Ryan Roman

That's what I do when crossing the border for clients - I keep my rates the same for CAD$ and US$.

With eyes and a face like that you're no average Joe!

So, if I'm reading the thread correctly, the issue is there are too many 'average joe's' on RentMen these days another not enough 'model-type' escorts. IMHO... The great thing about RentMen and similar sites is there is something for everyone. If you don't want an 'average joe,' don't hire one. Many of us 'average joes' do OK as we are. I know an 'average joe' like me isn't for everyone, but for a lot of men, guys like me are what they like... IMO...

'@Ryan Wolff is the perfect definition of baby faced otter?'
 
I've never thought of myself as a baby faced otter

Reading about a gay virgin’s first time getting his cherry popped is a lot more exciting than you think.

Well, he was always into the art scene, even when he originally did porn. I agree he is a really handsome man with an amazing body who is also versatile. Also, a lot of porn performers are doing bareback porn because of both PrEP and very rigorous testing. I believe he continues to produce art.

So, if I'm reading the thread correctly, the issue is there are too many 'average joe's' on RentMen these days another not enough 'model-type' escorts. IMHO... The great thing about RentMen and similar sites is there is something for everyone. If you don't want an 'average joe,' don't hire one. Many of us 'average joes' do OK as we are. I know an 'average joe' like me isn't for everyone, but for a lot of men, guys like me are what they like... IMO...

So, if I'm reading the thread correctly, the issue is there are too many 'average joe's' on RentMen these days another not enough 'model-type' escorts. IMHO... The great thing about RentMen and similar sites is there is something for everyone. If you don't want an 'average joe,' don't hire one. Many of us 'average joes' do OK as we are. I know an 'average joe' like me isn't for everyone, but for a lot of men, guys like me are what they like... IMO...

That's what I do when crossing the border for clients - I keep my rates the same for CAD$ and US$.

So, if I'm reading the thread correctly, the issue is there are too many 'average joe's' on RentMen these days another not enough 'model-type' escorts. IMHO... The great thing about RentMen and similar sites is there is something for everyone. If you don't want an 'average joe,' don't hire one. Many of us 'average joes' do OK as we are. I know an 'average joe' like me isn't for everyone, but for a lot of men, guys like me are what they like... IMO...

So, if I'm reading the thread correctly, the issue is there are too many 'average joe's' on RentMen these days another not enough 'model-type' escorts. IMHO... The great thing about RentMen and similar sites is there is something for everyone. If you don't want an 'average joe,' don't hire one. Many of us 'average joes' do OK as we are. I know an 'average joe' like me isn't for everyone, but for a lot of men, guys like me are what they like... IMO...

So, if I'm reading the thread correctly, the issue is there are too many 'average joe's' on RentMen these days another not enough 'model-type' escorts. IMHO... The great thing about RentMen and similar sites is there is something for everyone. If you don't want an 'average joe,' don't hire one. Many of us 'average joes' do OK as we are. I know an 'average joe' like me isn't for everyone, but for a lot of men, guys like me are what they like... IMO...

I expect to be paid in local currency, though I wouldn't object to getting US money in Canada.
 
I don't personally change my rates nor do I recalculate based on exchange. My hourly US rate is in line with the NYC market; in Canada, the same number of dollars (but just Canadian dollors) is a bit high for the market. I keep my rates the exact same number, just in Canadian dollars. Yes, it means I am making less per hour with the exchange rate, but I'm focused here on the experience of the guy hiring me - he's paying a lot more than he might pay a local and I think I would cost myself some business by changing my rate to account for the exchange; effectively, if I did that, my rate would be about twice the average for a market like Toronto.

I'm one of the guys who prefer an "average Joe" escort. The really good looking/built escorts I have contacted in the past have either had outrageous fees (no one, and I mean NO ONE is worth $400-500 per hour), outrageous limits (really??? no mutual oral...give me a fucking break, you're in the wrong business Buttercup) or never return your texts, e-mail or calls...BUT the escorts most here would consider average have been, for the most part, polite, quick to reply, open to most of what I've asked for and have been very accommodating. I know this goes both ways, and I'm sorry if I sound bitchy, but I am so tired of escorts acting like they're doing me a favor by replying to my texts/e-mails or, if they do respond, they're quick to tell me more about what they will NOT do or how I should change my requests to accommodate them...again, sorry to sound bitchy but this really hit a nerve with me.

I'm probably a rarity but I prefer the client being up front with what he wants and likes from the get go. That way there are no surprises and a possibility of me saying no sorry after a handful of emails. As they say, time is money and I dont want to waste yours or mine.
 
Hugs,
Greg

Legal pot will roll out differently in Canada than in US
 
Mail-order weed? You betcha!
 
With marijuana legalization across Canada on the horizon, the industry is shaping up to look different from the way it does in nine U.S. states that have legalized adult recreational use of the drug. Age limits, government involvement in distribution and sales, and access to banking are some big discrepancies.
 
And yes, Canadians will be able to order cannabis online and have it delivered through the mail — something that's illegal in the United States.
 
Prime Minister Justin Trudeau announced Wednesday that marijuana will be legal nationwide on Oct. 17. In the meantime, Canada's provinces and cities are working out issues concerning how cannabis will be regulated.
 
Here's what to expect:
 
GOVERNMENT-RUN STORES
 
It's up to the provinces and territories to determine how to handle distribution, and they're taking a variety of approaches.
 
Ontario plans to open up to 150 stores run by its Liquor Control Board — a model of public ownership that is unusual in the U.S. The tiny Washington state town of North Bonneville has one city-owned pot shop.
 
