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Thanks!!! I love short shorts!!!! May the clothing designers who have propagated the concept of "long" shorts and swimwear be consigned to the ash heap of designer history!!!

Charlie... I almost was going to mention the late Adam Faust. He was a particular favorite of mine when he was in NYC. His real first name was Adam and he chose Faust for obvious reasons as that was one of his specialties and something that he practiced in his private life. However, we never even remotely got involved with fisting as his other specialty was BDSM. Again it was something that he practiced in his private sex life. He was a really great guy... so kind and caring. I am not sure what happened after he left NYC and moved to LA in order to further his film career, but he is sadly missed.

Recently I was searching an Italian dictionary and stumbled across the following: Fisting: atto sessuale in cui uno dei due partner inserisce un pugno chiuso nell'organo genitale dell'altro. (Well no need to really translate...) It seems that the Italians don't have a word for "fisting" and use the English word. I guess they also like to use the English word partner as well. I wonder if the Germans refer to fisting as being "fausting" since "faust" is the German word for fist. Makes me wonder if Goethe or perhaps Gounod had a thing for it as well!

Well, technically speaking you are correct... However, Aquarius in name and myth is dripping with water. Hence, my jocular reference... Aquarius is the eleventh zodiacal sign and one which has always been connected with water. To the Babylonians it represented an overflowing urn, and they associated this with the heavy rains which fell in their eleventh month, whilst the Egyptians saw the constellation as Hapi, the god of the Nile. Greek legend, however, tells of Ganymede, an exceptionally handsome, young prince of Troy. He was spotted by Zeus, who immediately decided that he would make a perfect cup-bearer. The story then differs - one version telling how Zeus sent his pet eagle, Aquila, to carry Ganymede to Olympus, another that it was Zeus, himself, disguised as an eagle, who swept up the youth and carried him to the home of the gods. In either case, once Ganymede arrived, he had to contend with the wrath of Hera, wife of Zeus. She was annoyed on two counts - firstly, that her husband should have such strong feelings for a mere boy and, secondly, that Ganymede was to occupy the favoured position previously held by her own daughter Hebe, goddess of youth. But Zeus was not to be thwarted and Ganymede, often riding on Aquila and always carrying the golden cup, accompanied the great god on his travels, impressing him with his kindness. This was made manifest when, realising how in need of water the people on earth were, he pleaded with Zeus to be allowed to help them and was given permission to send down rain. Eventually he was glorified as Aquarius, god of rain, and placed amongst the stars. Plus, I would bet the farm that good ol' Zeus had a fling or two with his young boy toy during their "travels"... and even a fling with a bit of "aqua" as well!!!!

I'm an Aquarian... and ironically have never been into water sports... Perhaps I missed my true calling...

W Last I knew they were called love handles... not a bad thing to have... especially if you forget to wear your harness.

Just one of your 365 "cheat days"?? Actually kidding... I hear that you are quite the disciplined person... or was that you like to be disciplined?! Well whatever... it was one of the two...

Reminds me of a former neighbor... Who's abs were completely undone by the pizza kitchen... yep... Every night the pizza guy showed up at his door... That and the Corona Lites... Yeah! The low carb beer was gonna help carve out those abs... Not exactly the right kind of six pack involved in the equation.

Remember that's just "a little bit of tub"...

One would think that in this day and age where we have in addition to traditional whole milk... two percent milk, one percent milk, non-fat milk that tastes like two percent milk, regular non-fat milk, skim milk, soy milk, almond milk... that someone would devise a formula for a gin that would have fewer calories... and would still have the taste of gin and the after effects of gin... Something that does not taste like cotton gin... or playing cards... Perhaps someone out there will find a way to grow dietetic juniper berries. It would make for a great investment prospect as I'm sure that BVB is not the only one that has this same dilemma!

BVB... I've posted this before... but Nick Harmon had a philosophy: If you eat everyday... you must train your abs everyday. I have not seen him in a couple of years, but when I last did he had the most gorgeous and lickable abs imaginable. I have no idea if he took any steroids, but what ever he was doing he certainly maintained a certain "look"... the classic V look of traditional bodybuilders. As for myself, based on his advice I do an an routine every day... and even though I maintain a healthy diet and only drink spring water and skim milk it is still indeed a constant, never ending, and at times futile battle. Of course the aging process seems to cause a shift in body mass... and roids or not... I think that factors into the equation as well. In my case it's totally based on age!

LOL! Hopefully you will have better luck than I!!! Once upon a time I could make it into a thirty... Something tells me that you still can!!! Two years ago a friend gave me a jet black pair of size 30 shorts that he had "outgrown". I could barely squeeze into them, but I managed. Plus, they looked hot with a leather harness etc. I did manage to wear them for a while... but eventually they literally... and not figuratively... popped a button!!!

