Actually, private sex parties have taken over a lot. If you go on Sniffies, parties and hotel anon cum dumps are the norm. They are heavily vetted though, if you don't meet a particular requirement: BBC, BWC, fit, muscular, handsome or combination of all, you are unlikely to be invited. I've been to two anon-cum dumps, the first one blew my mind, but it was really high risk. Second one, I just couldn't stay hard. Bath houses still remain my main go to, but even that is fading, cost of entry has gone up, most guys walk around like headless chicken for hours, but you get lucky most of the time there.