I always make as clear as possible what I'm looking for and if they can accommodate for the agreed price. If I get up-charged, I don't see them again, no matter how much I liked them. I don't appreciate getting swindled and when they lose clients, they'll hopefully learn a valuable lesson in business ethics. I've had several come to me for repeated sessions and I clearly state why I'm not interested based on the previous experience. No whining, promises, or begging will get me to try again with the same person. When getting burned, we should learn our lesson the first time! There are plenty of nice men out there who provide what we are looking for and I'm not despearte either. Many of these younger less worldly "escorts" need to realize that just because we may be older and hire, doesn't mean we are pathetic or desperate. They need our money far more that we need their services!