What should RENT.MEN remove?

Inkdnaija00 · September 22, 2018

many of us meet with felons, knowingly or otherwise, and have fantastic times......there are a lot of them!

please don't remove the felons!

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Lol

Roman Charter · December 3, 2019

Huge flaw in RentMen’s review system

1. RentMen should remove basic non worded reviews, instead actually allow clients toga was the option to share their experience in words.

2.The the same client reviewing the escort 10 plus times! So frustrating to see and escort with 50+ rentmen reviews just to realize it’s the same 5 clients, very misleading to me. In my opinion I think there should be a 5 review limit each year for reviewing the same escort. Does anybody else agree?

Edited December 3, 2019 by Roman Charter

mike carey · December 3, 2019

1. RentMen should remove basic non worded reviews, instead actually allow clients to share their experience in words.

Rent.Men does allow narrative reviews, they are just not visible in the US after SESTA/FOSTA or whatever those laws are. In the US you can view them by using a proxy server or VPN. I agree that reviews without any narrative text are not much value.

Roman Charter · December 3, 2019

Rent.Men does allow narrative reviews, they are just not visible in the US after SESTA/FOSTA or whatever those laws are. In the US you can view them by using a proxy server or VPN. I agree that reviews without any narrative text are not much value.

Wow! I had no idea, Very informative thank you!

hypothetically · December 3, 2019

Huge flaw in RentMen’s review system
1. RentMen should remove basic non worded reviews, instead actually allow clients toga was the option to share their experience in words.
2.The the same client reviewing the escort 10 plus times! So frustrating to see and escort with 50+ rentmen reviews just to realize it’s the same 5 clients, very misleading to me. In my opinion I think there should be a 5 review limit each year for reviewing the same escort. Does anybody else agree?

I disagree. Granted it’s an actual client and not a fake account racking up review count, it shows consistency and reliability. When you show someone a resume, they don’t care that you’ve held 50 jobs, they care that you’ve held one for an extended time. Maintaining a longstanding relationship with a client speaks way more to an escort’s skillset in contrast to a bunch of “one-off’s”

+ *ButchAtl* · December 3, 2019

Interesting wish list and a chance to vent. Too bad its not rent.men that is asking for comments.

Think there's any chance they might see this thread?

bostonman · December 3, 2019

Rent.Men does allow narrative reviews, they are just not visible in the US after SESTA/FOSTA or whatever those laws are. In the US you can view them by using a proxy server or VPN. I agree that reviews without any narrative text are not much value.

I find that with a VPN, you can see the written comments on the reviews using the main site, but not the app version. Not sure why that is, but at least it does work.

marylander1940 · December 3, 2019

RENT.MEN please remove:

Fakes
Felons &
ParTy Providers

What would you like RENT.MEN to remove?

Felons are the ones to got caught...

ParTy providers? At least in RM there's a record.

ParTy Providers? Why? Because you do not like them? What an excellent reason.

I hope you're not promoting the use of drugs?

bostonman · December 3, 2019

I hope you're not promoting the use of drugs?

I'm not sure I'd agree with the term "promoting" in this case. I'm not a PnP person, but I also think it's better that escorts are able to advertise that they are, instead of it being something they have to hide. It's a given that not everyone on RM is going to be honest about their lifestyle, but it helps that they can note it if they want. Usually it's a sign for me that I won't be hiring that particular guy, though of course I can also talk with him to see if drugs are essential or whether I can rely on having a sober session.

marylander1940 · December 3, 2019

I'm not sure I'd agree with the term "promoting" in this case. I'm not a PnP person, but I also think it's better that escorts are able to advertise that they are, instead of it being something they have to hide. It's a given that not everyone on RM is going to be honest about their lifestyle, but it helps that they can note it if they want. Usually it's a sign for me that I won't be hiring that particular guy, though of course I can also talk with him to see if drugs are essential or whether I can rely on having a sober session.

I think doing drugs is wrong... that's all!

I also said (and you didn't copy all of my post) I'm glad there's a record about someone offering PNP. There was a long thread about guys who would hire PNP guys where I posted some of my experiences with guys I didn't hire again.

I also prefer "sober" sessions and I don't hire guys who will use that money to go and get high.

Edited December 3, 2019 by marylander1940

bostonman · December 3, 2019

I think doing drugs is wrong... that's all!

I also said (and you didn't copy all of my post) I'm glad there's a record about someone offering PNP. There was a long thread about guys who would hire PNP guys where I posted some of my experiences with guy I didn't hire again.

I also prefer "sober" sessions and I don't hire guys who will use that money to go and get high.

I've had a few regular hookup experiences where the guy has either shown up drunk or high (without saying anything about it beforehand) - very disappointing. And if I'm talking with a guy I'm interested in hooking up with and he starts asking about PnP, that's a clear red flag. (I was trying to meet a guy the other night, and he wasn't really entirely into what I was looking for but I was willing to go for it, until he messaged me "any party favors?" - then I gave up.)

