I'm sure he gets bombarded with texts being such a popular porn star. I'd say if you wanna meet him to not try and engage in any small talk and get straight to business. First text, Hi I'm looking to hire you on this date and time if you are available. If you just go with I'd love to meet up sometime let's chat that might not get a response if he's got a ton of messages.
I have a feeling this summer is going to stink for hiring. At least for anyone not already local to the area. So much financial anxiety going on. Is anyone on here planning to hire less for the time being?
I've hooked up with tons of bi guys that are vers so they top with women and bottom with guys. The last guy that I hooked up with a few times had an open relationship with his gf on this. So I'm sure it could work the other way too. Although if a guy likes to bottom with guys and top with women if his partner is vers I'm sure they might be like hey you can top me just as easily as you could top a woman. And yes a woman could top her bf as well with a strap on but for some reason guys love a real dick in them. 😅
I'll play a little devil's advocate. You say you really really really want to engage in oral with a masseur. Most stds show up 1 - 4 weeks after you would come into contact with them. I'm not sure how sexually active you are with your partner but if you do hire a masseur which includes oral don't have any sexual activity with your partner until you get yourself tested roughly a month after your massage session. There should be somewhere local by you that offers free hiv and std testing.
I prefer guys who work together to have separate ads so I can clearly see the stats of each guy. Saves me from asking for the stats of each of them then. 😅
Here in Buffalo there is pretty much zero locally to pick from to hire. So I only hire visitors when they pass through. Which is mainly May - September. So I put money aside during the "offseason" to hire roughly once or twice a month during the peak time. If I lived in NYC for instance man I'd be broke.
He passed through Buffalo a week or two ago and seems to pop up a few times every summer. I might try him out if he passes through this summer @Ali Gator