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Ryan Roman

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  1. Sadly, Cialis made me dizzy, lighheaded and a little disoriented... I've heard great things about Cialis, but it just doesn't agree with me.
  2. I'd just order Viagra from India and it was pleasantly surprised to see it was NIZAGARA... It'll come in handy when I have to work tonight ?...
  3. Regular clients are the ones you really come to appreciate (and vis versa).
  4. It never hurts to ask... As long as you're being reasonable in your offer. I know of one great lakes city where the men are cheap as hell and will try to hire a full service provider for $100/hour...
  5. Well I know what I just ordered for myself as an Xmas gift ?
  6. I prefer repeat clients. You can develop a rapport with them and really get to know them in ways that allow for you to better satisfy their needs.
  7. Know what your market will bear as well as what your value is related to the market you're serving.
  8. If you provide examples of porn you have performed in, ideally they are the scenes you enjoy doing sexually and not something outside of your own comfort zone.
  9. When you're putting on a performance, sometimes you do need some assistance to keep going and going and going ?
  10. Personal preference. Cialis made me light headed and dizzy. Viagra is always reliable when I need to perform for extended periods of time with a client.
  11. I have, on a few occasions, referred clients to another escort either based on my schedule or based on something specific they were looking for. I always appreciate getting referrals in return as well...
  12. Will Italian suffice for Latino??
  13. And then the word was reappropriated to apply to marginalized neighbourhoods comprised of people of colour (including Italians, who weren't White enough)...
  14. Life is miserable before getting tenure. 6 years of publish or perish articles in the "right type" of journals on an original topic you may come to hate with a passion of 1000 white hot suns, campus service, obtaining external funding (even in the Humanities, preferably from the Federal government), writing a book or 2, getting commissions or placing in competitions in Art, Architecture, and Design, the whims of a P + T committee, a department chair or dean, enrollment trends, workload creep... I remember my first semester of graduate school a classmate talking about getting a divorce as a result of her pursuing a PhD and thinking how awful... And then finding out how true it is when my partner and I split while I was in my PhD... The sacrifices to your soul are real.
  15. It's all about the tenure..
  16. The topic of abusive parents keeps coming up in my own personal universe over the past six months, so I'll share my own experiences. Despite my parents being divorced by the time I was five, both of my parents were verbally and physically abusive. With my mother, I can rationalize why she behaved the way she did/does (the physical abuse stopped when I was 16, the verbal abuse never has). I wouldn't say I've forgiven her; I keep her at arm's length, minimalize my interactions with her, and "check her" when she starts to become verbally abusive. As for my father and his second wife... They were beyond abusive. One could argue they're evil (my father's wife being the Mastermind; and my father being the enforcer). I can't step foot into their house as a 43 year old man (that happened this past June, and I insisted on speaking to my father in the driveway). When I was in my 20s, I tried to forgive, but again, the abuse continued, so by 24, I stopped trying. I have minimal interaction with my father's family (they all knew what was going on but "didn't want to get involved"). I know becoming a sex worker, getting through undergraduate college and graduate school, and my person relationships have all been affected by having abusive parents. Sometime you can't forgive; sometimes, you just have to accept it as fact, and try to find way to accept who they are and try to live your best possible life... At least that's what I've tried to do in my life... But that's easier said than done.
  17. Thanks for the information. It's incredibly helpful. Considering "raunch" helped put my through undergraduate college and graduate school, that helps me determine which resort I should look at more closely. I tend to be without clothes whenever possible - you could say that's a direct result of my upbringing - but I'll be sure to being swim wear just in case I can't keep up with the younger men ?. Thanks again for all of the information... I look forward to meeting you as well, and please have a great week.
  18. Thanks for the information. That's really helpful. I'm sure I'll end up naked at the pool party - I'm a bit of a nudist. Thanks again...
  19. What would you suggest for the top five suggested hotels to stay at?
  20. I do have a question... For the weekend, given the different types of venues we'll be meeting in, what types of attire are suggested for the more public events? I ask as I tend to over pack, and am trying to get better at it... Thanks guys!
  21. If I have to drive outside of my normal service area, I'll be upfront and let the client that as a result of the additional travel, a travel fee for time and gas is required. As long as you're reasonable about the time + travel fee, most clients understand.
  22. I had to provide ID to be verified... IDK... Maybe if you're already well known it's not an issue...
  23. Many possible clients are fine with hearing "that doesn't work with my schedule for this trip, but stay in touch so we can plan something only next trip." Being polite costs nothing and can build you up in the eyes of a client... IMHO...
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