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Oh of course the sites are safer and that is why many gay men dont have stories of those true anecdotes the few in the know have. Only the ppl who have been on the moon know they have been on the moon. Just the same way only the real guys who have been with guys that are true blue straight alpha male types will know.. And because of much obfuscation its easy to doubt them i.e. people mislabeling themselves for marketing, delusional gays allowing themself to be decieved etc. It all just blends together.

I notice in gay spaces its not something that is welcomed as its assumed you should be pro affirming etc. However when watching porn i get no response at all like i could watch two gay men do everything under the sun and i find myself looking at whats on the coffee table or what the background scenery is. But if say i watch a documentary on marines or firefighters i feel raging passion even if they are mostly clothed. Is that any different than when a gay man says i dont like "blacks" or "fat ppl" etc. Im always confused for example when someone likes women and they like a butch female with a crew cut type. If you like women the epitome should be Britney Spears circa 2002-2006 or Carmen Electra late 90s to 2000x etc. If you like masculinity that square jawed stoic dont take shit type is what i consider the epitome. Alot of gay porn revolves around this image and fantasy but when gay ppl in real life actually are exclusively into this scene they are almost shamed. Is there anyone on here that lives this lifestyle or understands it? Are you actively opposed to it and if so why? Hope to hear some honest feedback.

unless he doesnt have clients and hes hanging on the corner with a dime bag or trying to sell a knock off watch so he can get enough money to buy diapers. Doesnt know what top or bottom means and is shocked that someone would offer him money to do xyz. Does it and thinks this aint so bad and you see a call at 1am that i am broke again.

Thanks for sharing Cure. For all intents and purposes I wouldnt consider you straight. Maybe bisexual or falling somewhere on the spectrum. Desire and attraction is part of the equation in my determination of whether a guy is straight. I tend to survey my guys before I make that determination so by the time I wanna make a move they havent had the opportunity to "put on". I dont just rely on what someone puts on a profie somewhere. I think the elusivesness of these guys is what sparks the interest. For many they are hiding in plain sight and for others they dont even exist. What a conundrum.

Lol John i dunno if these particular vids help the case but I will say gladiators were often pursued by wealthy gay Roman nobles. Just like today that is the same thing transposed to the 21 century. Wealthy gay men of means go for modern gladiators(football players,wrestlers, marines etc). Some call it self hate but not everyone can get off on "dominant alpha masc jocks" who are wannabe actors and backup dancers in waiting with a planet fitness membership who discovered rentmen. That is not gonna satiate my hunger. When I want steak dont give me soy.

It could be but I genuinely believe they believe what they say they believe. Its kinda like if someone said i saw xyz animal and zoologists say that animal is extinct only the ppl who saw that animal will know that they saw the animal. Sex is very intimate. Back when xtube and pornhub was at its zenith aobut 5 years ago. I would see certain users who did hidden cams(i dont condone it) but you could just tell by the kinds of guys they were getting that they knew how to find straight guys. Then you had users who would claim they were seducing straight guys and just roll your eyes cuz when you saw the mannerisms you knew it was just a ploy. I know we are gonna act like all the marines Bobby Garcia seduced for Awol marines were all just undercover closet gays or confused when he seduced thousands at camp pendleton. Every single one of them fit the typical profile of an alpha male straight man. There is no website that exists now where they bill the guys as staight and all the guys appear to be straight. NONE!!!!!! YOU HEAR ME???? NONE!!!!!!!!!!!! A couple of crossdressers out in newport rhode island almost seduced the entire military in New England to the point Franklin D. Roosevelt who was not yet president had to get involved and their was a trial to stop the crossdressers from blowing military guys. Also gay men who travel internationally know alot of these definitions dont exist. In latin america and middle east some of the most homophobic countries have the most homosexuality and alot of the men who fit the top role genuinely dont see themself as gay. They divorce the act of using a mouth or rectum from the person it belongs to. Once they reach a certain age they all but abandon those activities and move on with their life. I dont know why some ppl act so dense about this. You would think based on some of the posters age they would actually know this. In every era and culture there is anecdotal evidence of this. But like I said its a secret society not made for everyone to know.

Chris Cuomo.

John dont waste your time its all gonna fall on deaf ears. Some gays think in a narrow minded way because thats all they have had access to. You have to actually experience what you and I have to know otherwise or else how would you know? No matter what you show or say they will have the quick retort of " he wasnt actually straight to begin with". In other words all these bad ass inmates the whole prison is scared of who got ppl washing their clothes are just undercover gays who came into jail with 6 kids and 3 baby mothers because a gay wouldnt stop at one to make his point.

Thanks for sharing. Prob not straight guys but no doubt flexible guys in middle of the spectrum. In my experience straight guys are typically oral tops cuz it requires little to no effort. When someone tells me about "straight guys" who kiss and bottom i kinda feel that is something else.

