Hey guys. I’m a 34 year old male. Have a comfortable and seemingly normal life. I had a fiancé but ended that about 6 months ago. I’ve dated since then but nothing serious.
Here is why I’m posting... I’ve had a desire to be with a man for some time. I had a married buddy that I met through CL years ago. We would meet up, JO - some touching but that’s it.
I’ve never had a dick in my mouth or ass. I want to try that. I travel a lot for work so want to this during a work trip.
I need advice - this is something I want to try soon. Should I try to meet someone through a hookup app or hire an escort? Or maybe start with an erotic massage?
I’ve chatted with a few guys on Grindr. I’m 34 6’3” 200 lbs. Played baseball in college and have an athletic/muscular build. The reason I mention that is because I’m getting a lot of responses from guys that want me to top them. I suppose I’ll want to do that. But what I really want is a guy that teaches me how to suck, bottom and can make me feel good. A dominant albeit respectful and patient guy. A guy that won’t get upset if I don’t gothrough with it all the first time we meet.
I frequent Seattle, Minneapolis, Chicago,Philadelphia, Dallas, and Los Angeles for work. Hope this hasn’t bored you yet. I don’t know how to best move forward with this. Suggestions would be greatly welcomed. And if anyone knows of the right person? Any recommendations would be appreciated.
I posted in another section but not sure if it would be more appropriate here.