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Read a lot of great reviews of Asian Spas/massage parlors in NYC. Wondering if any one have tried any of the Asian massage parkours in the Bay Areas. I remember seeing ads on CL with male masseurs but have not tried. I did go to Suchada Thai in Potrero Hill and it was OK. Therapeutic and clinical. Any recommendations? Thanks in advance.

When I was younger, I was more insecure - didn’t want people to stare at me because I was too skinny, too small, uncircumcised, too whatever. Now that I’m older, I figure no one’s going to look at me, especially with all the hotties around. As for pictures of me naked, haa haaa, why? Beauty is wasted on the young and dumb - haaa haaa. If I could do it over, I would take tons of naked selfies so when I’m my age again, I’ll have proof how hot I was. My friends joke that Mother Nature hate old people - she makes us old, fat, ugly and impotent. Haa haa

I’m so sorry... that’s terrible.

We have a n0-sublet policy on our rental lease agreement and no overnight guest staying over 5 days without approval from landlord. In SF where there’s a super tight rent control in place and a strong protection for squatters’ rights, it’s really difficult to evict. A friend of ours had some friends from school crashed at his place for the summer while they were doing a summer internship. When the summer was over, they refused to move so my friend couldn’t do anything about it. He ended the lease and moved out but when the landlord came over to check on the place, they found the squatters and had to high attorneys to evict. My friend got sent the attorney’s fees and repair when the “friends” trashed the place.

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Had him a long long long time ago - wasn’t a great experience. Signed up for 90 minutes massage and after 45, was pretty bored. Even back then, picture was better than in person. He was heavier then too.

In Thailand, we rented the 1-bedroom full apartment so have our own keys - we come and go at will. It was a high rise so as long as you have security card to get into building and elevator, they don’t care. I think they have a no party rule - so unless you’re going to throw a frat style house party, i think you’re fine. (So not to disturbed other tenants). We had no problems with guests in Hawaii or lots of other places. As for payment, AirB&B will collect the fees for the room rate and tax, etc., but read the house rule and overview sections of the listing where it’ll tell you whether you are responsible for the utilities, etc. after your stay. It also provides you with how often for cleaning, etc. and even if there’s a deposit required. Yeah, in some of the reviews, people were shocked to have to foot out extra when they check out. (It’s understandable in some country where it’s hot and people are not good to environment and leave windows and doors open and air conditioner on all day, running up hundreds of dollars for electricity). As for Istanbul, it was a last minute 2-night stay and was curious about the location so rented a room, not the entire apartment. The boys were waiters with side jobs as tourist guides and escorts. Haa haaa. Fun fun.

I’ve used AirB&B if i’m in a city a long time (at least 3-4 days) and want easy access to stuff like microwave, refrigerator, etc. that way, i get to pretend i’m living in the city, get to do everyday thing like picking up stuff for snacks, walk around the neighborhood, etc. in some cities, it’s cheaper to get a hotel (Playa, Bangkok) while in other cities it’s cheaper to AirB&B (Paris, London, Buenos Aires, Istanbul). Make sure you read the rules - in Phuket, Thailand, for example, you pay for utilities (in addition to rent) while in Playa, Thailand, it’s all inclusive. Also, in some cities, the apartments are much nicer than the same price hotels. And do read the reviews - they give you a clue to some of the issues. For example, in Peru, the apartment we stayed in runs out of toilet paper and the host never responded. It’s a pain to have to go out to buy toilet paper while on vacation. Our host in Istanbul offered us sex for pay. Haa haaa. Too bad they weren’t cute. And in Paris, the host is a shoe whore (like Carrie in Sex in the City). Lucky for me, he was my size so I got to try out all these super expensive shoes. And he and his boyfriend were so super sweet and kind. It’s fun to try out someone’s shoes (figuratively and not) for a few days and pretend you’re living in Paris or Bruno’s Aires or Barcelona versus just visiting.

How do i PM to a post versus posting to all? I know how to reply to a message in my inbox but not sure how to initiate a PM. Thanks.

I had him in Taipei - his massage skill was excellent. His style is very traditional Chinese massage so really really deep tissue on the legs. It was after weeks of sight seeing, trekking, more trekking (Sun Moon Lake and A Li Shang) so was totally travel weary. I remember almost on the edge of being in tears because his massage was so deep. But honestly, afterward, i was ready for more walking and sight seeing. I returned the following day to see him again but unfortunately he was already booked. For me the massage was purely therapeutic so... HE was offered but I was with a travel companion at the time so didn’t need it.

Visited Max recently- no way is he 29. I’m guessing about late 30. Still great body and good massage but definitely not 29. Oh, forgot to mention, massage is on his bed, not massage table in case that matters. I prefer massage table since it’s difficult to face down without a head rest - hard to breathe if face down, Tiring if turned to side.

He’s pretty amazing. totally hot too Sorry don’t know how to PM on this

I went to Dan a few years ago @ his South of Mission studio. I think he only does therapeutic now. The studio is in one of those live/work complex. Room was nice but no bathroom or shower in room. His massage wasn’t super memorable. For a sexy handsome white guy, I rather see Ron https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/1260/ I know he used to do sensual and erotic but I’ve only had therapeutic with him. He’s super good. He kinda reminds me of David Gandy.

Is he a bit pricey for purely therapeutic?

Hi, will be visiting Sacramento regularly so looking for some relaxing TLC after the drive. Any experience with Gabe? https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/35185/ Or anyone else good near Elk Grove area? Thanks in advance.

Haa haa. Got it - bumping and grinding or topping. Thanks

Silly question but what does bumping mean? Thanks.

He wasn’t very good as Cyclop on X-men - didn’t buy him as action hero. But when he was on 30 Rock, totally fell HOH for him - OMG, I totally wanted to be Liz Lemon so I can date him. Ha ahaaa. He’s one of those guys who just get more and more gorgeous as they age.

@ fm0322 - Arbus went thru many hair changes - just wasn’t into his longer style - haa haa. My taste or lack thereof. His massage was very exciting. Lately, his schedule has been super limited due to school but he should be more free late August. Also, if you like a “spa like scented room” you’ll love his apartment. (It’ll definitely make you forget the stinky streets you’ll traverse to get to his place. Haa haaa)

I would also suggest Anda. He’s pretty good - I had major lower back issues several years ago and went to him regularly when he was massaging from his apartment in Berkeley. Unfortunately, because of school and internship, he stopped working last year. Notice that he’s doing massages again but outcalls only. He looks better than in the photo - haa haaa. Sweetest guy! https://rentmasseur.com/Andamannaja

Spent 2 weeks in Myranmar - lovely. Go for the culture and the scenery - not the gay scene - very limited. Not as gay as Thailand, Vietnam or Laos. The spa facilities are much more modest. b2b massages available, especially in Mandalay, but don’t expect skill. It’s still heavily controlled by the military.

I’ve stayed at the Trinity Silom and the Heritage previously. Trinity has a rooftop pool (in apartment across the street) that’s huge and great for swimming laps. Heritage has a room top pool that’s fairly shaded. Both are right off the sky train and easy walking to street food and food court, Tawan and bars, and massage parlors. And you can you take air train to the sky train from airport to hotel - really cheap.

Get a manicure - it’s awful when scraped by poorly manicured hands Same for sharp calluses

I normally prefer undraped in private spaces because it annoys me to have the masseur waste precious time trying to tuck the sheet to hide my privates. But in some Asian spas separated only by curtains, drape me - wouldn’t want to make the public lose their appetite. Haa haaaa.

Oops, that’s in SF. (ignore)