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  1. On 7/30/2022 at 11:21 AM, ultraswim1 said:

    Bump. Anyone been to Diego or Bert lately? Thinking of stopping in this week…

    @ultraswim1@pfeif Both are great but different. Diego is newer either at Alpha or as masseur because even if the sensual is delicious, there is not a lot of technique. Bert has been there longer or working longer a masseur because he is very assertive in taking charge, knows what he is doing and because he is tall, he extend both arms and able to play I mean, massage, two areas of your body at once!!!

    Try both if you can, otherwise, it will be a matter of preference… Diego is medium height, muscular, tattooed arms, black hair and facial hair gorgeous smile but like @madmen said, his broken English could be challenging if you plan to communicate with him beyond the basics. Bert is significantly taller, above 6 feet, slim, clean-shaven and shaved smooth body.  He says he is a Latin mix, but his accent and looks seem to me more like Egyptian, Greek, or Sicilian, you’ll know what I mean when you meet him.

     

  2. On 8/23/2021 at 9:30 AM, Mustang said:

    So consolidated feedback from several threads looks like Alpha has:

    • Adrian from the Caribbean
    • Tim - African American
    • Royal - African American
    • Bert/Albert - Latino

    I'll probably go over this week and just do 'Next Available' and see what I get.

    Alpha update: 
    Adrian (Curazao) and Eric (Chinese) quit, right now there's only Royal (Black Trinitarian), Bert (Cuban/German/PR), Rodrigo (who used to be in Shangrila, Brazilian) and Diego (Venezuelan). Diego is new hands but his thick accent, broad shoulders, dark mustache and handsome make up for it. Bert is still the best there, specially for sensual mixed with therapeutic but, is always fun to rotate and see what you've got! 

  3. On 3/23/2022 at 6:20 PM, Peterformassage said:

    New member.  Just wanted to express experience that I made an advanced appointment for Bert at Alpha the other day and when I arrived I was told there was a double booking but could have the guy that answered the door.  Just felt like they could have called is all.

    I’ve never had problems booking Bert, did you book ahead of time or did you book within the same day? Because there has been a time or two I’ve come out of the room and there is already another client waiting for him and the other fella is doing a massage so is possible the double booking happened in a short amount of time and there were no people to call you to reschedule, that’s my logical guess. Sucks regardless but If you mention that to him, I’m confident he’ll make it up to you 😏

  4. It is a combination of service vs where you are receiving your services. For example, if I’m booking an independent masseur for in or outcall I already know they’re earning 100% so whatever I tip is more of appreciation, if for instance a session is 160 I leave 200 if enjoyed but can easily leave 250 total if I loved it. However, if I’m receiving a massage on a spa I know the masseur will only get a small commission out of the total cost of the service. In such case I tip on a higher scale, and anything beyond a standard massage (i.e. MT, naked session, ect) they are expecting above a $100 dollars tip and as a high as your level of satisfaction and wallet allows. 
     

  5. On 3/17/2022 at 4:46 PM, marylander1940 said:

    Back to subject people don't go out much, they usually  "order in" nowadays. I'm sure a sex party could still work in some cases like MAL or the black party but folks usually grab their phone to look for sex. 

    Is definitely not the same, there are elements not present such as the music, the atmosphere of a room full of testosterone, more than one option.. but now that the masks and vax proofs are not required for indoors I wonder if there would be a strong resurgence!

  6. 1 hour ago, SeahorseRider said:

    Every time I go to Manhattan and stay by Penn station I go to Alpha Spa, is a short walk, is clean, smells very nice and from the masseurs I've tried, Bert is by far the best, he mixes relaxing with sensual in a way that's... well. Just thanks. 

    Yes he is, and so so handsome.

  7. I apologize in advance if this is not the correct area but I was browsing for a list gay sex parties in NYC and the browser's feedback was disappointed. There are some parties I used to attend they do no longer run, what current parties (private invitation or paying cover) are currently held in NYC AND your experiences in it. BB scene preferred, and no, going to The Eagle or The Cock doesn't count.

  8. On 1/10/2022 at 4:10 PM, jake1973 said:

    I had hope for Nardicio's new ventures (seen references to Club Cumming, Red Eye not sure if either/both are still happening) but it sounds like it's more for the cabaret crowd than raunch. Used to love his ticketed loft parties.

    Are you talking about Daniel Nardicio's underwear parties? I thought they were defunct a decade ago, are they back? Is there any sex party going on now?

  9. On 3/8/2022 at 1:45 PM, DapperGent said:

    So…? How it went, did he say yes? Did you have him… over at your place yet!

    Bert came over last night, I don't know know why I was so nervous to ask him for an outcall in the firs place. We did the session in my bedroom, he was more playful which got me to be more verbal, that constant medium pressure, he also tried new new techniques on me and the best the body to body slam. Such satisfying massage, I don't think I'm going to book him at the spa anymore, is much worthy to have him do the sessions at my place. I highly recommend him!!!

