Kris Parkes

absolutely!!

Buy 10 get one. I had punch cards made.

In what shape is the punch?

@ Lonely John - The people you reference have no intention of meeting. They are horny and bored, a bit pathetic, but not serious about meeting.

I do not keep notes, but when I receive calls and/or text messages from gamers or time wasters, I save them in my phone as WOT#1 WOT#2 WOT#3, etc… WOT = Waste Of Time. This way when they call or text me, I ignore or delete it.

So if a client asked for something specific request (Nothing gross I assure you) but more along the lines of dressing up in a particular costume (cosplay) or something like that, would most escorts be open to that?

I can't speak for most, but for me, it's a non-issue to have special requests communicated. But I decide if I wish to partake or not. Role-play is easy and im good at it. Special clothing/costumes are cool too. BUT if its not something I normally wear on the street, then I will need to change into it at your place.

Thanks for the info guys, very helpful.

RM posted a warning about Zurich, so I'm curious if anyone has recent experiences there.

No.

If I takes messages from regulars or a repeat out of consideration, my breakdown is:

30% are either bored, horny or both, but have no interest in actually meeting. "What will happen when we meet?"

20% are also a total waste of time, asking to see more pics, when there are several on the site where they found me

20% are far in advance planners. Its January, and they are asking about meeting in September when they are scheduled to visit NYC, or they are asking when I have plans to be in another city other than where I am.

10% Want to just tell me my pic or dick is nice.

20% Are real inquiries, of which maybe 40 -50% actually work out.

Therefore, I'm happy to have my regulars!!

I prefer direct, to the point text messages.

I can usually tell right away if the contact effort is insincere.

If the client is new, they should call me when ready to meet. If it's a repeat, we can book a week or so in advance. I have learned the hard way, so I NEVER book a new client in advance. Because, more often than not, when I do, someone else will call for immediate, and I don't take it because of the advance booking, but then the advanced booking is a no-show.

You should ask whenever you want to see them. That's what it seems most do. Its kinda like shopping, maybe? You see the new Nikes in the window (or web page), you go into the store to see them in person, (or click to see them up close). neither of the second step options will annoy a sales person nor guarantee a purchase.

For me, BFE means a more intimate personal attention during the session, as opposed to a domination, ass spanking, gut punching, sneaker sniffing, trampling, golden shower, fisted session. No?

There is no right or wrong way to communicate. If your questions can be understood and answered, and both parties know when and where to be, then effective communication has occurred, goddammmittttttt!

Shit happens, if they cancel, I understand, and will allow them to book again. But if he/she is a no-show, with no apology nor viable explanation. They don't get a second chance, they are officially shut down. In either case, I don't send requests for payments of any kind.

Well I have several client relationships that have out last most marriages.

I get your point. But typically when someone has such specific requirements, its a conversation first.

I would rather just say what do you I get into: BFE, safe only, flipping, etc.

 

It sounds so sleazy asking such a general question.

 

What if @Kris Parkes he wants to film the scene, spank you, do pup play putting you on a kennel, etc. because you didn't tell him you DON'T do that?

It actually is a good thing. It's a form of communication.

My answer would be, "yes, I have limits...Blood and scat." If a client is looking for either of those, then I'm not interested.

I have never requested an Uber before, but there are some situations where I might do so.

Your offer to pick up and return is kind, but in actuality it could be good or bad. $70 each way is what a 30 -40 minute ride? If so, in Uber, the scort can look out the window, play with his phone or whatever. If its you, you will expect to be engaged in "getting to know you" conversation, that otherwise might not occur if he arrived via Uber.

Also when the session is over, there is another block of time to be filled with some sort of engagement. If for whatever reason the session did not go well it could be really awkward or uncomfortable..

It's a nice gesture, but I'd probably opt for the Uber or find a guy closer to your pad, or find a hotel closer to your scort's location.

Well if I'm snoring, you had better get to sucking, that will make me stop.

Yeah, unless he has a bleeding cut on that finger. I think the other purpose for gloves is to protect the person being fingered from sharp fingernails?

Uhhh Yeah, about that... You might have better luck in San Francisco, definitely in NYC.

I've done similar before, it's a guy around the corner. Honestly I had never seen him before, and have not yet run into him in the hood. I also have had it happen with a distant coworker when traveling abroad for a company meeting. HA!

Sometimes I match my rate to the economy of the country, state, or city...