British Columbia is planning for a mix of public and privately owned stores, while Newfoundland and Saskatchewan will have only private pot shops. In some remote areas where stand-alone marijuana stores might not be economically feasible, including in the Northwest Territories, cannabis could be sold at existing liquor stores.
 
Just like U.S. states with legal pot, the provinces also differ on home-growing, with many allowing up to four plants and others, including Quebec, barring it.
 
And rather than a minimum age of 21, as U.S. states have set, Canada's federal minimum age to use marijuana will be 18, with most provinces adding an additional year.
 
The varying approaches make the provinces something of a laboratory for determining the best ways to legalize, said Matt Gray, founder and chief executive of Herb, a Toronto-based news and social media platform for the pot industry.
 
"It's this amazing case study for countries globally to see the amazing benefits that legalizing cannabis can have on things like the economy, eradicating the black market and getting cannabis out of the hands of minors," he said.
 
PRICING AND TAXES
 
Whether run by the government or private entities, the stores will obtain their marijuana from federally licensed growers. Officials also will set a minimum price.
 
Canada's finance ministers have pegged it at about $10 per gram, but the Yukon minister in charge of marijuana says the government hopes to displace more of the illegal market by setting the base at $8.
 
The government wants to tax legal marijuana at either $1 per gram or one-tenth of a product's price, whichever is greater, plus federal and provincial sales taxes. It's likely to be less than the taxes imposed in the states.
 
Washington state's tax rate is 37 percent, plus state and local sales taxes. In California, licensed pot businesses are blaming total tax rates that can approach 50 percent for driving people back into the black market.
 
The Canadian government agreed to give provinces and territories 75 percent of the tax revenue.
 
BANKING
 
Canada's cannabis businesses have a massive advantage over their American counterparts: access to banks.
 
Because the drug is still illegal under U.S. law, major banks have been loath to do business with the industry, even in legal marijuana states.
 
U.S. Treasury Department data show a slow increase in the number of banks and credit unions maintaining accounts for marijuana businesses, with 411 reporting such accounts last spring.
 
But many of those institutions don't provide full-service banking, making it tough for businesses to get loans.
 
"The major Canadian banks were slow to warm to this," said Chris Barry, a Seattle-based marijuana business attorney who handles industry transactions in both countries for the law firm Dorsey and Whitney.
 
He said smaller independent banks, investment banks and brokerage firms got the work started.
 
"That has pretty much dissolved as a problem," Barry said. "The majors are coming around to participate in the market."
 
THE PRODUCTS
 
Some consumers are disappointed that store shelves will only stock dried flower, oils and seeds when sales begin — no edibles. The government has said it needs about another year to develop regulations for edibles.
 
There's also a labeling issue: Health Canada has dictated large warning labels on otherwise plain packages, with strict restrictions on font sizes, styles and colors. The idea is to discourage misuse and to avoid appealing to youths, but it also leaves very little room for company logos or branding.
 
"It looks like each bag is housing radioactive waste," said Chris Clay, owner of Warmland Cannabis Centre, a medical marijuana dispensary on Vancouver Island. "It's a tiny logo with this huge warning label. It doesn't leave much room for craft growers that want to differentiate themselves."
 
And that, Clay said, is one of many things that will make it difficult for mom-and-pop growers to thrive. Giant cannabis companies have been entering deals to supply marijuana to the provinces.
 
While micro-producers are allowed, Clay is worried that by the time rules are released, "all the contracts are going to be scooped up."
 
POT BY POST
 
While getting marijuana by mail may be a novel concept in the U.S., it's nothing new in Canada. Its postal service has been shipping medical marijuana to authorized patients since 2013.
 
"Many of our processes are in place today for medicinal cannabis and will continue for any regulated product sent through Canada Post from licensed distributors," Canada Post said in a written statement.
 
The agency requires proof of age upon delivery and won't leave the package in your mailbox or on your doorstep if you're not home.

He's one of the bottom feeders who migrated from BP and CL to mainstream RentMen.

Raise my rate? I got an email where a client tried to haggle me down to $100... I might as well be walking the streets again like when I was 19.

Be careful, Aaron, if you are in the US and you talk to a client for the first time, when you cannot know for sure that he is not a cop. Haggling for a sex act is a problem for legal reasons, not because it has a negative context.

Aaah, gotcha! Thanks for the clarification!

But in the US you should not say this sort of things or a different reason: you should not link sex acts to money (unless you are actually making a porn movie, I guess).
An escort provides companionship for money, not sex for money, that would be illegal.
So an escort will likely block you if you start linking sex with money in your communication. Too much chance of you being a police sting.

My friends would know why I'm excusing myself, so it wouldn't be an issue...

If it was something formal, I'd pass on the client. However, most of the time it's pretty informal, and they understand it's a part time job for me.

If it was something formal, I'd pass on the client. However, most of the time it's pretty informal, and they understand it's a part time job for me.

I had leave some friends the other day, during pride fest. However, it kinda happened during an intermission period where the older day crowd transitioned to the younger, drunker evening crowd, around 5-6 pm. In that case I was able to break away, even though otherwise it would have been improper since I had parked a ways away and had my friend drive me back.
 
Plus the client only lived like 0.5 miles away from the action.
 
I will say it’s harder to break away from friends when I have to host, versus client hosting. But generally...I don’t like to break away from friends if I’m out doing specific plans. I’ve had friends get upset or part ways because of it. It’s not that they don’t understand, but it can annoying. I only do it if it’s A) been a slow week and B) whatever me and friends are doing, isn’t something formal: like a wedding. We also agree beforehand, that if something comes up...I may need to take it.