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Re: "Another experience I fondly remember is Reece Rothmeier, now retired, bondage/SM master of NY. ...he was a bit nervous about causing damage, so as soon as I verbalized some pain he stopped."

Reece never wanted to cross the line into what he thought was risky or possibly dangerous. He always made a conscious effort to err on the side of safety.

Now Reece told me there were only a couple of his clients that were more adventurous than I when it came to BDSM. Something tells me uwsman2 was probably one of those guys....}(

Leave it to JT... At it again... Fooling around with the Milkman... Only in Brooklyn!

>You know Whip, I prefer Marquis de Sade

>over Leopold von Sacher-Masoch. You see the picture.

Actually Steven, I'm still confused. Do you mean you would hire Donatien Alphonse Francois de Sade as opposed to Leopold von Sacher-Masoch... or is it the other way around?

From the pictures I've seen Donatien was the more callipygian of the two... so he would be my preference.

>Hi Steven,

>Beat you? Or spank you?

Kudos to Deej! How that line went right over my head I’ll never know!

Still, could Steven be signaling that he has intentions of becoming the quintessential "Masochistic International BDSM Escort"?

Steven... It seems that Uraguay and the UK top the list for gas prices. Belgium is ranked number 15. Since you will be in Paris shortly, France comes in at number 12. The USA is number 102 on the list... so why not visit here instead? :-)

At the bottom of the list are Iran, Iraq, and last but not least Turkmenistan at number 141!

JT... From what I hear you've gotten quite a few good views not to mention good photos of that that bridge of late... is it for sale?

PS: I like the new signature.

Yes, JT! I totally agree... IF you are indeed into "MANSCENT" Mick is MOST DEFINITELY THE MAN!!!

Regarding escorts being on the receiving end:

Reece once described to me a flogging session that he had to endure as part of his training. In essence he had to experience every type of flogger that his “instructor” had in his S&M arsenal. I begged him to put me through the same paces. However, he allowed me to be subjected to only a mini version of the drill, as he came to believe that the full version was actually somewhat irresponsible and bordered on lunacy… In this case having been on the receiving end as a bottom gave him that special insight which allowed him to fine-tune his own skills as a top, which meant knowing where trustworthiness ended and insanity began. In fact, while he used “safe words”, he became so skilled at reading the bottoms reaction and body language, that they were hardly necessary.

Still, once I would like to try the “other side” so to speak, but I really doubt it would actually be satisfying… still having not been there I can’t say for sure… Though a “flip-flop” S&M session might be an interesting scenario allowing one to experience the best of both worlds… Though I seriously doubt that would ever occur with an escort. As a client being out of commission for a few days is no big deal. In fact feeling a slight “after-burn” is part of the excitement. However, as “uwsman 2” has implied, no escort in his right mind is going to take the gamble of trusting a “novice top” to work him over. Heck, in retrospect I don’t think I would want to take the risk of irritating or infuriating any BDSM escort… especially if under normal circumstances you are going to be in the receiving end!!!

Usman2 & Uwsider! Good buddys! I was a “Reece Regular” as well… There has indeed been a “void” ever since Reece emailed me to inform me of his retirement. Reece was a great guy who was extremely good at what he did. I have yet to find anyone as talented…

My most satisfying “post Reece” experience has been with Adam Faust. He specializes in fisting but is into BDSM as well. I’ve seen him three times. He is an intelligent and sane individual and read me perfectly from day one. Not as gratifying as Reece, but a decent facsimile. He is small in stature and not physically imposing. In addition, he has no separate playroom and does not have nearly the equipment that Reece had, but enough to please quite nicely.

I have hired Radar. The experience was interesting but not totally satisfying. He never read me properly… I think the best S&M tops have had experiences as bottoms along the way… Reece certainly did… This gives a special insight that allows one to gauge the bottom’s pain-pleasure zone. Radar never found my zone. He was too concerned with what turned HIM on.

Now this happened on our first and only time together. I am considering a second session, but if it occurs, there will be a long detailed discussion prior so we are on the same wavelength. I think he needs to get more input from the bottom’s point of view… On the other hand, Reece was a very wise individual. He knew exactly what you wanted before you even knew that you wanted it!

Other problems with Radar include the fact that his albeit temporary Chelsea location is a pigsty. The so-called dungeon is his bedroom! It is a fifth floor walk up (sound familiar?) but what a dump. He plans to move to a new location with better facilities, but I’m not sure when that will take place.

Still, he is a decent guy… So I might give him another try… Also hot, very hot… The thought of his firm butt alone makes me want to give him another go around! Regarding his photos, he told me that the original ones were quickly taken a while back in the middle of the night and did not accurately reflect his present condition… but who knows!

I have also hired Cole Davis. However, he is essentially retired. I emailed him over the summer and he said to give him a call. I never did.

I tried Cole Ramsey… He didn’t have a clue regarding what to do… A total waste of time and money!

I never tried Master Victor. Is pictures do nothing for me.

I've heard pro and con about Matt Green... a lot of negative things about him personally... not sure if they are true or not... never hired him.

IF ANYONE HAS ANY OTHER INFO OR SUGGESTIONS REGARDING BDSM ESCORTS IN NYC PLEASE ADVISE!!! THANKS!