Impatient Tops

[Friday Praline]

I’ve been fortunate enough to use my psychology to manipulate the once intense situation, but as a bottom escort, I know it can harm my business. I’m just discovering that poppers help tremendously. My question is, is this a smart move or will I regret the practice later?

[FTM Zachary Prince]

I don’t recommend involving poppers in your bottoming as professional. The problem is that many people start to feel that they can ONLY bottom when using poppers. Especially if this is how you earn a living, intertwining the two can be a real problem. Do you want to be dependent on poppers to bottom for the rest of your life? If not, then I really recommend avoiding them, especially to help you bottom for work. Developing a relationship with them when bottoming can make bottoming without them seem more difficult.

 

For the record, I’m not anti-poppers. I keep them on hand at nearly all times so that I can offer them to people who like/need them during sex. But when people ask me if they should use them who aren’t already dependent on using them to bottom, I give them essentially the same spiel. I know a lot of guys who can no longer bottom without poppers. Which is exactly why I always have them on hand. But why put yourself in that situation if you can avoid it?

 

What I would recommend doing instead, is preparing with a butt plug and/or dildo and pre-lubricating before you meet clients. That way, even if they are impatient, you are already prepared.

[+ VictorPowers]

Explain to me how one would feel they need to depend on them?

[+ tassojunior]

If your face is going to be in the pillow anyway....

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Edited September 12, 2018 by tassojunior

[LookingAround]

There’s no physiologic dependency on poppers. The poster above writes as though we’re dealing with something like heroin addiction. The use of “dependency” is wrong. I think you mean reliance.

[bnm73]

I’ve been fortunate enough to use my psychology to manipulate the once intense situation, but as a bottom escort, I know it can harm my business. I’m just discovering that poppers help tremendously. My question is, is this a smart move or will I regret the practice later?

 

It's possible you might develop a certain degree of tolerance for them so that you have to huff harder and longer and look for more potent bottles. You might develop a rash if you make contact with the nose, etc.

 

Mixing poppers with alcohol, blood pressure medicine, or ED meds like Viagra can be pretty risky, too.

 

If you're worried, you should do a little research. https://www.talktofrank.com/drug/poppers is a good place to start.

[+ g56whiz]

If your face is going to be in the pillow anyway....

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DAMN!! I wonder if that would work in my CPAP machine? (End of sarcasm)

[FTM Zachary Prince]

Dependency, reliance, use whatever words you want. Most of the guys I know who use poppers to help them bottom cannot do it any other way. I’m not talking about guys who merely have an affinity for the other effects of poppers. Specifically guys who use them to loosen their hole so they can accept dick. And I’m an extremely patient top who can take a guy from never having taken a dick before to taking his first one without any poppers involved. But I probably fuck at least 10 guys a year who have the same story. They can ONLY bottom with the use of poppers. Its a combination that has become inseparable for them. Anything can become addictive when it’s intertwined with bottoming. Bottoming itself is very addictive. And for a bottom escort, its addictiveness is nearly irrelevant. Being dependent on bottoming to earn a living and being dependent on poppers to bottom sets you up for a dependent relationship on poppers. And many guys who use poppers to bottom become dependent on them. OP asked if he will regret the practice later- many of the guys who I fuck do regret their dependency. If there are no poppers around then they can’t get fucked. It’s a risk of using poppers to bottom and the OP asked if he would regret it. My answer: yes he might. I know plenty of guys who do.

[Friday Praline]

Thanx for the flood of feedback. Most times, I don’t need them especially if they’re well endowed. I was following up on something I read about dependency.