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Ok i guess a 0 on kinsey wouldnt work. I doubt most gay men are 6 and straight men are zero. Maybe an opportunistic straight man. Lets use the prison example. Look how many straight guys who are tough hypermasculine engage in predatory sex as the dominant. I promise you those men do not belong to the gay community. All that "only gays have gay sex" is reductive and infantile. The issue is many gay men have co opted the straight designation so many other gay men continually observe these lines being blurred not knowing they are witnessing an imposter.

That is possible but not my most pressing concern. Although after Andrew Gillium incident not far fetched. My fantasy revolves around an attitude and a persona. Most gay escort ads literally say "masc," "dominant stud", *alpha hunk". It feels staged and performative. My brain can only judge them objectively i.e. nice skin,nice testh etc but i am not attracted. The same way you can show sone gay men many pictures of say black men or asian and no matter what they say they dont feel attraction. When you go to the zoo you wanna see the lions and the tigers. If you like masculinity you want the epitome. Its hard to argue straight men arent the standard bearers. Many look for gay men who can best represent that standard while some just want the real deal no filter.

I disagree and not out of delusion. Anyone who has been around real straight guys knows real straight wiring. Its hard to explain. If you have money your chances improve. If you have hundreds or thousands and all a straight guy has to do is kickback and get relief why would he not? Many female escorts who do everything are lesbians many men who provide services to wonen are gay(many of the guys on gigolos were clearly visibly gay imo). I think that debate is tired and actually has been put to bed. Gay men have been seducing straight men for all eternity 8n every society. Many ppl dont know the difference between sexual activity and sexual attraction and im not teaching psych 101 on here. Alot of ppl with this attraction are probably attracted to the kinds of guys they first crushed on and never shifted to the gay type. Some ppl are more into pure physicality i.e. height,eye color,cock zlsize,etc thats all well and good but some ppl like the thrill of that authenticity factor and without it everything is meh. In a way its good not every gay man is into that because availability is low as it is.

I know from a marketing standpoint "straight" has lost its meaning. However i have come to find out that many super diacrete under the radar clients have said they ONLY book what in essence are unknown straight guys. Released military, ex athletes in hypermaculine sports(football,wrestling,hockey etc) , laid off blue collar,and even ex cons readjusting. Is anyone on here aware of these types of under the radar type guys? Or have you met men on sites that fit the bill? As much as this site is a beacon for information it seems more fitting for your garden variety gay provider that rarely fits the profile of that "exclusive,elusive,untouchable" type. Those guys are out there and want to do this but there is no effort or forums dedicated to it. Anyone have any info or know any resources?

He is fresh out for "identity theft". Trust me I know a few guys from san quentin(I like my guys straight and tough dont judge me) and he would be lunch meat. Alot of guys like him usually end up in protective custody or in the gay ward in some jails its one and the same. Usually you add your jail cred to your resume when you "put in work". This guy is a poser but some ppl prefer fake fantasies so he might as well try to hustle a few ppl while hes at it

My guess is he is gonna "tear you a new one" od _rip you in half".

I didnt say that. Not all male hairdressers who can highlight and flat iron are either but you know.....

This. This.this. Say you are a senator or sultan. There is noooo waaaay in hell I am hiring a gay guy who willblab in his tell all book when his off broadway gigs dry up. Id rather shower some blue collar construction worker in some small bum fuk town who has a baby on the way and maybe not a clean recotd so jobs arent as easy to come by. The beauty for all who prefer gay men is you wont have me taking up any of your providers slots.

This. You and I may be exceptions but for me nothing will ever meet the bar of straight men. NOTHING!!!!!!!! Every gay man tends to request masculinity and every provider claims masculinity. With straight men thode prelims are reduntant. Straight men also have a more visceral innate take on masculinity. If you go back to the capt of football team, champion wrestler, friends brother fixing cars shirtless, the landscape guy who takes off shirt and comes into the house glidtening needing a glass of water. I cant function outside of those fantasies so for me i deal exclusively with straight men. If you are respectful and not bossy/pushy you will get far more often than you thinkmBut its a skill and not many hqve the patience it takes.

Guys like him push the limits for worshippers pleasure as well as their own. If you are a worshipper cherish them while here.

I think a deposit of 75 or so to someine who gives off good vibes or verifies can be done with discretion. Many ppl fail to understand that many trolls posing as clients use these sites only for pic collecting and free phone sex. Legit guys can get disgruntled and leave the biz overnight.

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Op are you looking for trade? Like the straight guy behind on child support kinda thing?

You would make an amazing fiction writer.

I guess i didnt understand the site. I checked it out none off my preferred category. Im at a point where there is literally nothing interesting to look at. Sigh