Tandy Newton

To tell you the honest truth, when I see a hot provider with 112 reviews, it gives me pause. Also, I sometimes go down the rabbit hole to check out the reviewers and who they connect with it. You are basically plugging your cock into a wide-area network.

I recently used a condom and I was pleasantly surprised, it was mind blowing! But you really have to be in a state of mind with your partner. A huge factor is the lust I felt for the guy and the feel of his tight, firm bubble butt felt so good it drove me to the point of no return. But I must admit, since PREP, I have rarely used condoms and to tell you the truth, its not that different. Probably should practice it more.

Also, when they show up in my city, its usually a last resort, run out of options move or trying to rebuild their image.

I am not gonna go above 300 anyway, so, he was out of my budget. But man, that beautiful chiseled lightly hairy torso, legs, calves and handsome to boot really got me biting my lips. Here's hoping I win the Power Ball this evening. 😄

He was in my city just recently and I did see his face, but Top only, so I lost interest.

Looks like he is vacationing, because he was in Bellevue the first time I saw the ad. There is a guy over there on Bainbridge who wanted to hookup and looking at my Scruff, there isn't a lot of pickings. So, he might have been invited over for his services.

Another 350....sigh. 😔

https://app.rent.men/Alanbigbig Just saw this ad show up, provider says they are Verse/Top, but the profile detail aggressively says: Total top who is muscular masculine and very attractive with a thick uncut cock. Very open minded to all types of fetishes. I’m dominant/aggressive but also can be passionate and intense ." Also, sounds like he is in some debt: "PLEASE READ BEFORE TEXT OR CALL JUST LONG SESSION 1k MINIMUM Two possibly fake reviews and you are asking for that? Handsome, but totally ridiculous!

The problem is when you ask them, 'what is your hourly rate for your time?' It puts the ball in their court to respond with the amount they want. I wish RM would require providers to publish their standard rate.

Joe DeMatteo is definitely on my bucket list of guys. I know he is unlikely to ever visit my city. Guys like that tend to mostly: LA, WEHO, NY and Miami.

I noticed 350 is becoming the new normal, even for fresh faces. Sorry, but I won't go above 300. I've had two great guys in the past 6 months who've quoted 250. If they can do it and they are based in expensive cities, I don't see why most can't. I think some just throw something out there and hope it sticks. Me personally, I am not gonna negotiate. Just say, thanks for taking the time to respond and move on.

My gut instincts said as much. He was a thing for me when I was going through my Jake Gyllenhaal phase.

That explains his good lucks and beautiful scepter.

He's gonna be visiting. He's good looking, beautiful smile and I like his big, thick, uncut throbber. Don't like the tattoo on it though, but man that must be one heck of a jaw breaker.

Very interested in this guy, he's really good looking. Like Daddy version of JFK Jr. https://app.rent.men/BigMuskyMan

Older, not shredded, but in great shape, very strong and fit. His bubble was very firm!

New guy showing up in Seattle, no reviews but decided to reach out and start a chat. Left me hanging after I asked for a face pic. Eventually sent me one and I have to say, I like his looks. Looks like a rugged handsome JFK Jr. The hairy chest and bubble butt are also a turn on. Rate is $350 for his time though, but open to what I want. $250 for just a body massage. Is this inflation or desperation? I've had out of towners giving it all for way less. https://app.rent.men/BigMuskyMan

This… Why I know this, I have seen providers who up on RM without their status, but they also show up on Scruff or Sniffies and show they are positive/undetectable. But, it kinda creates a little bit of doubt at the same time. But, you have to do your part yourself too and make sure you are on prep and vaccinated. The problem is, if they are not disclosing HIV status, what else might they not be disclosing? Then again, you take your chances no matter the scenario.

He was showing up in Seattle recently and I got the same vibe just like 'thebenefit'. A lot of these guys are actually part of a network of Israeli scam artist in the US on tourist visas. Remember the days of 'packs' travel to a city? I recently watched a YouTube video about the youth unemployment in Israel being very high. The US Visa refusal for Israeli citizens is very low at 3%. With good looks, lack of employment, they head North with primary intention to scam. A lot of them claim to be Colombian or some other ethnic Latin group to avoid being outed. They like quoting $350 to 400 for their time too. I noticed this new one I reached out to RM started giving the same vibe: https://app.rent.men/Marcusfitness I'm sorry to say it and it likely comes across as broad brushing, but I am starting to distrust latin/brown guys and its based on five years of doing this.

Who said he was gay or bi? He wants you to believe that so you can part with $500.

Oh, that guy. Definite pass, you would have to be really naive to consider giving your money to a straight guy.

Based on my experience in 2022, three times a year. Some appointments I got a mix of cold feet and a bit of ptsd from a bad experience. My overall experience with the three meets I had in 2022 were extremely positive. I have to admit, I have become extremely selective and of course this is an expense endeavor. I am also saving and trying to diversify in other areas. An alternative for me is a local bate club; a hand job and some kissing can do wonders sometimes. Sniffies and Scruff have turned out to be dead ends. Met one guy over the summer on Scruff and thats about it.

The guy is clearly fucked up. The irony in all this is how pitiful his OF content is.

Never explicitly, but with one friend. You just don't know people too, they can easily use this against you.

Really sorry about what happened. This happened to me with 'thebenefit' formerly Leomuscle. But I got a pleasant surprise this evening, my bank actually refunded me a year later. Maybe you can do the same if its a lot of money. I remember reaching out to this guy, but was so unimpressed with his response I just moved on. Not worth it at all. No denying, very good looking and they know it too. But they are narcissistic and only care about robbing people. These are people who will throw you under a bus and or burn bridges. Their heart is made of stone and they are just set in their ways. The industry has changed so much especially in the US. I am starting the process of going back to hookup apps and go to my local bate club. Its just not worth it anymore. No honor and mutual respect anymore. I believe its also a generational thing; providers from 10 or 20 years ago were raised with some moral compass that you honor an agreement. This generation doesn't think about 'hey this guy probably worked hard for his money, he's alone, needs company, isolated'. And you compound that by scamming them because you just don't care.