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oh ignore me.  whoops 

i'm confused, is he back in nyc and works at Renew? 

my BF and I have been together for about 2 years.   He knew I liked massages sometimes with a HE.   for me its mostly about the "will it/won't it happen" thing that excites me.   He has no interest.  We told each other that we would always tell the other one if something happened and I agreed to that.   One time I got a massage from a man that I was not into at all, and it was very unexpected considering the place/establishment, but he finished me off.   I get hard very easily and can cum no matter what.  so this dude jacks me off and I was very surprised by it.  I was gonna take it to the grave but he asked me a few weeks later, "I feel like you hooked up with someone or got a dirty massage recently" and I told him yes, "sorry I lied, I was embarrassed and shocked it happened, wasn't expecting it, didnt feel the need to tell".        that didnt go over well hahah.     regardless, we set a new rule that those interactions don't need to be disclosed.  I will still tell him sometimes if it happens but it feels like a little too much.   Its something I like to do, it takes an hour, i like to cum a lot, and its not like I'm done for the day if someone jacks me off.  so I dont feel the need to tell him everytime.    It works for us but it took some arguments and trust discussions to get there.    

The guy with the tattoo is Buck Richards. I actually like it, perhaps more if that was his only ink. Unfortunate that he didn't top with that big dick.

dude. for sure! he 100% should have topped the other guy. but it's nice to see his dick flopped around under him and i love when my cock gets massaged from behind like that. so i thoroughly enjoyed it. and yeah i can look past the tattoo doesn't bother me so much. thanks for identifying him for me. his cock is 100% ideal. beautiful

https://www.icegay.tv/movies/2285261/gallery-gr-gayroom-the-bearded-clien

this video has some pretty hot moments. the client has the most beautiful penis and the masseur is gorgeous. the shitty music goes away after 5 minutes and just disregard one of the more unfortunate tattoos of all time

THIS!!!!

 

Taoist Massage - Griffin Barrows

https://www.taoistmasseur.com/videos?wix-vod-video-id=8b40aaf398414c6087fa99bd2d6df8ab&wix-vod-comp-id=comp-kbjdchn7

now THAT was what ive been looking for. super legit sexy massage video

I am sure you are fine. When I intend to see the masseur again, i tend to be more generous...greasing the skids so to speak, for the next meeting. But also keeping in mind that your generosity from one session to the next will be compares by the masseur, so don’t go overboard. If you are ‘overly generous’ you may set expectations that can lead to disappointment and frictions in the future. I keep a tight rein on my generosity and keep it very consistent from session to session. ?

 

It sounds like you are considering slipping him more for the previous visit? I would not do that - too much chance of sending mixed messages. When next you see him, tell him how much you enjoyed the previous session, totally MADE your week. A little flattery to send the message: I want that again! If he gets the message and you get another good session, then up your generosity to the level he can expect in the future.

 

Also consider where you are located (just to level set). In this example, $160 may go a looonng way in Jacksonville FL, but not so in Los Angeles CA. You did not mention your location. Finding the right balance takes a bit of time. You will figure out what works for you after a while. In your example, in NYC if I received a great 90 minute massage plus 30 minutes play time with 2 HEs as you described and I intended to visit again, I would shell out $200. Again, that is just me - other may disagree. You do you.

ok. i feel you on that point of not setting up expectations. i have been seeing this guy maybe once every two months or so for the last two years. it has been developing very slowly over the course of that time. it's not a rub and tug place. so part of me felt a little bad about it. the previous time i saw him i was very very hard and nothing happened but i gave him about 35% tip (kind of just cause the massage is good, but also as sort of a "sorry i keep coming here and getting so obviously turned on" ) so i think we both knew this was gonna happen this time

which is just to say i've been "greasing the skids"

maybe next time i will just give him the increased, appropriate tip and level off there. he is very good at what he does

and oh yeah, i'm in NYC Sooo

Speaking only for myself - if I received a solid massage for 90 minutes and then an additional 30 minutes or so of erotic play time...probably would have shelled out $180 minimum if satisfied and enjoyable. You went with $160 which is fair in my book, but I would have chosen to show a little more generosity. Just my 2c.

shit! ok. thanks. he deserves more

i'll bump it up next time and give him an extra bonus to make up for the other day. thanks for responding.

I recently went to a legit Chinese massage place that I frequent and have been to probably 10 times over the past 2 years. The massage is $90 for 90 minutes. I usually tip 20% so a $20 Tip. This last time however, It began to get obviously erotic in nature and the masseur asked if I wanted to go for another 30 minutes. I said yes and then got 2 HE. Because of the added time, the price was $115. I tipped him $45 and at the time I felt that was fine. But over the past few days, Ive been thinking that it was too little. I don't want to have offended the man. Do you think this was enough?

