I can understand if the RM is discreet and doesn't want a pix to be out there forever. But if he was to send a pix via RM, there is a way he can delete whenever he wants, e.g. like within 5 minutes after sending it if you haven't set up an appointment. I also think even if discreet, he can FaceTime because it's in the moment although I do know it can be recorded depending on the device used. But I think if the guy is so "discreet" he won't even send a pix or FaceTime or meet in person, it means, IMHO, either (1) he's in the wrong business; or (2) he isn't the guy shown in partial pix of his bod.