Top vs Vers/Top

[+ Reisr30]

Sorry to ask this if it has been asked in the past. I find myself attracted to some companions that list as Tops. However, I prefer guys that are flexible normally. How often are guys who list as Top flexible if the chemistry is right? I expect the feedback I will get is to ask the companion but I am curious to here from some of the folks on this board what they think.

[bendable2019]

Love that too...

[big-n-tall]

You definitely need to ask the companion. Because of course we can't predict how that particular top will respond to your inquiry or how he would respond to you physically once sexy time began. I'm sure a top who was a regular may be more willing to bottom for you than a top you just met.

 

With that said, chemistry can account for a lot in an encounter. I think my demeanor puts people at ease and apparently it makes some willing or wanting.

 

I have had a few professed tops openly contemplate bottoming for me (mainly without me asking). I have known many of them for years. Most of them ultimately decide not to bottom for me because they think my penis would hurt them. I mean I'm above average but not gigantic. ...but it's clear they are curious. Out of the ones who contemplated doing it, one top has bottomed for me and does so every time we meet now.

 

Inversely, there are a few guys who bottom for me regularly beg me to let them top me. And trust me my ass isn't that great. LOL!

 

I put it all down to how I treat them and the chemistry we have.

Edited July 1, 2019 by big-n-tall

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

I'm a vers/top.

 

Meaning: I like to fuck, but now and then I want something in my ass too.

[+ honcho]

I call myself a vers/top because I like to fuck, but my tusch is totally dysfunctional. My throat, however is quite well trained (being a woodwind player, among other things ...)

[DallasClient]

I hate to ask providers for information that is spelled out in their profiles but have learned it's better to ask. One provider had versatile listed but told me he is only a top, another guy has top listed and bottoms.

[+ luckydog]

In my experience there are Tops who are flexible. Not a lot, but if really interested it doesn’t hurt to ask. Might be best to not make it the question though, that often gets no reply. But get some intro stuff out of way and casually ask. I’ve also had some message to let me know they bottom as well which is always nice.