Not sure if you are in the minority as I am like you. Like a nice build up but once done, want to leave asap. I think it is the tension that begins at the start of the session till the end that keeps me wanting for more.

I feel you! I think its sort of a natural response to be totally done after you "are done". I had a massage the other day that was for 90 minutes and it was ambiguously charged throughout. right at the end it started to heat up and the provider asked if I wanted to extend the session another 30 minutes, I said yes and then it was full on. with 2 HE. he was going for a third and I told him to stop as it probably wasnt going to happen. I WAS thinking after the first one that I wanted to get out of there but then I just relaxed and let the massage continue. It was kind of nice to just lay there and let whatever happened happen.

bump. hes pretty hot

No experience, but have always wondered about Carlos Franco. Asked here a long time ago and didn’t get any responses. He has his own physical therapy biz with good Yelp reviews. Never reached out to inquire about the details beyond therapeutic.

 

https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/27298/

 

https://www.mapquest.com/us/new-york/loyola-physical-therapy-303902109

i've been so

curious about this dude. he's so cute but i've never heard any info about him

thanks for the response, maybe I will further my membership and try out some massages with other members. none of the therapists (PROS) on there really appeal to me at this time

Hey, Just wondering if anyone has had a massage from any of the providers from MMX massage group. I am a "member" but I've never booked anything or gone to any of their events, just curious if anyone has and what their experience was

Here it is: https://onlyfans.com/masterchen/videos

 

The newest video from a couple pf days ago with the Russian is indeed pretty great. The rest of the content isn't quite up to par. But it looks like they're new to producing these videos, so hopefully things improve.

I Have to say the same thing! I subscribed to his onlyfans and that video is great! worth the $5. I love how he gives an actually amazing massage and you know its legit. and the way that he he massages so that the towel falls a little but more each stroke to expose the dudes. I fucking love that. THIS is the type of massage I love. Getting an ACTUAL massage with some dangerously-close-to-the-balls action that turns to an exposed hard on.

I think this one is pretty nice:

 

https://www.xvideos.com/video38897127/boy_massage_with_hot_guy

 

They both seem to appreciate how things progress. My kind of massage.

very sensual! makes me miss massages. (and having sex in general ugh)

I used to go to Dodge Ymca before the shut down and have to say I love the open showers and steamroom there! highly agree

the good the bad the...?

whats TGTBT

Simple. It's called editing. Or to be generous, a "second take". In your defense, I can see how trying to think of the Coronavirus wasn't helping reduce the swelling down there, as it can resemble an eager starfish waiting to be penetrated from certain angles...

oh man! dont know about all that hahah

I want to just last a lil longer, not kill my boner entirely! haha

Bust a nut before you leave the house.

yeah totally . i suppose it seems like an amateur question. it makes complete sense

So, I gather like many of you, I am VERY into massages and erotic massages and the tension, the build up, the whole thing. Lately this has spilled over into Legit massages I get where I end up being just super rock hard for most of the time. I used to be able to divert my thinking and try and think about politics and everyday things. (today was "CoronaVirus, CoronaVirus, CoronaVirus!!") but it has stopped working. The heart of my question is that I am getting so fucking turned on by all the build up that when it comes to a greased up HE, i bust so fast. I recently did a deep dive into the "Hottest Massage Video" thread and those guys sometimes aren't even hard when they get flipped over and then they get a HE for 20 minutes and I'm left wondering WHAT IS THE SECRET! i just want to enjoy it longer .

See what you mean. Unless you know the masseur in a spa, it is a lottery.

totally . haha . thanks bud!

rentmasseur.com/johnsport drapes you and undrapes you...

I appreciate the response Harryinny, and johnsport is very handsome but going through rentmasseur sort of kills the vibe for me since I am sort of going on the thrill of "maybe something will happen, maybe it wont" . I suppose conceptually, it's almost an unanswerable question but I bet someone may have the answer hahah

Hey. I like getting all types massages and have received all kinds. I've gone to almost every men's spa and hired guys off off some pages. But what I am kind of really into is going to a place that is legit and having the possibility that it might turn erotic. for instance, the other day I received a massage where I was draped with a towel and the gentleman pulled it down to mid thigh while I was on my stomach. I was fully exposed and loved it and when he went to get hot stones I sort of assessed the situation and could tell that he could completely see my balls and hard cock. There was some inner leg stroking but it all seemed theraputic. The massage ended normally and there was no HE or anything, which was what I was expecting. Does anyone know of a good male massage therapist that is Legit but does light draping or might be a lil sloppy with that aspect of things and could potentially turn erotic? This is not so straight forward, I know, and If people don't want to post names as it could be compromising for the therapist, could you please DM me? Thanks so much.