RED FLAGS

[Inkdnaija00]

What are red flags or a big no no when looking at a masseur's ad?

 

Mine are 1) Hiding face 2) Showing way too many pictures than what you are all about and 3) Replying to email or text next day.

 

Let's hear yours! Please NO name callings or disparaging comments or statements. Let's be ADULTS!

[+ 7829V]

Changing names often.

[Inkdnaija00]

Changing names often.

 

Forgot about that!

[+ 7829V]

Asks money upfront.

Wants “deposit” to schedule appointment.

[Inkdnaija00]

Asks money upfront.

Wants “deposit” to schedule appointment.

 

Oh if he does, I dont fo further at all.

[coriolis888]

 

Asks money upfront.

 

Wants “deposit” to schedule appointment.

 

 

That is more than a red flag. That is a con job waiting to happen!

[Inkdnaija00]

That is more than a red flag. That is a con job waiting to happen!

 

Lol Right!

[Inkdnaija00]

Trashy room is another one!

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Asks for pictures.

Or asks for your stats.

[Inkdnaija00]

Asks for pictures.

Or asks for your stats.

 

Stats is new to me though. I guess they have a type they go for

[coriolis888]

 

Stats is new to me though. I guess they have a type they go for

 

 

Who is doing the paying in the case of having to give your photo and stats to make an appointment for a massage?

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Stats is new to me though. I guess they have a type they go for

The excuse they use is that their table has weight limits.

[Inkdnaija00]

The excuse they use is that their table has weight limits.

 

Ahhhhh..well fortunately one of the red flags for me, too many pictures of themselves, helps me with that.

[coriolis888]

 

The excuse they use is that their table has weight limits.

 

 

They should use some of the massage fees to buy a better and stronger table.

 

They might get more customers if they did not scrutinize too much.

[Inkdnaija00]

They should use some of the massage fees to buy a better and stronger table.

 

They might get more customers if they did not scrutinize too much.

 

Boom!

[Inkdnaija00]

They should use some of the massage fees to buy a better and stronger table.

 

They might get more customers if they did not scrutinize too much.

 

Also IF they have a type, by all means, just should just say it you know. Nothing wrong with that

[Jose Anmo]

been advertising for a long time but no reviews or mentions on this forum...

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been advertising for a long time but no reviews or mentions on this forum...

 

Or mentions on this Forum that are not complimentary. Those coming from a known member here are red flags to me!

[Dmitri]

1) Tons of posted reviews.....many posted just a few days apart

2) Instead of posting prices...it just says "Ask Me" (I consider that the biggest red flag)

3) Moving around alot. Not as in a "traveling masseur", but as in living in LA for 3 months, then moving to NYC for 3 months, etc. It is a sign to me that "burn bridges" then move onto another city

4) In their ad if they ask you to "pre-pay" online for your massage

Edited July 28, 2018 by Dmitri

[MikeBiDude]

2) Instead of posting prices...it just says "Ask Me" (I consider that the biggest red flag)

While inconvenient, “ask me” is certainly NOT a true “red flag” for experienced clients.

 

I don't have an issue with the ask me, because it implies they are out of my league, either financially, physically, or bot

Ummmm, disagree

Edited July 28, 2018 by MikeBiDude

[+ E.T.Bass]

When is "ask me" ok? What might it lead to that could be nice, hypothetically speaking of course?

[MikeyT]

Just yesterday I ran into a huge red flag, he was located in 4 different cities for the same time frame on his profile, distance showed 800 miles away, when i asked when he was going to be in my area he said "tomorrow, want to book something? $250 deposit due now" i blocked his number at that point

[Redwine56]

NEVER pre-pay online for a massage that's not at a confirmed stationary place of business, unless you enjoy watching your dough vanish. Masseurs who list different cities too frequently do so to test the interest level waters, and don't really go to those places unless in would be cost effective.

 

I don't have an issue with the ask me, because it implies they are out of my league, either financially, physically, or both.

I interpret the "ask me" to be negotiable as to price and services. This type of deal is not related to theraputic services nor did I ever see this on masseurfinder. I have seen it on rentmasseur and usually when I pick up vibes that lead to more of an exotic message or "ask me" for more than a message . . . I'm listening and open to more. Kind of a borderline escort experience in the making.

[Guest InthePines]

Just yesterday I ran into a huge red flag, he was located in 4 different cities for the same time frame on his profile, distance showed 800 miles away, when i asked when he was going to be in my area he said "tomorrow, want to book something? $250 deposit due now" i blocked his number at that point

 

And I'm guessing it was a fairly new profile. I like that RentMasseur has a "member since" under statistics in there profiles. While everyone has to start sometime, the majority of scams come from new profiles that pop up, take what they can, and then vanish.

[+ 7829V]

Too good to be true photos...

We all know what we have in our area, when suddenly someone that is super model quality shows up on the sites that is too good to be true, and there's no info here in the forums, most likely is that he's fake.