  10. On 2/26/2022 at 4:34 AM, Jamie21 said:

    Blowing the masseur is all part of the experience in my massage. I don’t upsell it. Not all clients want it but if they do, then they’re most welcome to have a good suck and if it leads to a mouthful that’s fine too. I’ve one regular client who likes to start the massage that way. 

    I think some masseurs will consider cuming in the clients mouth an extra and charge more for it. I don’t because I like to make the massage flow nicely, and many clients fantasise about a great massage that turns more sexual. So it’s a proper massage and with sexual acts included. 

    That’s the difficulty of having a menu type price list with massage. The massage gets very erotic because the intention is to seduce the person on the table, slowly but inexorably building the sexual tension up to a climax.

    As the massage goes on the touch becomes increasingly intimate and to have to stop and discuss a rate change part way through kills the spell. So I discuss what they’re comfortable with beforehand and the only thing that would change the price during the massage is if my client asks for more time, or if they want to top me. 

    On my experience is different when dealing with a masseur from a spa that when hiring an independent masseur, with the later you just read their profile and see if the offer erotic massage or not. At spas, particularly trying new masseurs you don't know the comfort level or if that masseur is willing to turn sensual to erotic. Offering the right tip can convince even straight masseurs but in any case I am not expecting MT or BJ as part of an actual massage.  

  11. 17 hours ago, urbanfetish said:

    No, I don't think so. I generally start out with a subtle gesture or two and work my way up from there if they are open to more. I'm not one to be grabby, especially with someone new to me. 

    I hope it wasn't an outright bad experience, I feel bad in a way because I get massages from him everytime I'm in Manhattan and besides the great massage he is attentive, addressing me by name and little things like that. I suppose is a matter of chemistry which may or not exist with every client he may have. 

  12. On 3/5/2022 at 11:01 AM, pubic_assistance said:

    Pretty sure your lawyer works more than two hours a day.

    An escort is not likely to see more than two clients a day. Most of the time it's one client per day...so keep in mind this "hourly" rate is what they made for the entire day. With a median rate of $4000 a month for a one bedroom apartment in Manhattan, you can't compare NYC income numbers to other places. It's damned expensive to live here.

    I've always been generous even when I didn't had big paying jobs, when you have worked as a waiter or customer service in any capacity you can understand and be more empathic. People make their money either on tips or charging a higher rate because one, is their value and number two is expensive to in NYC, heck! in any cosmopolita. I have lived in countries with lower cost of living but if you want a centrally located apartment and at least enjoy a decent lifestyle is going to cost a LOT of money. The comments can tell much about what type of person they are, and if your outlook is hard and got a padlock in your pocket the rest  I'm not interested to find out LOL

  13. 14 hours ago, Lohengrin1979 said:

    It was usually after the second or third massage from them. After the massage was over and they were toweling me off I said something along the lines of “Hey do you ever do outcalls? I’d love to have you over to my apartment for a massage. I think it’d be more relaxing there.” Then we discussed rates and exchange numbers. Both were open to it but if not, no skin off your back. You lose nothing, right?

    Really smooth, thanks for the tips can't wait!

  14. On 1/3/2022 at 5:09 PM, urbanfetish said:

    I had a session with Bert this afternoon. The beginning started out pretty good but the end of the massage was rather lackluster. Can't say much more but feel free to DM if you'd like. 

    Oh.. that sucks, my experiences with Bert have always been fantastic and satisfying. Were you "going for it" too much or too hard? 

  15. 10 hours ago, poolboy48220 said:

    years (probably decades) ago a provider invited me to a sex party at his place.  About a half-dozen guys there but the provider arranging it was focused on me; at one point he took me off to a separate room where we played.  I was happily surprised, I'm  not the type of guy that someone will typically gravitate to in a roomful of other men. 

    Was the provider a regular of yours that invited you to a private (personal) party or did you had to pay to be in the party? In one hand is hot when you are into 1 person within a party and no one but that person exist but at the other hand you're turning away from group fun which I assume was the selling ticket LOL!

  16. On 3/2/2022 at 1:49 PM, DapperGent said:

    I know who you are talking about, Bert knows how to use those hands… Concurring with @KeepItReal I would approach the subject during the massage, what are your expectations and he ought to tell you or give you his number.

    @DapperGent LOL! You are right is him, I'm just building courage to ask I get nervous... Just to imagine him right here doing a massage wow...

  17. On 3/3/2022 at 8:52 PM, Lohengrin1979 said:

    I have done this with a couple of masseurs in LA. The above advice is spot on. Ask during the massage. I asked two. Both said yes. It’s more money for them. Also be willing to host. Many of them live with roommates or other masseurs so hosting for them can be difficult.

    Do you mind sharing how exactly you did it? I´m not a big extrovert. 

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