Todd Jenkins

You are not alone. You are called a side. https://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=Side

THIS is the shit that drives me nuts. I bet this guy gets SUPER ANNOYED and says 'you are wasting my time' if you inquire about FUCKING him. TOP/BOTTOM/VERSE are descriptors of fucking – not fingers, not tongues, FUCKING!

HA! And, that's what I get for typing fast with my fingers on an iPhone.

Oof, I don't do sacreligious. . .

What's with the "crown of thorns" lookin thing around his cock??? ODD to say the least!

I think there is a big difference between someone who is HOT and unknown, and someone who is HOT AND FAMOUS. The fame DOES add some $$$. Anyone know the bodybuilder, NICK PULOS? I'd give 1000 to fuck him!!!! LOL

300 is MAX for me. I've been quoted 400 and 500. To which I reply, "I won't go over 300." It's AMAZING how quickly they go "OK!"

Another very hot interaction I've had... Went to eat at a Chili's with 3 friends one night. We had an EXTREMELY muscled up server. I was not out - AT ALL. The 3 friends get up to go to the bathroom at the end of the meal. Muscle server boy comes over and I say "Hey, I hope this doesn't offend you but you are AMAZINGLY HOT!! Look, my friends have NO CLUE but I am gay. If you ever want to make a little bit more money, text me and let me know." Gave him my number and he said "sounds good, I'll text you when I get off." A few hours go by and I get this "Hey bud, this is ____ from Chili's. I'm down for taking you up on your offer. What you looking to do?" My reply: "best discussed with a phone call." Phone rings. He came over the next day after the gym and I spent several months helping this guy out and he helping me out. Damn, that was ONE HOT ITALIAN!!!!!

@AngusStevensxxx, When you say you recieve 'MANY MANY MANY messages daily,' how many would you say you recieve? 10, 20, 100? Sometimes the platform rent.men doesn't allow you to see all the stats - depending which version of the site you are on. This is GREAT that you do that. But, I have also encountered providers who just list random cities or they are no longer in the city they're listed in. I can't TELL YOU HOW MANY TIMES I have texted a provider "HEY! WOW! I love your look. I can't believe you're in my city, _____. Would love to set up some time with you. What's your availability?" Provider texts back: "Not there." Me: Sends screenshot. Provider: "Yeah, I WAS there but left yesterday" or "Yeah, I was thinking of coming, but not enough inquiries." So, as much as this "drives you crazy," you can see why a potential client would ask what city were you in, ESPECIALLY, if like me, they have gone through the above in the past. A nice reply (that you could save in a notes app) would be "Hey there. Thanks for the message. All cities / dates are listed in my profile and they are updated regularly. Can't wait to see if we can arrange a time. Looking forward to hearing from you." See, same message, different approach than being PUT OFF that someone wants to spend hundreds of dollars to spend time with you. The rest of your points, I agree with.

There was a strip club called SWINGING RICHARDS in Atlanta back in the day. It closed last year. MOST of the guys there were VERY straight and would upsell the FUK out of you in the backroom and you got NOTHING, usually. So, I did not go a lot unless I was with with friends who wanted to go. One night, a particular guy caught my eye. I chatted him up and found out we actually had a lot in common. I went back to see him several times. One night, I may have had a little more liquid courage than normal, and I just asked him "So, how much would it cost for you to bottom for me?" He seemed taken aback at first, and I apologized profusely, "I'm sorry man, I didn't mean to offend you." To which he replied "no, no, it's all good. I've never done that. Kinda new here. And I've only JO'ed with another guy. Not saying no, but how about you text me and we can discuss it via text." Long story short, my next trip into Atlanta, I got a hotel room and he came to see me for an hour. I WILL NOT ADMIT to how much I paid for this VERY STRAIGHT GUY to let me inside him...but it was WORTH EVERY PENNY. The strange thing is, I could tell he was NOT having a good time but he was VERY intent on ME having a good time – it was a weird dynamic but weird in a good way, in my favor.

