Chris struck

Who are these guys, hook it up dude 
Agreed whole heartedly

I suspect gay porn is the culprit.

He's actually really not that big of a guy. I think his 8" is a bit generous...haha. I mean it's substantial but I've been with many escorts who are much larger. Although I guess "Reasonable endowment" is a bit subjective.
And actually I think SirKirk 100 percent checks the "gentle" and "patient" boxes. 

I have seen Kirk for erotic massage a number of times before and he is a great guy and agree can be patient and helpful for what you are looking for.  He definitely has the side of him in the pics but there is much more to him than that. 

2nd this 

This is unintendedly turning out to be a better way to meet guys than Grindr. 

This is unintendedly turning out to be a better way to meet guys than Grindr. 

This is unintendedly turning out to be a better way to meet guys than Grindr. 

Hi gents, 
     New guys here looking for your advice. I’m looking for a great top escort to show me how to bottom. Seems like gentle patient tops with reasonable endowment are hard to come by. Preferred age under 35, since I’m younger. Good looks can’t hurt. Appreciate your help.
CHS
 

This is unintendedly turning out to be a better way to meet guys than Grindr. 

This is unintendedly turning out to be a better way to meet guys than Grindr. 

I had a feeling that might happen for you.