I saw the movie only the week before the awards, so it was very fresh in my mind. I thought it was extremely well done, and a terrific example of ensemble work, but then so was "Knives out" and "Little Women", both of which left me feeling happy rather than depressed.
Count me as totally bourgeoise.
Spoiler:
I counted 4 onscreen deaths in Parasite, 2 in Knives out, 1 in Little Women. All were necessary to the plots.