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I'd call him athletic. Gman

Maybe he's too laid back to log in? Gman

@Keith30309 is usually more fond of the twinkier type guys. Is that what you like too, @njr47? Also you didn't mention whether you prefer top/bottom/versatile. Gman

I sent him a message about that (he had sent me a message first after I viewed his ad). He was surprised his profile didn't list oral, and he said he'd be changing it. Gman

I'm wondering if Chance is bi-there's an article I found. It talks about how Chance must have been on the young side when his son was born. It also mentions Chance having had a boyfriend at one time. But of course no telling if the article is accurate or not. Gman

Then you haven't looked at his Instagram site. Whether he has muscle now, he def had some in the past. I have a vague memory of seeing him back in 2011 or 2012. I think I remember very muscular thighs. I didn't think the massage was that great. I think he used baby oil. He may have improved since then. Gman

i know this is personal-it's just that it looks from his ad that he's looking more for subs. And while I know you are versatile, @Benjamin_Nicholas, I don't really think you are anyone's sub. Gman

Well on one hand I agree with you. But I still think even your averagely trained optometrist can tell how bad a cataract is. Plus I can see. I just have trouble with the edges of medians. Gman

Thank you for the suggestion. I actually had two eye exams last year-by two different doctors. While they say I may have some cataract formation-one optometrist said something like, "Young peoples' lenses are totally clear. Your lens while not totally clear is normal for your age." The other optometrist also did not seem to think I had anything to worry about as she didn't mention anything worrisome. Gman

My night vision is supposed to be fine. But for years now I've had trouble seeing the edges of medians when I'm making a left turn even if there's a light on the median. And forget me being able to see it well if it's unlighted, or there's fog/rain. Anyone out there in Message Center Land with the same problem? Also Is there anyone with city planning experience out there that knows why they don't put some kind of reflective strip along the edges of medians? Gman

I don't know how good an escort he is, but this video of his is making me dizzy. https://rentmen.eu/male-escort-videos/play/84810

I think I had been interested at one time, but the no kissing stopped me. Gman

There were several guys I have contacted over the years that for one reason or other I never met who then died. One was Cody Foster. He was supposed to be meeting me. At some point communication ceased. I talked to him afterwards, he said he was picked up by the police for something. The only one I think that I actually met who later died was Alexander Gustavo. It was a one time meeting for around an hour. As I recall, he was either going to drive to my hotel or motorcycle. But he ended up taking a taxi, and I ended up driving him back home. So we spent a bit more time together than the usual one hour visit. Gman

We know the black and white picture isn't current. I wonder about the other two. Gman

Exigent can also ( I looked it up) mean demanding. We've heard complaints before from escorts about overly demanding clients. But I'm not sure that's a particularly good thing for an escort to be either. Gman

Let me add that the reason I say this is mostly due to accountability issues. But it's an accountability issue on both sides. If there was a ? way to insure escorts lived up to their ads, and a ? sure way to sure all clients were decent guys, then maybe deposits would make more sense. But as things stand, deposits don't. Gman

But in general I'd say no escort is. Gman

I can remember at least three or four times not getting much satisfaction from an escort. Strangely enough three were from guys represented by Man to Man and once was a guy from Maximum escorts. Gman

I have no problems believing what you say happened. My question is -are you just having a run of bad luck with the providers you pick-or is it something else? Is it possible it's due to the type of guys you are attracted to? For example are the guys you are choosing well-known people either here on the Message Center or on Daddy's Reviews, or are they more unknown? If more unknown, maybe you should try someone who has been (well) vetted here on the MC or Daddy's Reviews? Gman

I haven't hired in many years. But I've never been much on porn. So I window shop Rentmen. And a vast majority of ads list "BFE." As for my suggestion about the shirt, that's what I did when I hired. Gman

When you consider that probably 90% of the escorts list "boyfriend experience," you have to think that at this point it's just words and may not mean anything. And as a suggestion to some newbies on here, at some point, esp if things seem to be moving slow, I'll usually ask a guy if I can unbutton his shirt. That usually leads to something. Gman

@RJD, you probably already know this. But if not, and I'm not saying it's the case here, but it's pretty easy to get fake Rentmen Reviews. There are apparently even 'standard' fake review profile names. I don't know how people on the Message Center found out. But people have pointed out the names of several fake profiles on RM that have reviewed lots of different guys. Gman

So-just be sure I understand-he didnt let you or the guy prior to you top him? Gman

There's one picture (or at least there used to be if not there now) of him wearing nail polish. Not that there's anything wrong with that-except for me-it gives me the heeby-jeebies. Gman

I have to think it's due to the stereotype of women making a fuss and complaining/b-tching or feeling more hurt than a man would. A man would, stereotypically, "suck it up," not let anyone see his pain, and any suffering, if the man was affected by the circumstances at all, would be done in silence. Because we men are TOUGH HOMBRES- not whiny women. Gman