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Lchnsf

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  1. I love my job as a personal trainer and enjoy and admire my clients who can afford my services. I look at what they do for work and think I am happy with what I do and wouldn’t chose anything else. I love flowers but would hate the bridezilla, I love to cook but want to keep it a hobby and close to me. If I couldn’t be a trainer I would chose to be a teacher which in my eyes has a lot of similarities. Especially since my clients act like children when with me ?
  2. San Francisco is very gay friendly though , I have lived here over 20 years and find The City and surrounding towns very tolerant. The thing to consider when moving to San Francisco is the homeless situation. This is no joke and many of my friends have moved from neighborhoods like the Castro and SOMA because they no longer feel safe. Generally neighborhoods like Pacific Heights and the inner and outer Richmond are safer. As an older gay man (did I just admit to that) I no longer enjoy living in The Castro and am considering a move to Sonoma, Russian River or Napa. They have a more mature gay population. Adding to that as someone else mentioned that with C19 bars and restaurants have limited seating, that being said many parkletts have sprung up and the closed of streets in The Castro and other neighborhoods where they have alfresco dining. Bars have teamed up with restaurants which in my opinion is a win win. With many moving out of the city with C19 prices are coming down. Rent by as much as 30%. It’s still pricey though.
  3. Let’s not forget Blondie, she may not have been “active” in 1983 but she had a huge influence on the artists that followed and still holds her own today.
  4. He was born in 1988! He’s damn hot but hardly consider him aged.
  5. I think it was a few days before he responded to my text to set something up as he was out of town so I’m guessing massage on demand is not an option with him. He’s very sweet and he looks like his pics, but his massage was nothing much.
  6. When I first moved to SF I was at a movie and started randomly holding hands with the guy next me. We ended up going out to dinner after the movie, he had to lose his friend for dinner. Unfortunately nothing happened. A week or two later I was hanging out with my college roommate and we went to one of his friends for dinner. The guy I met at the movie was their adopted son. I remained cool the entire evening, but the dude was awkward. He was in no way a hire so does this qualify? I did tell my old roommate on the way home what transpired.
  7. Freier Fall: https://g.co/kgs/rW5Buo
  8. I miss Craigslist as well. I had more luck in Craigslist than any other platform
  9. Living in SF I have known many persons in adult entertainment who took their job seriously and did well with it, they also used it as a stepping stone to another career. I have also seen people get fucked up in other more “legitimate“ industries.
  10. Lchnsf

    DC JockStraps/Trevor

    You think? It looks like Anime!
  11. Once you see it you can’t unsee it - and I don’t want to unsee it - it’s impressive
  12. I wear two masks and it helps with the fogging up of the glasses. It helps, but doesn’t prevent it entirely.
  13. They have to be scammers as was previously discussed. I’m finding more and more that I get hit on by scammers on Grindr including guys looking for gas money so they can get to you. Makes you wonder who is real any more. Scruff is not as bad but they are still there.
  14. I use One Medical and have been very happy with them. I have my complaints but they have been better than other providers I have had. Prior to the ACA I went to Mark Higgins and was extremely happy with him. Doctors have a Code if Ethnics and cannot by law share any info.
  15. I am a gay man attracted to gay men with all the right parts. Even among the gay community I definitely have a type. Now that the Trans community is mixing in I find I am getting approached often. When I have turned them down I have been accused of being racist and closed minded. My interest involves men with all the working parts. I have found Trans men rather aggressive in approaching me and they don’t take no for an answer. I wish to remain sensitive and my trans friends haven’t been helpful in how to respond. No should mean no.
  16. I’m ready to take the plunge. I have not had sex since the middle of March when or lockdown started (and frankly for some time before that). I have also pretty much stayed home except for solo bike rides, grocery shopping and necessary activities. I don’t think I want to try an escort or massage therapist as they are seeing clients, but rather find another person who has been isolating. I have opened communication with some people who are game who have also quarantined. We are looking at a safe encounter with masks (I will miss kissing). Has anyone tried this yet? How did it go? Any tips and keeping it exciting?
  17. Polk Salad Annie by Tony joe White
  18. I always wear a mask when I leave the house. 2 actually as with 2 masks my glasses don’t fog up so much. If I am completely alone I may lower it, same when biking. Recently in my neighborhood they have closed streets so there can be al fresco dining and tables outside the bars, now that drinking is involved I don’t feel safe in these areas as it can be shoulder to shoulder and with a beer in hand there is definitely no mask on. Remember their mask is to stop them from spreading to everyone else. That being said when this pandemic passes I hope the closed streets continue.
  19. It depends on their attitude and how they turned me down. Many encounters I’ve had from Scruff or Grindr have been less than ideal ending with a lecture which I find is being shamed. “If you see me out in public you don’t know me, we have never met and don’t acknowledge me”. If I get a sense of that same attitude from a person I will not hire them. That being said they have a sex drive too and a type and I don’t fault them for looking. In the end i would likely I would be more generous to a nice guy i met on an app and was sincere than a guy just looking to make a few bucks off me
  20. My avatar is me, in 2012. I was 52 at the time.
  21. Reminds me of the episode of Friends where Ross massages an older fellow with kitchen spoons
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