Jamie, well said !!!!!
Let me ask you this please... I personally like to call and speak with a new masseur, to make sure its a good vibe and to ask questions up front so there is NO miscommunications.
For me I mainly seek therapeutic.. But i'm a guy so sure some sensual aspects are nice and getting off at the end is good (for me its self release). I make sure I always ask about the massage itself first. NEVER do I go right into anything else. There have been several now where I have done this, then asked if they would be nude or clothed and/or if self release is ok. In many of these calls (or text since some dont like to talk phone which I dont get) they seem to get offended by this.
My thoughts are if you are advertising on a gay masseur site, shouldn't that kinda be expected (not saying right or wong but expected)?
Thanks