True, to a certain extent. However, if a provider is unwilling to spend a few minutes of just basic interaction before i spend a few hundred, I don't want to hire that person.

This is a VERY common occurrence and how you, the provider, responds tells me all I need to know about you. MANY times I have messaged a provider because I DID see that he was listed as being in my city. If a provider is curt with me when he informs me he is not in my city, I won't hire him, EVER. It takes the SAME amount of energy to be nice as it does to be rude. A very simple 'Hey there. Not sure where you saw my ad but I am currently in _____. But, hey, you never know when I will be back in the area. Keep a watch on my travel schedule and feel free to shoot me a text again. Would love to make a meeting happen!' You can easily put this on a notes doc and reply. One time, I messaged a provider and said "I see you are in my city, _____. Would love to see about possibly setting up an appt." Provider writes back: "Where did you see that I am in ____?" Me: "attaches screenshot" Provider: "That's so weird. I haven't been there since ____. Thanks for telling me, I will fix that." See how easy it was to be nice? Now, same scenario happened with another provider... ME: "I see you are in my city, _____. Would love to see about possibly setting up an appt." PROVIDER: "Wrong, not there." ME: "attaches screenshot" PROVIDER: "Not there." ME: "Will you be here soon or not at all?" PROVIDER: "I just said I'm not there." ME: "Sorry, just like your profile and think it would be fun to hangout. The profile said you were in town. Didn't mean to bug ya, sorry" PROVIDER: "I was thinking about coming so I put my ad there for a few days. But not enough business." ME: "Oh, ok. Well if you had said THAT in the beginning, I wouldn't have bothered you." PROVIDER: "OK, I dont have time to text all damn day" ME: ((note to self, NEVER HIRE THIS GUY!"

It's still sales, boo-boo. And yes, we all know the legal term is that they're selling 'time.' But we ALL KNOW they're selling their body and an experience. And no, you are not a time waster by shopping around.

If everyone who was in the business of 'sales' were rude like many providers can be, they would make very little money. How many times have you gone to look at a car, at a piece of jewelry, etc. and had a rude sales associate? Not many times. If the sales associate is rude, you are not likely to purchase the product. Can you even imagine going to look at a high-priced item and after a few moments of questions and back-and-forth, the sales associate goes "GET OUT! STOP WASTING MY TIME, YOU ARE A TIME WASTER!"? Same goes for people selling their body.

BOTTOM LINE: If you are selling a HIGH-DOLLAR item (perfume, 'companionship,' pricey meal, wine, etc.) and you can't be BOTHERED to take the time to answer questions about that item, you're not getting my money. You want me to take hundreds of dollars out of MY POCKET and put it in to YOUR POCKET, but you can't be bothered to have a 10-15 minute call? Yeah, you may look at me as a 'time waster' – and that would be to your detriment because I've flown to guys I like to spend overnights with them – but if you can't take a few minutes to have a conversation with me, I will GLADLY spend my $ elsewhere. Point. Blank. Period.

CHICK-FIL-A HANDS DOWN!! You cannot BEAT their quality!!!!

When @builder boysays this, one should listen.

He agrees to do something BEFOREHAND and then gaslights you into believing you never asked for it and never had a conversation about it and then wants HALF! AVOID!!

OH, cannot wait to hear back! Are you taking the plunge as a bttm or top? He lists that he is versatile so just wondering. 🙂

I've done it. I am just scared that one day . . .

Yeah, it's almost like something is causing a lot of them. . . wonder what that could be?

Gloryholes have ALWAYS scared the CRAP out of me! I have a HUGE FEAR of sticking my cock through a hole and getting it slashed, cut and cut off. I just can't get over the fear of it.

That cock is NOT 9 INCHES!!!! ROFLMAO!

ALL THESE RAVING REVIEWS and yet, he's not a bottom so not for me! DAMNIT!!!!!!!

A massage, for $400!!!!? ROFLMAO!!!!