Adventure, serendipity, and spontaneity. If people felt shame going to such places, they wouldn't mourn the loss. Most guys (yes, even the hot ones) are missing out on real connections and most of the time just end up jerking off and putting their phone down before meeting anyone. I also personally like to know if someone is a crackhead before they arrive at my door. The good news is cruising is making a massive comeback as a result of people being tired of being cooped up. It's just shame a lot of these places couldn't stay in the game long enough to see it.