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I wonder if this is the same person featured on RHOA some years back? The name & their claim is pretty unique. He would definitely be older than 31 as claimed in the RM profile.

His Instagram shows he flew to LA today. I think he's real, just new to escorting.

I think he's a part of the Miami mediterranean or middle eastern guys escort group. Looking at his Instagram, he hangs out with a couple other escorts. But to his credit, on his RM he has actual video.

Well I guess it's a good thing that I work from home & live alone. When out in public I wear a mask. So if I happen to get it, it's a very slim chance I'll spread it.

Not exactly sure when I crossed over to escorts. I started in 2018 getting strictly therapeutic massages for my tightness in lower back. I was trying different "retail masseurs" one offered me extras, that opened me up to a whole new world. I eventually stumbled across the pro section of a4a, rent men & this forum. Started hiring escorts. The first time I bottomed was this year for an escort on our second time together.

Yikes. That's something I can never understand. There's probably hundreds of guys that would've lined up to be with him & he rapes a minor?

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Yup. It is what it is. I didn't for several months, but started again when my state started easing covid restrictions. But as someone else put it COVID is likely to be with us for a long time to come if not forever, Just like with communicable diseases, people make decisions based on acceptable risks. As time goes on, risks that people are willing to accept when it comes to COVID will change. Otherwise with all the communicable diseases that existed before covid, there should be no human to human contact at all, this industry wouldn't exist. Do I take precautions? Yes. Am I judging people for risks they take? No.

I hope he makes his way to Minneapolis

I'm not surprised they're watching. I worked with this lady, who was a pastor's wife lol, she enjoyed watching gay porn. She used to talk to me about it & her favorite actors. Her pastor husband didn't know she was watching it.

I think Reno is gay. I think I saw a video of his mentioning his fiance with male pro nouns. Also I saw a video of his blowing a guy. But if the money is flowing right, straight guys will do just about anything, gay4pay, ??‍♂️ so who really knows. Most of these straight social media famous guys who show off their bodies, especially if they have an onlyfans or similar site knows gays make up probably a huge majority of their fans/subscribers. I just don't think many women are buying porn. So if Zac is straight, by being in a video with Reno, he's just playing to the crowd. If he is escorting that's a plus for his fans as they may be able to actually have a chance to be with him instead of just a fantasy all the others guys are want you to have by viewing their pics & vids. I'm knocking their hustle.

I think it's pronounced "scammer"

I think the one I got today that was pretty bad. He was a nice guy, just no skill. Not to mention, the pictures in his ad didn't seem to match at all, there wasn't a face picture but the body shots wasn't the same, plus I think he tried to hide that by having the room pretty much pitch black. Also, I broke my rule of never pre paying, so it could've been that since he was already paid, he did the bare minimum.

I think he's real. I follow him on Instagram & this RM profile tends to go where he goes. He hangs out with another escort, I'm interested in, on Instagram quite a bit. They were both in Tulum, MX last weekend & both of their RM profiles had locations in Cancun around the same time.

I prefer nicely trimmed pubes, I don't like having to part the hair with my nose. I'm good with shaved too, but razor bumps down there a turn off.

I second that. I saw him for first the first time two weeks ago. Very impressed.

I'm intrigued.

Both. But If I had to choose between two almost identical twins, and the only thing that makes them not identical is that one has a hairy chest. I'm picking the one with the hairy chest. Unless it's gray chest hair, I don't like that, shave that. Ironically I like guys with dyed gray hair on their head, I think it's just sexy. I've always wanted to dye my hair gray too.

I don't. But I'm intrigued. Loved his videos.

I started hiring masseurs in 2018, which grew to escorts a year later. I think I've hired or randomly hooked up with every color in the rainbow & varying body types. I'm more attracted to confidence than body type, race or even gender. In my 33 years on this Earth, my unscientific study says all dicks taste the same. Also if you're fucked blindfolded, you can't tell anything, but maybe dick size, about the person who is fucking you. Basically we're all the same when the lights are out. No need to limit yourself to just one type. Personally, I think those who do limit themselves to certain races or body types are depriving themselves of the full buffet that was created for all of us to enjoy, and might miss out on their one true love. So if someone isn't interested based on silly "preferences", it's their lost. Other dicks in the sea.

