Onamission

Add says $160

I texted him he said $180

If you want happy ending $220 and oral is $260 , I texted back said your add says $160

He never replied back

Don't you hate that shit. I am so happy that the guys I see, the posted rate includes all of that.

Link?

Being relatively new to the massage scene (1 year) and being married, I am highly interested in this topic. I do wonder about bringing something home I would have difficulty explaining. That said, I can't see this becoming an episode of "True Confessions". I don't think clients would want to admit that about themselves, and I certainly can't see masseurs admitting anything. It would be terrible for business.

Anyone?

Bump

He lives in my neighborhood, Ive seen a social media account of his before, that has a link to his IG account

Thanks. I was concerned, for privacy purposes, there was a was to link up someone's IG account. Whew!

How do you locate someone's instagram account like that?

It varies, but your situation sounds very promising. I had one from an experienced team of hot guys (based in New Mexico, I think) that was excellent.

I had one from a regular masseur who brought a fuck buddy, and they spent more time playing with each other than they did with me. But watching them fuck was hot, hot, hot -- though not what I paid for.

I had one from a regular who brought an inexperienced young guy who was a VERY recent immigrant who couldn't speak English, but the older guy was telling him in Chinese what to do, and it was an excellent experience.

I had another with the older Chinese guy who brought a hot young Vietnamese friend, who became a regular and a friend. (The Chinese guy lagter moved to D.C.)

I had another with X, a regular and with the Vietnamese guy, and my regular (who is still a regular masseur) didn't think the Vietnamese guy was good enough to be his partner, but I had a great time!

So, your arrangement with two guys who you know, and who are open to the idea sounds most promising!

Let us know how it works out!

 

BTW, I think you should probably pay each one his rate, even if the two rates are different. When my Chinese regular brought the young immigrant, I paid one fee to the older masseur, and let him dictate the split. When the same Chinese masseur brought the young Vietnamese masseur, I had the same arrangement. When my Vietnamese guy came with X, I paid each a different fee that was arranged in advance, since one was more experienced than the other, and the Vietnamese guy was eager to learn how a four-handed works - it was his first time, and he did just fine.

I really appreciate your input, especially regarding the rate. To elaborate, the host masseurs incall rate is actually more than the outcall rate of the other masseur. And the irony is that the less expensive masseur has by far more massage skills. My thought was to pay them each the same, which would be a typical payment for the host, but a large tip for the guy doing the outcall. I don't mind rewarding him for being the better masseur, but the circumstances of the evening could alter my thoughts, but I doubt it. The other nice factor is that neither is an upseller!

I have done this a couple of times and find it more sensual definitely that a 2 handed massage and definitely worth experiencing at least once IMHO! I have only done it with guys who typically offer 4 handed together though and so as mentioned above may not be as smooth and sensual when the two guys are not used to working together.

I appreciate your opinion. The massage aspect could take a little work to be smooth. I am not too concerned about the sensual as I think it's a perfect mix. One masseur is a top, one is a bottom and I am an oral guy. My dreams are running wild.

I think chemistry between the two provider could be the key to a good or bad massage. It could be tough if they have different massage styles because it may not be uniform when they are both working your body simultaneously. I don’t want to sound like a Negative Nancy, but just wanted to give my opinion.

I was looking for opinions, plus or minus, so I appreciate your input.

No advice to give, but I'm thrilled and envious! I hope you'll report how it goes!

I will definitely report back. Tentatively set for 3rd week of October. I leave 2 days later for a Mediterranean cruise for 10 days, so It may be mid November before I report back.

Looking for opinions here. I have the opportunity to set up a 4 handed massage with 2 masseurs I see regularly. They have never worked together that I know of, but both are agreeable to the idea. They have pretty different massage styles and skill levels, which I think could be complimentry. Both are very generous when it comes to extras. I guess I want to know if the more experienced guys here think this is wise or is there a big mistake here I'm not seeing? Also, would I pay the host his incall rate and the traveler his outcall rate? Also, do you who've had them find them exciting and worth the double fees for the same 60 minutes?

Do you have his ad?

Assuming you're looking for the ad for Mark from North Hollywood, here it is.

https://rentmasseur.com/GreatHandsLA

I was asked on two different occasions (by different masseurs) not to share details of my experience specifically on this board. In both cases, it was actually very positive.

