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Don't see them in the states. Fly over the pond. Ticket prices are capped and much more reasonable. Even with the cost of the flight and hotel, you would be surprised how much less it costs than trying to buy tix here to see high demand shows. Doing this for both Ariana and Celine. The other benefit is that it's much cheaper to hire over there also and the quality is top notch with many who can't enter US cuz of the current gov restrictions tightening. FIRM believer in tasting and experiencing new things.

Didn't even consider that, but it's possible. He did linger and chatted with us for another 20 minutes after he paid. The tables are close enough that it's easy to have a comfortable conversation. Nice guy. Probably in his late 20s, early 30s.

@Mark874 Watch his OF videos. Will be much more satisfying than being with him. To be honest, know I can't even bring myself to watch his videos. PTSD

I am not suggesting that. I am well aware it was not universally accepted back then. Saying all the boys/girl were 13 is a red herring. The age ranged between the teens all the up to early 30s. This is well documented. We get too stuck on our moral high chairs these days and want everything to be simple black and white. Indenture servitude, harems and other cultural practices that are frowned upon by most of the world doesn't remove its existence and acceptance in those countries and societies where it is acceptable behavior. The American moral compass is not the be all and end all. The world isn't that simplistic. There are good elements that be found in almost anything. The rush to judgement is a knee jerk reaction that we know better. Who are we to judge?

You're being overly simplistic. In ancient Greek times, it was common in society for relationship to exist between a older person and a younger person of either gender. It was not uncommon for a man to take a wife in her teens. These were often arranged for political, status or financial reasons. Yes, the motivations for such things has not changed in thousands of years. The relationship arrangement involved a contract which entailed the older person to provide gifts of high worth to the younger person. They also became a ward to the person much like they would be to their blood child. Judging ancient behavior by our current moral compass is fool-hardy. I would suggest we focus on the better elements of familial bonds and how it provided a safer passage for the youth to enter military service than the sensationalism of the age gap.

$450/hr charging at top of the market. Pass, not worth it me.

The best advice my best friend gave me when we first meet was to always remain being interesting. He came from a family who has museums and buildings with their family name etched in on them. I grew up in a family surviving off of food stamps. I was fortunate to be book smart and got scholarships for my education. I devoured information. It took an active interest in learning about other people, foreign cultures and in turn became interesting to them. I meet people from much more privileged upbringings in college and also through friends of friends. I found it wasn't that difficult to find some common area of interest. You just have to listen. I take those life experiences now and pay it forward when I meet someone interesting that may be much younger than I am now. My friendships with people who saw something in me that I didn't see in myself change the course of my life. If I had stuck with my peers, I would have lived a much less interesting life. No thank you.

No, they were forming life long bonds. We could learn a lot from their example. 🙏

@Peter Eater If they did, they need to have their eyes checked. 😆 I certainly felt we were the best looking table. Definitely having the most fun. The attractive solo diner next us even chatted us up a bit since he only had a few dishes and hadn't gone for the full testing menu.

I think this is a generalization. Part of why I feel comfortable is that when I was in my early 20s, I befriended people that were much older than me. I always had more in common with them than people my own age. I was a nerd who collected college degrees from Ivy schools like they were going out of fashion. One of my best friends was 35 years older than me. I wasn't ever paid to go the opera, museums, dinner, etc. All of those things are well beyond my personal means at the time. Yes my friend was gay. He never made a move on me or had some ulterior motive other than friendship. I was blessed with his friendship until the last moment when I held his hand and he took his last breathe. I think the assumption of seeing two people with an age big difference must mean it's an arrangement is shallow. Yes I pay for the company of some. It is usually to stay in a bedroom. It is rarely to go to fine dining restaurants that cost more than their services. You would be surprised how genuinely nice people are when you don't treat them like a piece of meat. Some become friends that visit to see you; not wanting or expecting anything from you. Yes it happens in real life.

I guess this would be true if you cared about those things. I don't. I had a date with a 23 yo who is younger than my own son by a decade. Did I care what people thought? Who gives an crying F. We sat in the middle of Le Bernardin (a 3 Michelin star restaurant in NYC) together having a wonderful time. Talked about the state of the world, AI, immigration, eàst vs west coast, what makes a great service experience when dining, wine culture in upper state NY, etc. It was a 3 hour menu tasting so we had lots of time to talk about lots of things of shared interests. We were dressed better than most of the other tables. None of the other tables cared. If anyone stared at us, I didn't notice and frankly I didn't care. The serving team treated us like all their other guests. Attentive but stayed the hell out of our personal business between courses. We were one of the last tables to leave. Walked back down to Park Avenue to the hotel. The hotel staff couldn't care less. Doorman held the door open and welcomed us back just after 1am. All this wasted energy on what others might think. Do what brings you personal joy. Everyone else can bugger off.

So exactly what was he offering to do if you had met up? Curious.

It was really disappointing since his OF videos are really hot. He said he doesn't know my sexual history. I'm like well it's a ton less than yours! I told him I could show him my recent tests. It wouldn't have mattered or changed anything. IG Fboy that thinks he's doing you the favor by spending time with you. Madrid has better options to test taste.

Sometimes it's better not to meet you fantasies. The good: -looks like his photos -beautiful eyes -very muscular body -blessed with a very healthy 🍆 The bad: -not into kissing other than quick pecks (think chicken like) -didn't like his nipples or ass being played with -sucked only with a condom on -could not get hard (the lord's gift were completely wasted when we met) -wasn't willing to bottom The ugly: -the dry humping to distract from the lack of excitement -the heat bothered him (granted it was almost 100 even with the AC in the room running); lots of heavy heaving from all the wrong reasons -rolled over a few times and expected to be worshipped Gave up after 30 minutes. As pretty as he is, being there was doing nothing for me. Left and regretted wasting my time and money on meeting him. Should have gone with my instincts and meet someone else in Madrid.

He's fine with you servicing him. If a provider doesn't care to suck you, is it boner or deal killer? Even if he checks all the other boxes for what you're looking for.

WA is by far the most convenient for anyone traveling since it allows free messaging and calling almost anywhere you can get Wifi. Telegram is okay, but the amount of spam can be overwhelming. Signal is almost overwhelming US and German users. Given this, WA is just easier and more widely accessible.

He's raised his rates a few times over the last few months. Initially agreed to $400. Date and time set. Texted me a few hours before set time that he would have to charge me $500 instead due to overwhelming demand. I passed. Told him I didn't like things being changed after they had been agreed upon. He quoted someone else $600 a few weeks after. I guess he has decided to keep raising his rate based on the demand. Not worth it to me personally.

Are you looking to hire or work there?

I was just with a guy that said he prefers to meet clients that are shorter in real life. He's 6'1" He says he doesn't feel as dominant being with a taller guy. Interesting perspective.

HoldenFinch Just did an overnight. Dreams do cum true! Had been getting withdrawals after meeting him 2-3 hours a few times. Took the plunge and it was pure bliss. Was looking out the window at the weather, he slipped up behind me, said good morning and slipped his morning wood into me. Picked me up and moved me over to the sofa. Bent me over. Held on for dear life. Gripped the cushions HARD as I blew hands free! Sublime overnight.