Love this post by Jawjateck

[Wolfer]

https://jawjateck.tumblr.com/post/175446003367/goinggoing

 

Especially these things I can relate to:

"Hobby communications seem to mimic the app hook-up world now. Incoherent phrases have replaced sentences; “into” is often asked after I have already described my scene."

"self-obsessions, lack of manners, basic thoughtfulness and respect for the client are waning. Entitlement rocks now!"

 

I've not had direct bad experiences although the last guy I was with, at the strike of the hour he was on his phone, completely ignoring me and LITERALLY pushed me out the door. I know I'm leaving when the time is up, but it just seemed a tad inconsiderate.

 

I have had several conversations where a guy seemingly wasn't even reading my responses or questions but just pushing for a date.

 

I've seen more and more profiles that say "NOT long chat". And I've talked to escorts about this and they say that a LOT of people that send messages are time wasters (i.e. not looking to set up an actual meeting).

 

But to me that's a bit of a catch 22, because there are SO many variations on sexual tastes and many guys don't describe it in detail what theirs are in their profile or have conflicting information (e.g. listing themselves as vers, but in their ad text saying TOP ONLY).

So it's important to know if you're a good match but for that you need to have at least SOME interaction.

But my experience is that a lot of guys just want you to make an appointment without asking questions sometimes.

 

How are your experiences with younger providers (younger than 30)? Do you feel their communication is more like on Grindr and the like now?

[big-n-tall]

I have a fair amount of regulars that I don’t really look for new guys. However, the few 20 somethings I’ve contacted in the last few months (give or take) have been awesome communicators. Maybe it’s just my luck of the draw, but I haven’t encountered what seems to be becoming the norm... at least not yet.

[Wolfer]

I have a fair amount of regulars that I don’t really look for new guys. However, the few 20 somethings I’ve contacted in the last few months (give or take) have been awesome communicators. Maybe it’s just my luck of the draw, but I haven’t encountered what seems to be becoming the norm... at least not yet.

Awesome! I recently had a great first contact with a guy too who was mid-twenties. I don't really think age factors in to it all THAT much, at the end of the day.

 

I think there are as many flaky, time wasting clients as there are flaky, time-wasting escorts. We just have to find the right matches.

[Wolfer]

And just now had the exact opposite. So I've got a date planned for tomorrow. I contacted him last Tuesday and set up our date.

I just sent him a message with some more details of what I like and that I'm excited for our date tomorrow. He reads it and... Nothing, absolutely not a single response. Is it REALLY THAT HARD to just say: "Yeah, I'm excited too." Or even if that is too much just a "Great." or "Nice." I'll take ANYTHING!

 

My enthusiasm has just deflated.