What Becomes a Hosted Trip Most??

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I’m fortunate to be blessed with the ability to host travel and trips with escorts. At my mature age of 61, I enjoy the planning and execution of them. I often include participation from the escort so as to make the experience more balanced and fair. I don’t like to assume, and feel a joint buy in makes everyone happy. After all, this isn’t Downton Abbey. What are things, expectations, behaviors should both sides bring to the trip in order to make the moments timeless? I ask so that I am always considered to be that “one in a million client” who partly answers the question, Why do you do this? Hopefully, seeing my sincere and grateful smile and remembering the unconditional respect and friendship you were shown will answer it. But again, I don’t want to assume. Thank you...

[Mocha]

What are things, expectations, behaviors should both sides bring to the trip in order to make the moments timeless?

 

Things: Besides the usual pleasure items, I’ve now began carrying “entertainment” material as well. Anything that’s going to make the session feel like an experience.

 

Expectations: Define sleep. Boundaries. Will sex be spontaneous or reserved for certain time of day? Are you comfortable to sleep next to, or will your guest be woken on and off all night?

 

Behaviors: How does PDA fair? Do you make suggestive statements around others? Will the other person feel comfortable with it, or do they prefer a level of discretion?

[bendable2019]

Just act like you’re father & son if there’s marked generation gap and that you’re both white/black/ etc. You’re taking your son on holiday to celebrate his birthday... call each other the appropriate endearments in public... well in bed it’ll be rich papa vs bitch baba! Lol

 

Or retired school teacher and best high school student if the above doesn’t match... no affection in public but in bed it’ll be raunchy teacher vs naughty sex binger..?

[Cannon]

For me, being a gentleman goes a very long way! Sounds simple but not everyone has that quality. My favorite experience was going to Phoenix. He was a gentleman, thoughtful, just a very sweet human being. He was a retired football player so he did not look like who you would think would be sweet but he was, and he gave me more money than anyone ever has in a week. I’ll never forget him!

Edited May 30, 2019 by Cannon

[hypothetically]

A mutual respect, class separation removed.

[+ BuzzBuddy]

Thanks so much for the feedback guys. You have no idea how valued and appreciated it is. And if I can help spread these insights among my peers, consider the dialogue as being open. Believe me, there are those of us...clients, who’d very much like to become, and be seen as being educated and considerate consumers. We’ll get there. Thanks much..

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UPDATE... I recently completed a multi-day session with an escort. Thanks to your spot on advice, the event far exceeded my hopes. And, we are in the midst of planning another multi-day event before year end. The truly amazing thing, it just seemed to flow incredibly naturally. We did excellent pre-planning together. We established rules and boundaries regarding things like "personal time," and the nights and days flew at automatic pilot. Now that the initial trip has taken place, I am in a better position to thank you properly. Your kind help gave me back at least 20 years. Thanks much, your advice is greatly appreciated...

[hypothetically]

UPDATE... I recently completed a multi-day session with an escort. Thanks to your spot on advice, the event far exceeded my hopes. And, we are in the midst of planning another multi-day event before year end. The truly amazing thing, it just seemed to flow incredibly naturally. We did excellent pre-planning together. We established rules and boundaries regarding things like "personal time," and the nights and days flew at automatic pilot. Now that the initial trip has taken place, I am in a better position to thank you properly. Your kind help gave me back at least 20 years. Thanks much, your advice is greatly appreciated...

 

Awesome!!