Coolwave35

I’ve had luck hiring dancers from the floor of Adonis and buffboyz.

How did she find out “all of it”?

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He didn’t delete texts. We had 2.5 years worth of meet ups in those texts.

Is she aware you're a client of his?

He died and my number was in the phone and we bonded over our grief. She said she’d rather have a gay son than a dead son and now we’re good friends. She knows all of it.

I wouldn’t expect my manicurist to only see one client in a day....

His mom called to check on his wearabouts during our session and he put her on speaker so I could “confirm we were at wendy’s“.

Hand to God, she and I just had a lovely lunch on Friday together.

Buffdaddy on Long Island has a dancer just like this that goes by the name cobra. Yum and wow.

Both times I've traveled, I lucked out because both clients pitched an offer I thought was fair and it spared any need for negotiation. I'm so glad it worked out for the both of you. I think 4k is a very fair number for the week. I hope you have a blast!

Thank you. We actually had an amazing time and are in the process of booking another trip. It all worked out really, really well.

I had gastric sleeve after a decade of trying everything under the sun from simple diet and exercise to working with nutritionists and a personal trainer. I’m down 85 pounds and haven’t had any ravenous hunger since the surgery. My body can no longer produce the hunger hormones that drove me to eat myself to 300 lbs.

I have zero regrets other than waiting til my 30’s to get it. I’m loving my new body and marveling at how much life has changed.

Don’t waste your time with the lap band, and total gastric bypass may not be needed. Go for the sleeve.

He’s a great guy and works hard to make sure you’re happy.

I actually had an escort pass out during a session because he took too much of what I later found out was liquid G. The panic I felt for the 5 minutes before the ambulance came out is something I’ll never forget. I thought he was dying. He was drooling uncontrollably, sluggish, his eyes were rolling back. It was awful.

Two more that I’ve know have died. One guy who was becoming a regular I no longer see because he nonchalantly pulled out his meth pipe during our last session which caught me off guard.

I don’t use drugs but it certainly seams from my experience that young, gorgeous men in the sex industry do it in spades at a ratio far greater than the average public. I too often feel like an enabler.

Lastly, you absolutely need to set expectations on two things: sleeping around and drugs. These are the two things clients consistently complain about to me with other escorts on trips.

That’s why I like him. We’ve worked all this out already through prior trips.

Thanks for your great advice.

You're his sugar daddy and a very giving person, you should be treated in a better way.

 

It's low season now in SF, most tourist are families with kids buying sweaters surprised about how cold it is.

 

Considering you're talking about 7 days and he'll see other clients too... I would settle at 4 (as he told you later) but not 7. Your choice! Keep on posting and if you want to share this hottie with us review him.

 

Now a days with guys on here bragging about how little they pay you're a gem in the rough, I don't know how handsome he is (obviously for you it's more than his looks) but he doesn't appreciate you as he should.

That’s how I was feeling but the reminder that it’s a vacation for me and work for him made me meet him at 4K, and we’ll share a room instead of him having his own. We just booked and I’m happy now.

How much is he asking? How much does he usually get for an hour/overnight with you?

 

Does he usually get any perks from you?

 

When will you be there? Where does he live? I am asking to know if it’s low or high season during your trip to AK.

He asked $7,000.00. Usually he gets $300 an hour from me for a minimum of 2 hour sessions, and $1,000 when we do overnights.

When we went to Vegas, I paid for his own room and I asked for him between 9pm and 1am to host there for us. He had the room to see clients any other time around that and he did. I guess that’s a perk. For Alaska, I’ve told him I’ll pay for up to 4 excursions, two I’d like him to do with me and the other 2 he can do with me, or do himself, whatever he chooses. It’s a gay cruise so I imagine he’ll be able to see other clients if he chooses as I’m not expecting exclusivity of his time or attention on the boat, and he knows that from our past arrangements.

Another perk is that, per his request, we film content for his only fans page. We often play with other escorts, or hot Grindr guys, and he asks me to create content for his pages. I’m not super into that because I enjoy being present and feel video taping takes me out of the moment, albeit briefly.

It’s next week and I just decided to go yesterday. He’s based in San Francisco and has been traveling for the past 3 months. I’m not sure if that’s high season for San Francisco or not.

I was anticipating paying up to 3k for his time for the week on top of the trip but I haven’t expressed that to him yet.

When he asked for 7, I said we aren’t in the same ball park so I have a feeling we aren’t going to be able to make this work this time around. He countered with 4, and his flight from the east coast to San Francisco, which is reasonable, but still more than I want to pay given the cost of the trip.

