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If I lived in NY I would set up an appointment. I like his responses. When I hire a masseur for a sensual massage I have certain expectations, for an erotic other expectations. When it comes to touching the masseur I let the masseur take the lead. Eventually he finds away to get his dick in my hand.

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Well, I left his very nice clean studio totally satisfied. He looks exactly like his pics (stunning!), he gives a very good massage with knowledge and technique and he is a smart guy. He is straight, and the sensual part of the massage definitely shows his sexual orientation, but that was not a surprise.

I would definitely recommend him!

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Well, I left his very nice clean studio totally satisfied. He looks exactly like his pics (stunning!), he gives a very good massage with knowledge and technique and he is a smart guy. He is straight, and the sensual part of the massage definitely shows his sexual orientation, but that was not a surprise.

I would definitely recommend him!

Thank you for coming! Now finally people can see real picture of my services! See you next time)))

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Just had a great time with Alex. I think many of the complaints about him demonstrate how frustrating these encounters can be for both sides when expectations are not balanced. If Alex were advertising on Rent.men and providing the same service then sure, I could understand someone's disappointment. But Alex is advertising on Masseurfinder, and in my opinion, he delivers. For anyone to try to force more than a massage out of him and then complain about it is being unfair.

 

We discussed my expectation prior to meeting and he was professional, super friendly, and an absolute pleasure to talk to. Let me reiterate. He is nice, if you respect him and allow him to provide what he advertises. He told me stories that made me laugh, all while receiving a relaxing massage from a very HOT straight guy who made me feel like he genuinely enjoys his job, and in that moment, my company. He was not rude, he was not cold. He exceeded my expectation in man ways because I did not ask him to give me something that he never agreed to in the first place.

 

He set his own boundary and then just as easily lifted it to his comfort level, after getting a sense of me and following the "feeling", taking the session exactly where he wanted to and that was my only request. This is what we describe wanting from strictly therapeutic sessions in spas all the time! Wishing that a relaxing massage might cross into a more sensual and arousing experience, but never demanding or forcing the moment. That's disrespectful. I left pleased, satisfied, and pleasantly suprised because I allowed him to do his job and did not expect him to be something he does not claim. This is how a professional like him has been able to stay in business despite a few bad reviews. Thanks Alex!

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I haven't received a massage from Alex in a while, but I've had a good amount of massages by him in the past. The massages were amazing and I always left very happy. He definitely exceeds all other expectations as a straight man serving the LGBTQ community. What more could you ask for?

 

A lot of the masseurs some of us are used to are really just escorts who don't want to fully commit to it lol. Some are bi/gay men who like to have fun. Some are straight/bi/gay men who charge a premium for the fun. But then there are a ton of masseurs who are legitimate and offer amazing experiences whether they be therapeutic or erotic. The one thing we have to keep in mind is what they offer is totally up to them. What one offers shouldn't be an expectation for another masseur with regards to going beyond the original scope of a sensual massage. Never hurts to just discuss with the therapist beforehand if you're looking for something in particular.

 

Alex has always been very calm and friendly. If you do find him cold, it could potentially just be a cultural thing. I never found him cold and we had a lot of great convos. I've come to accept over the years that if English isn't a masseurs first language, I don't really expect them to be super chatty. At the end of the day, we are paying them to give us a massage + whatever else they offer/you have discussed with them. Anything more than that shouldn't be expected unless you've developed some sort of rapport with the person and you have discussed it with them.

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Also wanted to add in that although there are average going rates for massages in each market, that doesn't mean it's the standard for everyone. When I see a masseur offering a massage for a little more than someone else, I don't assume it means that they offer more just because it's getting close to escorting rates. I assume that they are in high demand and have raised their rates so that they can make just as much, if not more, and give less massages. That should really be every masseur's goal..or really anyone's goal who offers any sort of a service where rates are flexible.

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I like everything to be true not fake like here. Yes I am straight. My “cold personality” as guys mentioned before is my Ukrainian mentality, we all hold distance with strangers especially when they act weird and treat us bad as all those reviewers did, but trust me once we see the person is normal then we become closer and every meeting is like old friends ( none of those who left a comment on me came the second time for obvious reasons and they was blocked by me cause I also have a choice of who I want to see)

At least here I’m telling the truth of who I am not like others described me because I didn’t do what they expected (people are willing to want more than offered). Guys have bigger expectations because other massage therapists are escorts and they allow so much more things to do and that’s why they think that every massage therapist is a same and when they don’t get touching, sucking or whatever is on their fantasies - here

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Do we have updates on experiences with Alex?

It looks like our paths will cross.

The $200 rate suggests high end experience but then some reviewers think that he is uncomfortable being naked and touched.

The more smoking hot someone is, the higher the uncertainty about the experience ?

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He changed his rentmasseur name, now at https://rentmasseur.com/Alex_muscle.

The erotic option is no longer checked, which could be a sign of bad reviews due to high expecations, and he might be trying to readjust those.

It does seem, though, that nude massage with touching is available for $200 an hour, but this is pushing it in my book.

 

Would love to hear about recent experiences.

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