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On one hand I could respond that my name isn't Elsa. But in actuality I'm fine. I had no intention of ever hiring them. And as they have no private pictures as of now, I can always log out and view their ad non-stop if I should somehow become overwhelmed by lust for either of them. However the level of vitriol they express for simply looking at their profile and not hiring them moves them "beyond the pale." If they are going to react like this to people viewing their profile and not hiring, what might they do if they got upset and you were seeing them in person? Gman

YEP!! Gman

Personally I think clients and potential clients have always window-shopped. I know I have. I looked at ads repeatedly for years, starting with pre-Rentboy sites when I couldn't even imagine myself hiring (and didn't have the money)-->to Rentboy and M4RN days when I finally hired and did have money-->to Rentmen now when I would hire if I could, but I don't have the money. The main difference that I see is that on RM, unless you turn the option off, the escort gets notified of people looking at even their public profiles without the viewer sending a request for, or if a paid member, clicking on the semi-privates. Gman

There were several days between the last two responses. I had looked at their ad between the two responses. But I look repeatedly at lots of ads when I'm bored. Gman

https://rent.men/ParkLaneDallas The following entails my entire message history with them. I didn't even contact them first, and I only replied to their query to be polite as I didn't really have any interest in two tops.. I will admit to looking at their ad from time to time. But I browse thru most of the Dallas ads when I'm bored. And of course posting about them just gives them more publicity which might be increase their business. But sometimes egregious behavior ought be be called out Gman

In general I don't think I've noticed Hellmann's tasting different from the past. But it's sold as Best Foods Mayonnaise on the West Coast. )My understanding is the two companies combined a long time ago, and the Best Foods brand was the name on the West Coast. There was an IHOP like restaurant in Washington state called Shari's. Their containers of Best Food Mayo said they didn't require refrigeration. I always thought their mayo didn't taste quite like the same brand I bought at my grocery store. I wondered if it were due to the restaurant's supply not being routinely refrigerated. Gman

I vaguely remember the first time I saw an uncircumcised guy. My junior high was very white bread. If there had been 20 African Americans in the entire school, I would be surprised. There were Asians, but I don't really remember if they were circed or not. But there was this one white guy-he seemed a bit odd personality. Somewhat athletic if I remember correctly but not on the school teams. Also out of all the students listed in the school roster, his was the only name without a phone number associated with it. I remember looking at him in disbelief as a 14 year old when he told me his family didn't have a phone. Gman

In light of some people's concerns (and I'm not denying they could be right -with me having made an error in judgment. It wouldn't be the first time), I have re-edited the pictures. I don't think they now show up in an image search. If @marylander1940 will kindly remove the picture from his post where we quoted me, we should be ok except for our memories. Gman

If hadn't thought the posting was innocuous, I never would have done it. As for someone posting my picture, perhaps they have. I've never looked. Gman

I get earworms, but in addition, situations will occur for example in my life, an acquaintance's life, or they'll say something -and it will seem very germane to a song lyric or title. For example recently someone spoke about hiring a lot, and this popped into my mind... Gman

I've just started watching the Starz show "Outlander." The theme song is haunting. Gman

His ad says he's versatile. Gman

They made us shower in junior high-at least in 7th and maybe 8th grade. I can't remember about 9th. I was always embarrassed because I was fat. In 10 grade-my last year to take PE in public school-I don't remember ever showering. Some of the athletic guys might have. But I didn't stare at them. Gman

And again the pictures were readily available. I said nothing to their detriment. It might even be advertisement for their businesses. Gman

Their pictures were readily on the web. I didn't say anything salacious about them. And to be able to actually find me from these specific posts out of everyone who lived in our dorm or knew the urologist's then girlfriend (and now that I think about it, while I am 100% sure I knew the girlfriend, I'm only 90% sure we lived in the same dorm at one time), well while it might theoretically possible to discover me, it would take spy level movie skills to do it. Now if someone were to take all my posts over the years, or trace my internet connection from my posts, it would be easier. But I'm going to assume, the majority of people who use the Message Center don't have those skills. And for the few who might, why bother? I'm a middle-aged gay male with a failed career who is living on the edge of poverty. What good would it do to out me? Gman

http://www.daddysreviews.com/cruise/newest/jason_greensboro https://rent.men/Musclepiggy I believe there are two guys. And Jason (and possibly the other guy too) seems to have pictures at various different ages and states of fitness. Gman

Figuring out the proper amount of lube to use has always been a trial and error process for me. Gman

He lived on another floor or wing. It would have been highly suspicious for me to shower in his area. Plus my dorm had been a women's dorm at one time. We had shower stalls. My cousin's dorm had more of a pole set up although there was some kind of cloth divisions separating the shower heads. Gman

I probably spend the majority of my time alone-and if not now-then definitely during the years from 2013 to 2017. Often the only people I'd talk to during the course of a week were servers or a cashier at a store. If by getting used to it you mean not screaming out loud in frustration, then I became used to it. For most other meanings of "used to it," I didn't. Gman

This guy was his roommate. He was really handsome back then. He was athletic and had dark hair with large curls-in ringlets. I don't know if he permed or whether it was natural. Gman

You mean you couldn't insert fully because he was holding you back? ? Gman

Well he would need to be a catcher as I'm a pitcher. I can't remember if I ever saw him naked in the shower or not. Gman

I've had a few alone Thanksgivings. One happened in my late 20's due to work. I couldn't get out of town. A coworker invited me to her house for that Thanksgiving. I was going to go, but I was so exhausted from work that I fell asleep. Another time in my 40's I was going to to travel to family and became ill, so I didn't make it out of town. When I lost my job in my mid-50's, I don't think I wanted to travel home because I was depressed. I ended up eating at an Old Country Buffet in Puyallup, Wa that is now closed. I wasn't particularly happy about being there, but at least I had turkey. I can't make it this year either. I have mixed feelings about it. On one hand I'm not happy. On the other hand, all the adults there are partnered except for my widowed mother -and she's the family matriarch-and my sister who has a bf (although he'll probably be with his family) but has two adult daughters to bond with. I love my siblings. But we aren't pals. So I'm basically the only adult there who has never been married and never even had a relationship. It didn't bother me when I was younger. But the older I get the more alone it makes me feel. Gman

Why would I post him if I didn't find him attractive? I think he was athletic too. Gman

I'm blocked from both of them. Gman