Hypothetical has made some good points though so I’ve begun to think I may want to pay more for the good company.

At minimum you should anticipate paying double his weekend rate. There should be a little wiggle room for negotiation as you’re paying travel expenses, etc but I wouldn’t expect a 50% off deal. You are still paying for his time. Cruise or not, it’s only a holiday for you; he’s still working. You have to consider how much money he could potentially make in a week if he doesn’t join you on the cruise. Don’t negotiate to the point he’s getting the short end of the stick.

That’s exactly everything I’m considering from his perspective as I am trying to figure out what to pay. I get that’s hes working constantly. I am fairly certain what I’m willing to pay is more than what he’ll make in a week considering conversations we’ve had in the past. I’m not looking for a massive 50% discount. When we first met, we he had a very reasonable conversation about his rate and my expectations and we worked out agreements that we were both happy with.

Well????? How’d it go?

I am trying to strike a deal with one of my regular hires. I’ll cover all travel expenses for a week long cruise to Alaska, flights to get him there, excursions and his bar tab, and I expect to compensate him for his time with me.

We’re having a tough time agreeing to a fee we’re both comfortable with. Anyone have any experience with this from either end? Neither one of us seems willing to budge, and I’m hopeful that some additional perspective will help move the needle for me as I’ve never not been able to “strike a deal” before.

Any input from escorts and those who have paid for travel companions is welcome.

I also just had a great experience with him. i Recommend!

Understood, but to stay after someone has blatantly lied to you because you found them attractive is a recipe for disaster, no?

I’ve done it too. There’s a bit of excitement to it sometimes. Twice I’ve gotten burned and won’t ever do it again. Maybe.

My escort budget is 30k a year. About 22 goes to regulars, 4 on repeats and 4 on newbies when I travel.

I had gone for a message and the room was a bit warm so I asked him to turn on the fan. Towards the end I was on my back and he proceeded to finish me off. We both forgot the oscillating fan was on. He edged a 4 day load out of me and the fan blew boat loads of cum all over him, his studio, his face, his hair, the wall, the dresser. He started shrieking and I started laughing through the orgasm. I thought it was hilarious but he got really angry.

I had 3 amazing times with him. Once in Vegas and twice in New York. He’s fun in small doses, but I wouldn’t see him again.

Respectfully, this "dynamic" would not develop unless you help create the environment for it. If it's an "all business" transaction, then it will be all business. It's like flirting, nothing happens if you don't flirt back. If you talk, open up, be vulnerable, that will invite same. If you see someone for repeats, it's hard to be 100% business, but you can still keep it light and lively without going deeper. Enjoy the attention, and don't lay it all on the other guy

I didn’t set out to lay it on the escorts feet at all, and the intention of this post was to correct what I’m doing wrong. We actually realized as the sun was rising, long after dinner and well beyond when I should have left that we fucked up the transactional nature of the experience.

As I said earlier, I expected him to pull the plug and ask me to leave at the end of our pre agreed time, but I see now that it is equally if not more my responsibility to stop when it’s done to avoid this. At least Walmart makes an announcement at closing to get you the hell out lol.

I’m itching to rehire and apply all I’ve learned here.

Respectfully, this "dynamic" would not develop unless you help create the environment for it. If it's an "all business" transaction, then it will be all business. It's like flirting, nothing happens if you don't flirt back. If you talk, open up, be vulnerable, that will invite same. If you see someone for repeats, it's hard to be 100% business, but you can still keep it light and lively without going deeper. Enjoy the attention, and don't lay it all on the other guy

I didn’t set out to lay it on the escorts feet at all, and the intention of this post was to correct what I’m doing wrong. We actually realized as the sun was rising, long after dinner and well beyond when I should have left that we fucked up the transactional nature of the experience.

As I said earlier, I expected him to pull the plug and ask me to leave at the end of our pre agreed time, but I see now that it is equally if not more my responsibility to stop when it’s done to avoid this. At least Walmart makes an announcement at closing to get you the hell out lol.

I’m itching to rehire and apply all I’ve learned here.

I don’t consider this thread to constitute ‘drama’. I find the observations and comments highly interesting.

 

Thanks for replying at length @Coolwave35 Your additional posts helped me better understand the difficulty about which you posted originally.

I expect escorts to continue to be a prominent part of my life, so getting it right is very important to me. I appreciate all the insight I got from more experienced men.

because we really clicked in his city when I was with him and I enjoy the familiar more than I enjoy shooting in the dark.