I think this falls right in line with the other recent thread on the meaning of YMMV. Too many details posted here puts the masseur in an awkward position if they don't want to provide exactly the same "details" to a different client.

Solid recommendation here in No Ho.

https://rentmasseur.com/GreatHandsLA

I can only offer second hand information. I know 2 people who have told me they had excellent recent experiences. Nude and lots of extras and it was recent. I trust these sources.

I tend to use “YMMV” when I know that I had strong

chemistry (or lack there of) with an individual provider.

 

I use it as a shorthand way of communicating that

my over the top (or disastrous) experience may not

if fact be a “typical”.

 

I understand your point that YMMV applies to every

encounter and thus it appears superfluous, but I

disagree. Sometimes you have a strong inclination

that your experience wasn’t “the norm” and sharing

that feeling can help others keep their expectations in

check.

I agree with nycman's definition. I use it when I feel my experience was somehow outside this masseurs norm.

Never heard of Freestone.

Not Freestone it's freetone. I had a masseur recommend it to me. I think it's anonymous. I didn't have to give them much information to get a number which I've now been using for awhile. If anyone knows anything related to the anonimity of this service, I'd love to hear it?

I use a Google Voice number too that is in no way associated with my identity. There's a lot of creeps out there.

 

P.S. It was noted on other threads people use WhatsApp for aninimity, but WhatsApp is owned by Facebook and they link your accounts via phone number or your phones unique ID number. I started getting Facebook friend request from people who ONLY had me in WhatsApp. Super creepy.

Good to know. Thanks for that insight. I use Freetone. Do you know if that protects anonimity?

My biggest fear!!!

I know that I have read some negative reviews about him. But I serached for them and couldn't find them now. Hopefully GayGamer323 can give you more info.

Plus 1 for Mark in North Hollywood. You won't be disappointed.

Onamission, I live in the heart of m4m massage: Manhattan. Maybe that's what made me believe that massage is life!

 

You're as corny as me. Many of these masseurs are miracles: beautiful gay men who can (and probably do) have all the men they want but still give their all to my poor body. Their earnest desire to give me pleasure has made me want to look better, even though I would never become the young, fit man they'd pick up in a bar. Most of all, I aspire to be their best client, which doesn't just mean tipping them very well (which I do) but treating them with respect and making sure they know how much of gift, a miracle, it is that they give to me.

It's a shame you aren't in L.A. I could at least give you a couple referrals to masseurs who I believe would treat you the way you want to be treated. Massage on my friend. I hope those really good ones make wading though the bad ones worthwhile!

Dear Onamission, "older, pretty out of shape and bald. Not a big package" surely captures most of us on this site. I think your earlier post is pretty persuasive about how "hot" being a nice guy can be.

 

I'm gonna try to start putting it like you do: "I am X and want to book a 90 (60 is way too short!) min erotic massage."

I would agree. Just being slightly more direct could be helpful in the selection process. I like to think that my personality makes up for what I may lack in physicality. I think being personable with the masseur goes a long way. One of my masseurs even said exactly that. I will also say that wanting to be enjoyable to a masseur has inspired me to lose 30 lbs since I've started getting massages here. Needless to say, that has made me feel great and potentially more desireable. @Massageislife where are you located?

Onamission, thank you for posting on this thread!

 

I think you're going after erotic massage the right way: on rentmasseur, at the correct (higher) pricepoint, and with community recommendations. You might also just be hot! You are also smart to stick with the reliable guys. Many of us have a wanderlust that occasionally has to go awry.

 

Can I ask if you request an erotic massage in advance? I always think my initial outreach (to masseurs advertising erotic massage) should be "Hello, my name is X. I am looking for a combination therapeutic and erotic massage." I just can't make myself do it. I know they know that that is what clients want.

I am definitely not hot. I'm older, pretty out of shape and bald. Not a big package either. Not anyones idea of a stud. But I am open and very friendly. Generally happy all the time. I think masseurs pick up on this. They have even commented on my personality. I do alway say I am X and want to book a 60 min erotic massage. I think you need to at least put that much out there. I usually get massage details from PMs here. Been lucky so far.