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Somewhat right. I guess I just want more for the extra and he is already doing everything I communicated.

So, I met a guy on Seeking Arrangement and he is becoming my regular. We normally meet for a fixed amount, have dinner, fun, and spend a night together. I am thinking to propose some alternative model where he gets rewarded for doing things I like without being prompted (like call me by my first name, cuddle after sex, wearing underwear I like, etc). I will add a certain amount for each checkpoint that he met. The reason I want to try this that is that he is super affordable with his base rate (he is very inexperienced) and I would to bring an element of fun/game into our interactions. Has anyone tried to have different compensation model for the guys you see based on their performance (I know some people tip escorts)? How did you communicate it to escorts?

They said they are not interested and expected something different. I asked how much they want and they never gave me an answer.

Need advice here. I try to video chat with guys before I meet them. At some point, we have a conversation about how much I am ready to pay if we meet them. I tried two scenarios. 1. Ask them how much they want. One said a grand per meeting on top of his travel. He lives in a different city and I would say he is average looking. I said that the most I can do is $200. He vanished. 2. When a guy asked how much I would pay, I gave them the number. In one case I offered 200, in another case, it was 100. I understand that this is on the lower end, but when there is nothing special (cute face or muscles or great personality and presence) I am not ready to pay more. What's the best way to handle this? Not bring money at all?

For those that use Instagram for hiring - can you share your strategies?

I have used a strategy suggested by someone previously - paying $50 just to meet for coffee and chat and just had my first meet. It was great! The guy was nice and pleasant, showed me a couple of good places to eat and I had overall a great time. Now we are moving towards more intimate things, like spending a night together. I have never spent a night with an escort before, but I want slow sensational encounter. Any tips from the pros how to make it happen in the best way?

Has anyone tried pad account there? Is it possible to download any videos with paid membership? https://recurbate.com

I started account on Seeking Arrangements. I had several chats with guys from there. One of the steps I do "behind the scenes" is finding their profiles on social media and any traces they left on internet. The purpose of this "stalking" is to confirm that I am talking to a real person, and not being catfished and see if they are not lying. And I noticed an interesting phenomenon. I am interested in guys 18-25 yo, who belong to generation that is more cognizant on what they put on social media. You know who is less cognizant? Their moms. For two guys I chatted on SA, there were only few clothed pics on their Facebook pages, but their moms had tons of pics of theirs sons (including shirtless, sport events, family gatherings). If only they knew.

You must have a rare gift of finding guys who are in that zone where they need a little support (financial or advice) and it gets them on a path where they can live a happy life.

This is something I'd like to unlearn and unsee. I was considering hiring Hoss Kado (https://rent.men/HossKado) for a long time, but the rosebud in some oh his videos made so memorable impression on me so I decided to pass. I know I am irrational and illogical, but I can't help it.

Hey, Kevin. Great data analysis. Would you mind sharing (without revealing any identifiable data, of course) what kind of arrangements you have with your top clients? The reason I am asking is that I am looking for a somewhat ongoing arrangement with an escort, and curious to know how it works for others on the market. Thanks.

Some things you learn as a result of social interaction. Sometimes this knowledge is very useful. My example. A guy taught me a simple cocktail: whisky, cola, AND frozen cherries instead of ice cubes (it's very good). What have you learned from your encounters?

What brand for underwear?

If I were that guy I would leave you $20 bill on a dresser feeling bad that you have only $19.

And a professional escort can be outdone by a college kid who really likes to suck cock and really needs $20 this night.

I received as a gift nice 1000 thread count sheets and they do feel luxurious and more comfortable compared to the cheap ones I had before. What are other things that are significantly better at slightly higher price ranges? What else have I been missing? (Most interestingly, this trend does not apply to escorts)

I had the same story when a guy I used to hook up on a regular basis stole my well worn, almost falling apart flip flops. I am still uncertain why he did that. I tried to ask him but he denied that he took them. I think it is an instinctive, almost unconscious move. People get pretty excited when having sex, so that may be something he would not be able to explain why he did that and feel ashamed about.

Sometime guys you hire tell you what they need money for. Or ask for a specific amount to buy x. My best hiring experience was in 2008 when a guy I hooked up with before needed $15 to buy flowers for his mom for the Mother’s Day and let me have my way with him. Did you have guys tell you what they need money for besides “to pay bill”? Any memorable moments?

Hey guys, I was at Korean Sauna and Spa (https://jejusauna.com/) and it was a really great experience- I ordered full body wash/scrab with massage. It was truly amazing. Never felt so clean. anyone knows of Korean saunas in other cities?

https://rent.men/ThatsGossip Anyone tried this boy?

It looks like the guys who met Alam really like the experience. What specifically he did that made you love it so much? (Besides obvious)

I tried meeting guys who have profiles on SA after finding them on Grindr. Not sure if I met/chatted with enough guys, but here is an impression I formed. There are two ends of the spectrum. On one side, we have educated guys, driven, willing to work hard, articulate. These are guys I want to meet. Unfortunately, they don't usually want to see me. On the other side, we have junkies, flakes, guys who cannot hold a job for more than two weeks. Meeting them when happens is pretty problematic. And overall this is not the type of arrangement I want to step into. There are some in the middle that you can aim for. But not many.

The types of devices that apply vacuum would do the trick. Another way - working out and growing pecs would make skin thinner and increase sensitivity.

I find name calling like "bitch" or "slut" hot when it's used appropriately. Sometimes calling ass a pussy can be fun too. But "she" when referring to bottom is a turn off.

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