CMail01

I had a somewhat terrifying experience about nine years ago, and it was my fault. A guy was advertising somewhere off the 405, north of Brentwood-ish. You’d get a scrubdown in a shower with six heads, a “Japanese soak” (I believe) in a warm bath, and a massage. (It appears pretty much all of us walk into new situations with a bit of trepidation, which is smart.) The scrub was fine, but during the soak, he wanted me to lie back with my head just barely above the water, him holding me, and I thought, “Oh fk, he’s going to try to drown me, and I think he’ll succeed.” What panic. Obviously I “won” in telling him I didn’t want the DAMN soak, and I’m alive. It was terrifying in that moment. 

I have not met Jay Jay, but I would do yourself a favor and only consider HIM unless someone else has something to say. 

Balking at $600-$800 isn’t “cheap”. It’s using the head you have with a brain. 

Very sorry for this. But for any possible newbies: NEVER prepay. Under NO circumstances. 

Has anyone ever seen him? Thank you!

https://rentmen.eu/Hungsmoothtwink

Over the last seemingly TWENTY YEARS of his ads, I got the impression it was all about (1) HIS butt and (2) not having one teenie folicle of hair on his body. Maybe I’m confused but I don’t think so. 

I bet you had an issue with “retained”. That is seemingly a formal word for “hired” in this situation (but I loved it). “I retained the services of the dashingly non-wolf-like Teenwolf at my flat in the west end of Chesheshire, 116 Padwick to be precise…”

Uh my two cents: I think there are as many as 3-4 different guys in those photos (and I’m not talking amount of chest hair), and the three reviews I looked at paid $900, $300 and $300. Riiiiight. 

I KNOW I’ve seen him dancing at Micky’s via Club Papi emails. 

5 hours ago, nycmassageme said:

Anyone else find the "Asian guys welcome" remark weird, or am I just being over-sensitive?

I agree a bit. He should just say “I don’t discriminate against ANYONE” to show he’s not one of those assholes who dares to write “no Asians”.

Just don’t get some of these guys. 

I think there will never be a definitive answer on the differences, unless at the providers’ next annual convention they hold a vote. It’s up to the provider and what HE thinks are the definitions and what he wants especially at the moment the massage is happening. I think our perceptions are shaped by the first time we said, “I’m going to try a sensual massage,” and what we got, and during the next successive ones. 

You will be VERY happy if you can connect for a massage. 

What city?

Uhhh, scan the dates of the first dozen or so of the 64 reviews. There ain’t no damn real masseur getting that many reviews and in that short amount of time.

Heed the words of needbodywork. He is 100% accurate, and I say mid-40s isn’t out of bounds. That’s FINE, of course, but he is lying and is 20 yrs older than that pic.

Mmm, a masseur making demands gives one such warm, comforting assurance.

It’s been maybe two years since I saw him. It was just ODD. The massage was unremarkable, and there were zero sensual elements even though advertised like now. I decided he’s one of the ymmv’s, but if you do have the “mileage,” it isn’t worth it, so it’s certainly not worth seeing if you do have the mileage!

I felt his massive ? at Micky’s in WeHo more than once in the early 2000s. Rather shocked to see he’s massaging.

It seems like every time I find a masseur that I like, I end up having feelings for him.

 

Without failure I end up with a crush for him. I find myself checking up on him just to see how he’s doing. During the pandemic I even gave him $100-$300 weekly as I felt sorry for him because his business came to an end because of social distancing and people weren’t ready to get massages.

 

He always declines my social invitations nicely and always has a reason but when we’re together I just get lost in his touch and his ability to find all my spots that turn me on like no other. Maybe secretly I was hoping he would start to have feelings for me too.

 

Please know that I am not playing the victim here. I understand that (for him) it’s just business. I’m wondering if anyone can offer me any kind of advice or tips on not developing feelings for my masseur or how to avoid them?

Are you single or in an open relationship where the other knows you’re getting massages?

I thought you were headed toward a “wait for them to ask because it might be an entrapment” scenario. Anyway, afterward I simply put money on something (table, etc) that is in their line of site and never discuss it.

Has anyone had an experience with Rome here in LA? The last post I could find was vague and from 2017.

 

https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/40240/

 

Thanks!

He has such a warm, inviting vibe, and I love how he’s proudly gay. If his location wasn’t such a haul for me, I’d try him just based on the ad.

I think there needs to be one caveat here more explicit than”ymmv”: if you look like most of the guys in the Hottest Massage Videos chat, odds are you’re getting more.

Don’t do it. I think y’all will understand this: with him you get these thoughts “Whyyyyy did I pick him? Whyyyyy am I here? WHYYYYYYY?!” Zero skills. Arrogant as hell.

Very interesting that the first four of us to comment all got the exact same vibe. I thought just “three Asian masseurs [arriving]” seemingly close to each other reeked. Hope we’re wrong, but it doesn’t feel like it.