A few years ago I was seeing an escort who was doing roids... not to mention selling them. He had a theory on roid gut. He said that it was due to a variety of factors... and possibly partially due to where it was injected as a lot of guys inject the roids directly into the gut. He never did and he did his injecting in front of me on more than one occasion. Still, if you are trying to get big... HGH makes you big all over... and that includes the internal organs located in the gut area. One then needs to compensate with additional ab exercises to counteract the effect. In other words, as far as the abs are concerned it is three steps forward and two steps back... or possibly three or four steps back. Guys today go for size and the gut region responds just as much as other areas if the body. Of course if one over exercises the midsection... or uses weights... it will increase in size without steroid use. Personally I prefer the classic slim 30 inch waist bodybuilders of the past... It proves that a natural look as in a body built by hard work and not roids is still the most desirable look. Still, as Dane Michaels says, on the right guy the gutsy look can needed be incredibly sexy. Now regarding Dane, now THAT'S "Oh so sexy!"

Being able to edge someone takes a special talent. The "edger" really has to know not only what buttons to push, but also when to push the buttons so as to be able to best torment the"edgee". In addition he must know exactly how far to go so as to bring the victim to the edge, but not get him there until the he wants him to get there. I've seen it done a few times at the NY Bondage Club where the denoument was quite intense... like the guy would end up shooting across the room in a literal explosion. Of course when done in a bondage scenario (where the bondage aspect is part of the turn on) the addition of being helpless and bound only would add to the victim's ultimate gratification.

Well here's another guy getting in the line... and damn, while the scruff does not work on all guys, I must agree with BVB and GF69 that it certainly works on him!!!

No, this cock... Because size matters... aka man with large cock... http://www.dadwagon.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/09/man_with_a_very_big_cock.jpg

Smile on my face...

Well... the only time the "glasses on vs. off" thing becomes problematic is when you are playing with a guy who likes to switch... as in a couple of dudes based in Chicago... In that case I leave 'em on... as it is always best to err on the side of caution in the world of BDSM!

I agree with wnybear that only the first guy looks decent in glasses... plus the style of glasses seems to fit his look... plus the glasses are relative unobtrusive compared to the "over-the-top" styling of most of the others. Now interestingly regarding myself... when playing the bottom guy I usually take mine off... as traditionally it is not "kool" to beat up on a guy wearing glasses. However, when playing the dom... I most definitely keep them on... as I need to see what I am doing... It ain't a good idea to miss your mark and not be "on target" when playing with a flogger or similar toys!

Ultimately number three for me I wanted to wait a while before revealing my pick. Normally number 2 and both guys in number 4 are the types to whom I would normally be attracted. However, when I came across the photo of number three I saw goodness, a gentle quality, and also kindness in his being... and those are the qualities that the best BDSM doms possess. It might seem strange to some, but those are the exact attributes that are necessary for the sub to implicitly trust and have confidence that the dom will take "good care of his boy". Now I have no idea if number three is into any BDSM activities, but if he were I would guess that he would be quite good at it. In any event, I would bet the farm that he would make a great lover... again a quality that the best of the best possess. Furthermore, along those lines he reminds me of the long retired Reece Rothmeier... Reece was nowhere near as muscular, but did have all those other admirable qualities in spades. bigvaboy... thanks for your special input... as it confirmed the feelings I had about this guy.

And if you select wisely you might even find yourself in the following predicament! http://28.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lih0ri7b7b1qhzr2uo1_250.jpg Smile on my face!

Who would you pick as your ideal Leather Daddy? Number 1: .http://30.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_llodnpQtXB1qjcaw4o1_250.jpg Number 2: http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lny1uq63Wc1qh9lnso1_250.jpg Number 3: http://28.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lkmn2fvwUM1qbkyv6o1_250.jpg Number 4: (A favorite state of affairs on either side of the equation.) http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lnpfyyDiVn1qg4n09o1_250.jpg

Another vote for Jim Cantore I posted somewhere else recently that I want to see this guy with his shirt off... and when he was a bit younger he seemed to have an even more defined bod from what I could tell under all the rain and snow gear that he usually wears. At any rate, he is unfortunately not broadcasting from my town (well that is perhaps a good thing... he is in lower Manhattan) so I still have power... but I am not sure for how long as things are getting a bit more intense...

The last dentist who I knew that moved to Florida set up a pottery making business… I guess it is difficult to get a dental license in the Sunshine State. Only an oral exam and cleaning!!? I would hope he would have gotten a free crown or even a complimentary (if dreaded) root canal out of the deal!

Mention of "pearly whites" brings to mind a dental exam as opposed to a medical exam... and I have participated in quite a few of the former... an initial cursory examination followed by getting down to business whereby my tool is inserted into the guys mouth and a more thorough, methodical, and comprehensive evaluation is subsequently made. Those lucky dentists who get to put their tools in so many mouths!!! Something to think about for the next lifetime?! Of course the next level up… or down depending on your perspective… would be to perform an endoscopic exam… and that would get us back into the medical category…