Did I just scroll through a thread that featured a snit fit claiming @WilliamM has never visited a (former?) Streisand property in Malibu and that he knows nothing about a Streisand concert in the 80s? Really? That much venom about an entuhtainuh's house and concert and whether a very nice member knows anything about them?
Im old enough to remember when male tennis players who briefly took off a sweaty shirt to replace it with a dry one made headlines (see Newcombe, John and Tanner, Roscoe)
You obviously grew up in a more open-minded and intellectual culture than the one I grew up in. No surprise-I grew up in the Deep South. I cant imagine my straight friends reading James Baldwin at 19.
It's a case by case basis. It definitely works for this gent. But I occasionally see young, petite guys who look silly with a moustache. And every once and a while the older guy with that 70s Castro clone look-yuck!