MysticMenace

One of my favorite Aaron Sorkin TV Shows...The West Wing Matthew del Negro

Some NBC hunks set in the Windy City - Jesse Lee Soffer - Chicago PD Taylor Kinney - Chicago Fire Nick Gehlfuss - Chicago Med Colin Donnell - Chicago Med

Cannot tell if these are real, but man, can you imagine???

Don't know what FMRRG is, but yassss!

Before I become the next Steve Carrell and call myself another 40-year old virgin (no kiss, no sex - that I remember, with anybody), I decided in my tender age of 34 to just do it - jerking off to porn was no longer cutting it. Did my google search, stumbled upon RM and got an account during New Year's Eve in 2019. Once I saw some guys in DC, I nervously texted one of them, asking for the following: Whether he is available for 2 hours between 1/2/2020 and 1/4/2020 What the rate is Being the naive guy that I was, I also offered that if that weekend does not work, whether he had availability some time that month. The provider then mentioned his rate for an incall. Not knowing what an incall was, I offered to book a hotel (since I had what I thought was an irrational fear of meeting a stranger at his own place) outside of DC and would let him know where it is as soon as I booked it. Then the provider gave a different rate for an outcall, which then I had to google and figure out the difference from an incall and subsequently agreed to the outcall rate. He asked me for stats, to which I replied. And then he asked me what I wanted to do during our time together and I was taken aback. I thought I just had to reserve the appointment and the "thing" just happens. So I panicked for a good hour or so, then calmed down. I looked at the list of things he was into on RM and texted the things we had in common and what I was ready for (e.g., did not know what douching was back then so did not even bother mentioning that I might want to bottom). Confirmed the booking on 1/3/2020 for 2 hours. Man, was I relieved. The day before the booking, I was already so worked up and nervous to the point of wanting to cancel the appointment. I had to reset and revisit why I made the booking to begin with. Realizing that I need to get this nervous energy out, I thought it was prudent that I probably start off with an erotic massage. So I got myself a RentMasseur account and booked one for that night. Still nervous but went through with it. Let's just say the experience was meh, but I was able to overcome my anxiety of being that close to a guy and having another man touch me. Success! The night finally arrived, with wads of $20s on me (the ATM near me only dispensed cash by $20 denomination), I knocked on his door (he had issues getting to my hotel so my horny self just set aside my fear and offered to meet up at his place). He greeted me with a smile and a big hug. I felt a good chunk of my nervous energy starting to melt away. He played some soft EDM music in the background while talking and getting to know each other. I was still nervous, so I just ended up talking with him for a good hour and 15 minutes. Then he stood up and said, "I know you just did not come here to talk. I can talk through the rest of our time, but I know that is not what you came here for." Then panic started to come over me and slowly stood up and walked with him to the bedroom. He played some porn while he was undressing himself. He then started to undress me and started the rest of the time with a kiss. There were certainly lots of firsts for me during that session, and was relieved and happy I followed through with it. A lot has happened in the last 10 months, experienced lots of other firsts with other providers and masseurs, and as I read one of my RM reviews that an "old timer" referenced in one of the posts in this forum, I realize that I have been pretty busy, having reviewed over 70 providers and masseurs since I started. Perhaps I am still fairly new in all of this, but I am glad I stepped out of my comfort zone and just did it.

That was hot, definitely got me going. Although what is going on between 4:17 and 4:32?

Hot daddy...Piolo Pascual

Derek Ramsay

Sounds like a no-go for this guy. FYI, there appears to be 2 similar RentMasseur accounts with the same pictures (same phone contact) - https://rentmasseur.com/ValNiki https://rentmasseur.com/ValVal I had inquired with the RentMasseur webmaster whether having 2 profiles with the same contact was normal, and the response was, "Be informed that it's not forbidden to advertise with 2 profiles on Rentmasseur."

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Matthew Stephen Smith

Matthew Stephen Smith

Matthew Stephen Smith

You might find these helpful... https://www.companyofmen.org/threads/411-for-feedback-on-damo-in-san-francisco.138609/#post-1791326 https://www.companyofmen.org/threads/411-on-damo.130907/#post-1539177 https://www.companyofmen.org/threads/damo-currently-in-new-york.120208/#post-1267373 https://www.companyofmen.org/threads/damo-in-kc.123512/ https://www.companyofmen.org/threads/anyone-seen-damo-lately.118809/page-2#post-1179377

A good belch at the end of a great hamburger lunch is a happy ending to me. Lol.

Based on the quote that @@Reisr30 included, it does appear that the provider is looking for individuals to follow through on those activities or on fantasies he is soliciting the clients to provide. Unless the quote was perhaps contextualized in a role-play setting.

My favorite...Dante Colle

Personally, I agree. My moral convictions dictate that the activities this provider were suggesting, to me, are not right and even illegal in some or most areas. While I and probably a lot of us share this conviction, my hesitance was not directed at this one provider, the Grindr chat, or my own convictions. What I do not know about yet are (a) how certain individuals develop their morality to warrant acceptance or inclination to activities a lot of people consider taboo and illegal and (b) if there are societal constructs right now or back then that would affirm and embrace such moral choices and how certain groups did or could unite on those ethics.

Depending on the thread topic, I search for pictures, you can right click and select to copy the image address and use the "insert image" function to post.

Is he the only masseur you get your "sensual" enjoyment from? Regardless, I would suggest just being upfront with him before the start of your next session. Tell him what you liked and did not like. Not saying anything the past 4 years really just reinforced the bad behaviors or the behaviors that were not aligned to your expectations. If he acknowledges them and makes those changes (or demonstrates improvement) during the session, perhaps give him a chance. If he does not or still gives a mediocre massage, then should probably just move on and try to get a different one that can offer both good massage with the sensual touches. Depending on where you live, there should be someone that is or could be better than the one you are seeing now.

Barry Sloane - Revenge Justin Hartley, Josh Bowman - Revenge

Contemplated on responding to this as it would perpetuate conversations about a provider that just looks to be just no-bueno. However, if he really had any such secrets, material or otherwise, I think he would have already been neutralized. And really, if his main marketing theme are those "secrets," then he needs to revisit his market - I do not think clients primarily get providers to satisfy their intellectual curiosity on potentially unfounded stories - clients are more likely to want emotional and physical satisfaction. All of this to say, pass.

Interestingly enough, I got to chat with this no-profile pic guy on Grindr and mentioned he was into family fun (has had fun with his biological mom and older brother for years, separately and the three of them together) and K9 sex as a bottom. I had no idea how the latter worked (or even what K9 meant) so I looked it up and was, uhmmm, actually I did not or do not know what to think or feel about it yet. As the dogs were doing the topping it did not appear that they were treated cruelly. And who knows, maybe that guy on Grindr might just be outright lying, but it gave me pause and thought that there could be people out there that are really into these things. So the question if the profile is completely insane? It definitely is to me and potentially to a lot more people, but to each its own, and there are probably certain individuals or groups that are or could get into this stuff.

Asking for a friend My friend has always thought cumming while getting fucked is hot, but for some reason, it has not happened to him yet. So he asks: Is it as good or better than it looks? How is it different, if it is, from a business-as-usual jerk off? What could potentially impede my friend's ability to bust his nuts while getting fucked? Is it just performance anxiety, the provider's tool is not hitting the spot, or is it something else? What tips, if any, can my friend apply to increase his chances of this happening to him? Could this happen to everyone, or should my friend just accept that this may not happen to him and to find other ways to enjoy himself?

Noah Eggold - Blacklist