Interloper

I tend to be very in control / take control. Time with an escort allows me to relax and have a physical connection that is fun, cathartic, and free of the strings that come with having to worry about the future.

I would throw in a vote for Ryan Chambers. Only met him up once, but he was very sweet, connected, honest, and fun!

My first trainer was a young straight guy, very hunky, pretty naive and perpetually short of money. He got involved with a group like this. It started out as auditioning to model street clothes. Then it progressed to modeling speedos and underwear. At that point, I said, "Be careful." Then it progressed to taking a dose of viagra before a modeling session so his package would be more prominent. At that point, I said ,"Don't go back. You'll end up on a casting couch or acting in a porno film." He told me that he could take care of himself and I never heard anymore about it. He might have realized I was right.

It was kind of you to look out for him. I sincerely mean that.

@Interloper -there are so many escorts (so little time;)) that it's better if you post a link to the ad. That way everyone knows for sure about whom you are talking.

 

Gman

Thanks for the reply! I didn't have a list per se, but was hoping someone may have come across such a guy and could make a suggestion based on their experience. I've read through past individual NYC recommendations and they can be somewhat hit or miss in regard to the connectedness piece.

Any thoughts on a Goldilocks in NYC who fits the following criteria: 6'1+, top/vers, naturally masculine and dominate, some wit, and kind/sweet. Have met some great guys, but looking for something more than lustful. Do tend to think it gets better with repeat hang outs and leaving time for more than sex, but would love any opinions on who is worth building up the rapport with.

Aont nothing hotter than a big dumb str8 guy. Out in rural areas where things are slow its paradise. But thats none of my business. You didnt hear it from me.

Ugh, I love a corn fed dumb dumb who just needs to get off... maybe it's my internalized homophobia or maybe I just love that stud D? Both... I'd say both.

The guys in SD used to post advertisements online and in classified offering the opportunity to star in erotic films, presumably with women. They would then have them in for an interview or audition and feel out if they could be paid up for other activities. I always got the sense that normalizing it by treating it like a job interview with a production company was a big part of converting.

The documentary Tickled goes into it some and is a fascinating horror show of online intimidation targeting eager straight men with flexible boundaries.

I'll take stamina and a dominate attitude over length any day of the week.

I dunno, people got all sorts of kinks for all sorts of reasons... There are people out there who can't fathom why a guy would be obsessed with taking the biggest cock he can, but I sure do read a lot about it. For me, when I'm doing the pounding and you're otherwise hot but need to hear some kinky stuff that isn't exactly my bag to have a good time... well heck, I can do that for ya.

I've had more than one partner ask me to breed their ass or pump my baby into them... I think it's just a play on sex as a reproductive act and gender roles. Doesn't seem like such a leap that either a bottom or a top would be into the fantasy.

Saw him in NYC a few weeks ago. Not as lean as in some of the photos, but very masculine, built, and intuitive. A fan.