact me when you get here”

Potential clients reply this way more and more too.

By time I get somewhere I may already be booked or not available when that person wants to meet!

[MrMattBig]

If it's in the escorts home base, it may be easier for them to be flexible depending on their personal life.

So if you suddenly find yourself with some free time on short notice it would be easier for them to accommodate you that if they are traveling. If you are trying to pin something down in advance outside of 48 hours, try and provide as much details as possible, such as a day or days of the week that might work, or time of day like morning or evening.

If they are nice and professional, they will do what they can to leave a window open for you two to meet.

[+ Tarte Gogo]

How do I overcome getting info and explaining my chaotic schedule? Most escorts expect a booking within 48 hours of chatting, and I do not always have that luxury. Any insight would be appreciated, thank you!

If a guy isn’t clear that I am serious about booking him, but it will be later on, and if I find it difficult to retain his attention, I send an Andrew Jackson via Venmo or CashApp and that usually does the trick of proving that I am serious.

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

If a guy isn’t clear that I am serious about booking him, but it will be later on, and if I find it difficult to retain his attention, I send an Andrew Jackson via Venmo or CashApp and that usually does the trick of proving that I am serious.

 

A $20 to prove you're serious? Was this a keyboard slip?

[+ oldNbusted]

The $20 Theory of the Universe

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

The $20 Theory of the Universe

 

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[+ poolboy48220]

The $20 Theory of the Universe

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Edited August 9, 2019 by poolboy48220

[Michael PhD]

Thanks

I guess leading with the fact my schedule is insane will save everyone frustration. It seems many escorts do not understand what the lives of someone who is not 9-5 might be like. I own 2 companies - this is great advice, thanks!

 

Many have chaotic schedules - I travel 50% of the time - and my days can be hectic. I’ve had to cancel last minute but I always mention that in case they can book something that’s more certain. Many are turned off by this even when I offer to pay if I cancel last minute but communication is key. If you don’t share details on why you may not be readily available within 48 hours after initial contact, there is no reason for them to not think of you as a troll chatting them up and then flaking on the follow through.

[Dallas Jayson]

Many have chaotic schedules - I travel 50% of the time - and my days can be hectic. I’ve had to cancel last minute but I always mention that in case they can book something that’s more certain. Many are turned off by this even when I offer to pay if I cancel last minute but communication is key. If you don’t share details on why you may not be readily available within 48 hours after initial contact, there is no reason for them to not think of you as a troll chatting them up and then flaking on the follow through.

Thanks... I will be more clear up front, and stress the nature of my business.