Geriatric Otter

The incredibly masculine & sexy Adam Russo, seen here on the left, looks fabulous both onscreen & in pixxx. But those methods of conveying his sexy & considerable beauty to us pale when compared to the experience of an encounter with him in the living flesh!

Spent the night with him in LA recently. He's getting salt-and-peper and his fur has grown out. Hard to believe he's even more sexy than ever...

Civility seems to be a big topics these days. I agree that a taxi or Uber might have been a good idea. As a client, I get pretty excited about seeing guys (even after 18 tears) and disappointed when it doesn't work out. A few years ago in DC, I was scheduled to see a once frequent poster here, who tended to write LONG, DETAILED posts bewailing the state of escorting. I was staying about two blocks from a Metro stop. An hour late, then a call stating that he couldn't find the hotel and it was pouring out. Really? It was fine where I was. Two hours late, gave up and ordered room service and texted him not to bother coming. Which resulted in a downpour of emails berating me, calls to my room, and guaranteeing that I could never hire in DC again. Well, I have, and they he was obviously not on my short list.

Philly's Gayborhood is NYC

The physique competitiors just seem so...gay.

Any insight into the bodybuilding scene on the east coast?

I lucked out once on a trip from Philly to Chicago. Before taking off there were a number of big men in waiting room. When I checked ORD hotel I looked in M4R to look for playmates for the evening. Found Nick German. Pro bodybuilder. Only a few pics still on line. He was in the hotel next door as judge for competition. He said he was off season which meant he had a chest full of blonde hair. While huge, he was not intimidating and very playful. Stayed overtime off clock to relate craziness of BB competitions.

Sorry he retired but one the best one time stands.

Pennsylvania Academy, Walnut Theater, Longwood Gardens, Society Hill, the re-opened Metropolitan Opera House, Reading Terminal Market...

Unfortunately, doesn't travel very much. I've seen him in NY. Super guy. Smart, deep voice,composer and pianist and tuba player...

Favorite pic. Even better in person...

Depends what you like. I've lived here for 40 years. Barnes Foundation, Vetri, Christ Church, Franklin Institute, Victor's Cafe, Philadelphia Orchestra. "Unfortunately, everyone interesting left Philly 10 years ago" Really?

Dr. Reddy did/do they have generic drugs there that are not generic drugs here? Why is Jaipur called the Pink City?

They make some oncologic drugs like capecitabineband oxaliplatin. All are here as well at 10x price. City painted pink for Prince of Wales

Dr. Reddy, the largest generic drug maker in India. I was spoiled rotten, staying in Taj hotels, which may be the reason I see it with rose-colored glasses. Jaipur is actually referred to as the Pink City...

Re: Indian food. Don't fear the spices. It is highly variable, and spicier in the South. My solicitous hosts would always ask me if the food was too spicy, and invariably it was less so than my local Indian restaurant in suburban Philadelphia.

Ah...well you could have burned them off with Dirk. I have. Much more fun than the gym...

Love your screen name.

Thanks, Travis. I was called Otter by Jake Mitchell about 15 years ago. He still does, to the point that I think he forgot my actual name.

This was kinda my experience also. I thought it was because I was older and less cute/hot. Maybe it's just life?

I'm 72 and neither cute nor hot; barely have muscles to knead. Maybe he had a bad day...

He's totally real. He's one of those guys who is actually sexier in person than his photos. He's actually a student in US from Colombia; not Egyptian in spite of the name and the photos. I broke my "don't hire under 35 rule", and glad I did...

#1 recommendation: Dirk Caber

Dinner at No 9 Park, Menton, Oceana.

Preferably all 4 of above

Woof. Seeing him Friday in LA. Check of another guy on my bucket list...

You might check out Beefmusclexxx in FLL. I've been seeing him for over a decade and he is all the things you describe. I usually spend 2-3 days with him, either at his place or on his travels. He is typically on the road 3 weeks out of 4, but you might catch him in FLL. Another option is Derek Steele. Saw him twice in SF. He's massive, but very gentle if you want.

I would second the vote for India, especially if your limit is 10K for a 2-4 weeks. Singapore and Hong Kong are very, almost prohibitively, expensive. In my 5-6 trips to India, I've found the people to be very hospitable, and even if as crowded as China, it is not so intimidating. The Taj Mahal is not disappointing, but Jaipur, Delhi, Mumbai, Goa are all very different with lots of history and endless varieties of food. And with precautions, I never experienced Delhi belly. Don't fly Air India.

How does one broach the subject of clearance for a 3way? ?

I can always pretend and tell him it's two women?

I haven't met Matt yet, but I think he's very sexy. Although that might all change this weekend.

 

One of the retired pornstars/escorts I am friends with is coming to visit me today and tomorrow. He happens to be very close friends with Matt. We've been talking about meeting up, schedules permitting. However, the meet with Matt will be of a non-sexual nature. This is how I met Johnny Hazard. My ex-pornstar/escort friend is also close friends with Johnny.

I've seen Matt quite often and will be joining him and Mike Gaite in Miami in April, if my cardiologist clears me for a 3way. Matt,, ike Mike, is a consummate professional, very sexy and physical, and a wonderful guy to spend time with. I hope you meet Matt beyond a nonsexual encounter.

Go to his website for more videos and pics. I've known Allen as an escort for about 8 years, and he is the consummate professional. I typically spend a couple of days with him, and he usually initiates the massages, done on a professional table in SF and NY. His massages rival those in the best spas, and they are anything but perfunctory or rote...this after 25-30 times.

I have been seeing Jake as an escort for about 15 years, scheduled to see him in NY next month. I've never seen him for a massage alone, but can vouch for strong hands...he's definitely a manly man

Mike...we both know who this loser (to quote Don Jr) is...he's quite so stupid as to give you a single star, which makes it not credible...

I’m looking into a procedure that involves removing multiple things that are adjacent to important organs. This procedure, which is technically elective, is known for being extremely difficult, especially when done laparoscopically. As a result, my doctor has recommended that I seek out a subspecialist. I don’t care about location; I’ll fly anywhere. I’ve asked doctors I know for referrals, I’ve gone to FB groups to get opinions, and even looked at online reviews, but I have to do some of the legwork myself. I’ve already done a consult and plan to do several more. I’m willing to do this anywhere in the US.

 

What should I look for when assessing a surgeon? Of course, more experience in the specific procedure is always better, but what are other factors one should look for?

 

For example, should age be a factor? One surgeon I’m going to consult with is a leader in the field; he does this procedure alone all day multiple times a week. But he is 70 and will retire soon, which concerns my parents. Is the loss of hand eye coordination and manual dexterity is enough to cause problems with an exceptionally tricky surgery? Is being close to retirement an issue regardless of age? On the other end of the spectrum, doctors and some patients have expressed concern that a prominent 40 y.o. surgeon in the field is still a bit green and not as focused.

 

I know that there are physicians, including surgeons and anesthesiologists, of all ages here. Some of you have PM’d with me over the years and helped me. I hope I’m not offending any of you; I debated whether to post this. I’m just trying to understand and would definitely like to hear your thoughts. TBH, I’m scared and frustrated by the whole thing.

BTW, I’m being vague about the procedure because I hope this thread can be useful to others and in order to avoid getting too graphic.

As an MD in a University hospital, I would say that for many surgical procedures, surgeon volume and hospital volume count more than anything. Age alone is not an issue...most of us know when to quit, and good hospitals will vet their staff. Settling malpractice claims are nt in their best interest.