I am an expert on straight men and you have it right. Open minded straight men will have sex with men gay men find revolting because its never about the other man to the guys. The other guy is never hot but the experience is hot. Alot of gay men just cant understand this!!!
Source: i have a countless cadre of straight athletes,military and blue collar guys(i even hook my friends up) i deal with. Let a few benjamins ruffle together and call me Houdini