Though, I do have to say, I don't know what any escort plans to do with the money, nor do I ask - as long as they're clean while they're with me. I have to assume that the overwhelming majority of guys I've hired are not buying drugs - but how do I know?

marylander1940 · December 3, 2019

I've had a few regular hookup experiences where the guy has either shown up drunk or high (without saying anything about it beforehand) - very disappointing. And if I'm talking with a guy I'm interested in hooking up with and he starts asking about PnP, that's a clear red flag. (I was trying to meet a guy the other night, and he wasn't really entirely into what I was looking for but I was willing to go for it, until he messaged me "any party favors?" - then I gave up.)

We agree!

Though, I do have to say, I don't know what any escort plans to do with the money, nor do I ask - as long as they're clean while they're with me. I have to assume that the overwhelming majority of guys I've hired are not buying drugs - but how do I know?

Guys I hire just once or twice, I don't ask... but when someone becomes a regular I usually ask and answer more personal questions, specially with those who have become friends.

As Gabriel García Márquez (Gabo) said, we all have 3 lives: public, private and secret.

thickornotatall · December 3, 2019

i KNOW some people are going to hate on me for this one, and even I know that I am asking for something that is not always appropriate... but get rid of the ASK ME for rates....

If the escort can't figure out how much they are worth by the hour...have a space to "make an offer"...

Also stop asking to be paid for an Uber for a local call....taking the Underground/subway is a normal everyday activity for most of us in big cities..If you are more than an hour away or it's really late.state that...

bostonman · December 3, 2019

Also stop asking to be paid for an Uber for a local call....taking the Underground/subway is a normal everyday activity for most of us in big cities..If you are more than an hour away or it's really late.state that...

Also - unless it's a far trip that would truly be very expensive, I would hope that most escorts would consider paying for that themselves. In terms of escorts that I've hosted, I don't think I've ever been asked to pay for uber fees. But if they're staying in downtown Boston, it's a reasonable ride to my place from there.

marylander1940 · December 3, 2019

If the escort can't figure out how much they are worth by the hour...have a space to "make an offer"...
Also stop asking to be paid for an Uber for a local call....taking the Underground/subway is a normal everyday activity for most of us in big cities..If you are more than an hour away or it's really late.state that...

Why do you get to annoyed when an escort asks you to uber him or to pay for his uber?

This isn't the first time you draw the line on this unspeakable behavior by some escorts!

I think it's a sign the escort wants to make sure the client is for real and he won't show up at the door to be ghosted by him. Considering so many guys complain on here about escorts who don't show up ubering someone to you is a way to know he's actually coming.

bostonman · December 3, 2019

I think it's a sign the escort wants to make sure the client is for real and he won't show up at the door to be ghosted by him. Considering so many guys complain on here about escorts who don't show up ubering someone to you is a way to know he's actually coming.

I suppose that's a good reason. As long as the escort is upfront about that from the beginning and not something he sneaks in later in the conversation.

thickornotatall · December 3, 2019

Why do you get to annoyed when an escort asks you to uber him or to pay for his uber?

This isn't the first time you draw the line on this unspeakable behavior by some escorts!

I think it's a sign the escort wants to make sure the client is for real and he won't show up at the door to be ghosted by him. Considering so many guys complain on here about escorts who don't show up ubering someone to you is a way to know he's actually coming.

If I'm paying someone $300 I am not paying for an Uber...anyone I hire can see my reviews on Rentmen to know I'm real...I always point them to my spot on Rentmen...Maybe I'm cheap?..probably not....just hate nickel and diming...especially since I lve very near a big subway stop..I offer to meet them at the station...

marylander1940 · December 3, 2019

If I'm paying someone $300 I am not paying for an Uber...anyone I hire can see my reviews on Rentmen to know I'm real...I always point them to my spot on Rentmen...Maybe I'm cheap?..probably not....just hate nickel and diming...especially since I lve very near a big subway stop..I offer to meet them at the station...

There's a reason incalls are cheaper then outcalls... if the escort has to cover out of his pocket $15 or $25 from his fee + the time it takes him to go to your place and back home his profit would be lower.

Why do you draw the line on this subject? Why it enrages you so much?

bostonman · December 3, 2019

There's a reason incalls are cheaper then outcalls...

Though of course that's not a hard and fast rule. Some escorts might have reason to charge a bit more for incalls, and some charge the same amount for both.

+ *WilliamM* · December 3, 2019

Though of course that's not a hard and fast rule. Some escorts might have reason to charge a bit more for incalls, and some charge the same amount for both.

Exactly

marylander1940 · December 3, 2019