I wouldn't go down that road. Just let it be. I was in a similar situation, my high school friend wasn't a escort but was "discreetly" on Grindr and posting on Craigslists how he was cum dump & wanted to be used. We were really good friends through middle school & high school but drifted apart after graduation, but were on each other's social media. I hadn't seen him in years before I came across his postings. I never thought he was into guys at all. It's kind of a long story but there's no fairy tale ending ?

I'm only able to ignore it sporadically throughout the week. Certain days of the week are busier than others. Because of the pandemic, I'm on the COVID response team, and manage contract tracing if one of our employees test positive. I work in the grocery retail industry, so our stores must be open. I'm grateful to still have a well paying job as other industries have been hit hard during this time. I guess I should say, part of the reason I haven't taken vacation is because of the pandemic, it'll be a stay at home vacation, and I'm sure I'll end up doing some work anyways. And also just in general, I feel a little guilty when I do take vacation. I don't know why, I just do. So I always end up taking at least half of my days at the end of the year before I lose my PTO hours.

The self evaluation of my annual performance review is one of those tasks for me.

It was about 7 or so years ago. My favorite cousin was giving her kid a party at water park hotel about 30 mins away. I drove out there, didn't book a room as I figured I wouldn't be staying the night since it wasn't too far to drive home. She had a hotel room booked where they prepared food, had cake & ice cream, the regular kid party stuff. I found a nice spot in the corner where I discreetly popped opened a4a hoping to find a guy near so I could make a pit stop on my way home. It just so happen at the hotel that weekend a ton of military guys where put up there before they went home. One of them sent me a "smile" and we started chatting. Both unlocked our pics, he invited me to his room. His roommate had left early as his wife had drove up to pick him up, so he had the room to himself. My predicament was figuring out how I gonna ditch my family to get up to his room. The party started to head down to the water park. I thought here's my opportunity. I messaged him my plan. I stuck my phone in my pocket & followed them down. As we were about to enter the water park, I said I forgot my phone and was going back to the room for it, my aunt was still in the room, but I wasn't really going back there. I had to make a pit stop lol. As I'm walking back, I hear one of my other cousins say he was going to come with me. I pretended not to hear him, and started walking faster. As I got to the elevators I hit the button, sent him a message I'll be there in few minutes. but the elevator didn't come soon enough, so I ducked into the stairwell to dodge my cousin, i went up 5 flights to his level. Sent him another message that I was on his floor & he sent me his room number. I got to his door, a little out of breath. Waited a moment to catch my breath before I knocked. He opened the door only wearing a jock strap ? he was slim muscular build, a couple tattoos. I remember him smelling really good too. He started pulling my clothes off. We started swapping BJ's, 69. Then he asked me to fuck him. I agreed. He grabbed some lube out of his bag and lubed up my dick & his ass. I asked him what position he wanted to do, he said missionary, Which is one of my favorites, so I was game. He laid back, I helped lift his legs. Lined up my dick to enter him, looked him in the eyes and asked if he was ready, he nodded. He had nice deep blue eyes, you could just get lost in them. As I began to enter him, we continued to make eye contact. He let out a soft moan, I stopped and asked if he was ok, or wanted me to stop, he say to keep going. I continued to enter him, we broke eye contact. When I felt I was far enough in him, I asked him if he was still ok, he said he was. I began fuck him slowly at first, then faster, we kept making eye contact as I alternated between fast & slow hip thrusts. He was stroking his dick as I fucked him. As I got close, he wanted me to cum in him. We cummed at the same time, with dueling moans while making eye contact. I collapsed on his cum covered chest, my dick still inside him, spent. We both caught our breath, I slipped my dick out of him. We cleaned ourselves up, his parents were on their way to pick him up. I had to get back down to the party. We both got dressed & said our exiting pleasantries. We both knew our paths wouldn't cross again, he lived a few hours away. I slid into the water park, they asked what took me so long, I told them I got lost & ended up in the wrong room tower. Enjoyed the rest of the party, but was hungry, I always get hungry after sex. I ate way too much of the leftover birthday cake. Drove home with a stomach ache. Sorry for the long post.

I suspect it's more about hiding his real identity than anything else. Maybe he's fearful of a client getting too attached or involved and it starts to impact his personal life. If I was a provider, that would be a concern of mine.